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Interesting Video Of A Woman Explaining How Women Rate Men

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There are some differences I have noticed from what she says and what I have observed but in general she is on the money. But the MOST important part of this message is at the END!!! If you are with a woman who does what she states at the end then she is completely right that woman is NOT for you.

But in general if when a woman is around you she feels emotionally secure and free to be herself, she feels completely free during sex, she feels stimulated mentally, and she feels her survival (bills, etc) is stable....that woman ain't going anywhere. Now most women...if the sex is good, and the emotional connection is good, she will tolerate the rest.....but obviously she would prefer if all the boxes are checked if she can find it. 

Every woman that is searching for a man is looking for the best man she can find (from her POV) this drive is no different than the male drive to fuck everything lol. Every man is looking for the best fuck from a biological standpoint, and every woman is looking for the best lifestyle/experience partner from a biological standpoint. 

 


You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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In my experience looks matters the most to women and that's a good thing. Your appearance is a reflection of what's going on inside you. From age 12 to 27 I didn't get any attention from women. A few months ago I decided to attain superior physical health by getting fresh air, eating raw foods without additives, retaining semen and exercising. Only now do I get stares, blushes, hair twirls and girls approaching me. 

Most women don't want you to know this because they don't want you to neglect the money aspect. Which is understandable.

 


I left this forum because a moderator has a problem with me talking positively about myself and giving advice. This reflects the forum as a whole. This place is negative, bitter, hateful and anti success. If you don't notice this that's because you're one of them. I hope some of you benefited from my posts. Take care.

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On 11/22/2022 at 10:35 AM, Eyowey said:

In my experience looks matters the most to women and that's a good thing. Your appearance is a reflection of what's going on inside you. From age 12 to 27 I didn't get any attention from women. A few months ago I decided to attain superior physical health by getting fresh air, eating raw foods without additives, retaining semen and exercising. Only now do I get stares, blushes, hair twirls and girls approaching me. 

Most women don't want you to know this because they don't want you to neglect the money aspect. Which is understandable.

 

Thinking looks matter most is a trap. Looks make the interaction and effort you put in easier, but there is a famous phrase women say "He was hot/sexy until he opened his mouth." Looks are just bait, and they are the emulsifier, of all interactions with women. If a man isn't that funny or charming, the looks are a buffer to make him more palatable (easy to digest) and sure it can make it easier for him to have sex with her if she is physically attracted to him.

But women aren't aroused by sex the same way that men are. Women enjoy the FANTASY of a man, far more than the actual man. If she meets you....and she cannot get a certain vibe from you....she will drop you. So while looks certainly can make it easier, if you are boring to a woman and don't have a lot of depth....she will get bored with you fast!!! This advice is only useful for long term relationships though. 


You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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56 minutes ago, Razard86 said:

Women enjoy the FANTASY of a man, far more than the actual man

I don't know what this means. I'm assuming you mean masculine energy or social status. 


I left this forum because a moderator has a problem with me talking positively about myself and giving advice. This reflects the forum as a whole. This place is negative, bitter, hateful and anti success. If you don't notice this that's because you're one of them. I hope some of you benefited from my posts. Take care.

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10 hours ago, Razard86 said:

But women aren't aroused by sex the same way that men are.

Maybe not by the "idea" of sex, but once it's happened they love it even MORE than men in my experience. Getting skilled and good at sex was one of the best things I ever did for improving results my intimate life. If you can provide great sex to your woman it's like giving her crack/cocaine xD. She will fiend for it and overlook/forget most of your other flaws. Being able to make her cum and feel wanted will separate you from 9/10 of the other partners she's had, because chances are they didn't know how to get her off and just went through a shitty male-centric porn routine every time.

The trick is how do you reliably convince the women you want to be with to have sex with you, without doing it too fast or aggressively. That selling part is much harder than actually driving the car.


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14 hours ago, Eyowey said:

I don't know what this means. I'm assuming you mean masculine energy or social status. 

Women need to be able to look up to their man. So a woman erects a storyline in her mind of the guy that she is with. If he ever violates her story in such a way that he appears weak to her...she will lose respect for him. If a woman loses respect for her man, she will lose attraction for him. This means she no longer views him the way she once did.

Men are different, as long as a woman is hot, and they don't have too much conflict and he gets a steady diet of sex, food, and peace and quiet the man is fine. But women want to enjoy a deep emotional connection with her man that culminates in sex. If a man destroys the fantasy that a woman has built up in her head of who her man is....yeah. 

Its why a lot of times for a man to reignite the passion a woman has for him he has to create distance so she can get a chance to drop her old image of him in her head and he can create a new one for her.

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You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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11 hours ago, Roy said:

Maybe not by the "idea" of sex, but once it's happened they love it even MORE than men in my experience. Getting skilled and good at sex was one of the best things I ever did for improving results my intimate life. If you can provide great sex to your woman it's like giving her crack/cocaine xD. She will fiend for it and overlook/forget most of your other flaws. Being able to make her cum and feel wanted will separate you from 9/10 of the other partners she's had, because chances are they didn't know how to get her off and just went through a shitty male-centric porn routine every time.

The trick is how do you reliably convince the women you want to be with to have sex with you, without doing it too fast or aggressively. That selling part is much harder than actually driving the car.

^This I agree with, sex is definitely the best way to pin a woman down as far as her wanting to keep you in her life. But this is usually because most men don't know how, or aren't patient enough to get a woman to climax. As a result any guy that is good at sex is kept in most woman's lives even if they are not together until either she finds a man that she wants to settle down with or finds a guy who is better at sex than him. So no argument for me, but if that guy has a deep emotional connection with her on top of sex in general he will have her locked down for life. 

A secret most don't know is the goal is not just a physical and emotional connection, its also spiritual as well. If a man and a woman can connect on that level...that's when their relationship will become otherworldly. 


You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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12 hours ago, Razard86 said:

A secret most don't know is the goal is not just a physical and emotional connection, its also spiritual as well. If a man and a woman can connect on that level...that's when their relationship will become otherworldly. 

Bingo.  Intuition is right on.  Spiritual compatibility, even in friendship, will turn that relationship otherworldly.  I've experienced this compatibility during mystical experiences and you both aren't 'human' anymore. You both become many different kinds of archetypes (the feminine taps into the mother, the wife, and the maiden). It taps you into what I call the well-being of the collective and you both glow with radiance like no other, especially the masculine, a radiance like a lion's mane. 

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On 11/22/2022 at 3:52 PM, LordFall said:

Bro I wanna see that infield, sounds hype. 

There's no infield from him.

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On 11/29/2022 at 5:45 AM, Proserpina said:

Bingo.  Intuition is right on.  Spiritual compatibility, even in friendship, will turn that relationship otherworldly.  I've experienced this compatibility during mystical experiences and you both aren't 'human' anymore. You both become many different kinds of archetypes (the feminine taps into the mother, the wife, and the maiden). It taps you into what I call the well-being of the collective and you both glow with radiance like no other, especially the masculine, a radiance like a lion's mane. 

Nice!!! I believe currently the collective feminine on the planet of the human species desires that type of connection right now but on a subconscious level.

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You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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