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Victim mindset among young men regarding women

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I know it's hard in the digital age to socialize and deal with women face to face but there is a trend among young men such as myself (23M) to subconsciously blame women for their lack of success with them. You dont have to be an incel to do that. The MANOSPHERE as a whole did way more damage to guys psyche than did any good. Of course your looks matter, but you still NEED to initiate with women, such as everywhere else in the biological kingdom. It would seem obvious, but I see a lot of ,,blaming the opposite sex" type of content on this forum. I know it can be hard out here, but there exist a ton of below average looking men who still date and stuff just because they initiate and socialize.

You have to take responsibility just like Leo says.

These ,,pills" got me to pretty dark places even though I had success with women and I'm decent looking.

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This kind of guys rarely initiate conversations with women in reality, they feel too proud to even smile to women, rarely share something real with women. Most of what they know about women is from other men like themselves on the internet who have a very little direct experience with women. They brainwashed by multiple biological and psychological theoretical nonsense about women and spread it on the internet like a cancer. Then use it as excuse to avoid women and complain about women only not to take responsibility and actually make things happen with women.

They call themselves men but are waiting for the women they want to approach them while they're sitting at home doing really nothing. They usually have shadows regarding femininity and believe that their masculinity is well developed while in really they are very far from it.

And yeah I saw not conventionally attractive men in relationships and happily married to women only because they talk to women and don't have inferiority complexes. They treat women equality and don't do a big deal of it.

 

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@fabgerYou are a rare independent thinker ?


Who teaches us whats real and how to laugh at lies? Who decides why we live and what we'll die to defend?Who chain us? And who holds the Key that can set us free? 

It's you.

You have all the weapons you need 

Now fight.

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Victim mindset = submissiveness. Submissiveness gets programmed into men by femdom porn. Girl on top of guy. Girl doing things to guy while he does nothing. ASMR falls into this category. 


I left this forum because a moderator has a problem with me talking positively about myself and giving advice. This reflects the forum as a whole. This place is negative, bitter, hateful and anti success. If you don't notice this that's because you're one of them. I hope some of you benefited from my posts. Take care.

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@Eyowey victim mindset also programmed by adults that the child is around including to the people they listen to at school and online 

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Women around the world endure so much misogyny in their lives, humilating, devalue, disrespect, lack of opportunities but this kind of men with victim mentality would look at this instagram model with 1000 likes for a post and declare that women's life is much easier.

Women scarifies their dreams, freedom, dedicating big chunks of their lives for raising children, taking care of their elderly parents, mothering their husbands and having demanding jobs to feed their kids but this kind of men with victim mentality would declare that women are selfish because some girl didn't approached him.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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3 minutes ago, John Paul said:

@Eyowey victim mindset also programmed by adults that the child is around including to the people they listen to at school and online 

True. Young humans are basically slaves for 18 years. Some even longer than that. Finding your own authentic desires becomes a challenge.


I left this forum because a moderator has a problem with me talking positively about myself and giving advice. This reflects the forum as a whole. This place is negative, bitter, hateful and anti success. If you don't notice this that's because you're one of them. I hope some of you benefited from my posts. Take care.

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On 28/11/2022 at 9:59 PM, Eyowey said:

Victim mindset = submissiveness. Submissiveness gets programmed into men by femdom porn. Girl on top of guy. Girl doing things to guy while he does nothing. ASMR falls into this category. 

Dude, what are you smoking?

On 28/11/2022 at 6:51 PM, fabger said:

I know it's hard in the digital age to socialize and deal with women face to face but there is a trend among young men such as myself (23M) to subconsciously blame women for their lack of success with them. You dont have to be an incel to do that. The MANOSPHERE as a whole did way more damage to guys psyche than did any good. Of course your looks matter, but you still NEED to initiate with women, such as everywhere else in the biological kingdom. It would seem obvious, but I see a lot of ,,blaming the opposite sex" type of content on this forum. I know it can be hard out here, but there exist a ton of below average looking men who still date and stuff just because they initiate and socialize.

You have to take responsibility just like Leo says.

These ,,pills" got me to pretty dark places even though I had success with women and I'm decent looking.

The silliest thing I see guys in this sphere do is judge themselves based on how often women approach them. If women don't approach them they decide that they are worthless, rather than realising that the masculine/feminine dynamic is built upon the man doing the initiating.

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Most people will play the victim in every domain possible.

Obviously this happens with men and women.

It’s easier to blame women than to “man up” and consciously improve yourself.

If your life sucks it’s because you suck.

Period.


The game of survival cannot be won. 

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