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Comparison between pornography and real sex!

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On 4/18/2022 at 1:21 PM, Someone here said:

You will be shocked..it's boring and not that pleasurable in comparison to porn

You just need to learn to have better sex.

Good sex requires training, skill, and experience. There are many ways to make your sex a lot hotter and deeper. But people are too lazy and uncreative to do it.

Don't form your opinions on sex based off one or two girls you've done it with or some lame ONS. Jerking off is not nearly as emotionally satisfying as sex well-executed.

Sex, like awakening, comes in many degrees. Don't expect girls to just give you great sex on their own. You must lead them into great sex. Train them to have hot sex.


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Sex is better much higher pleasure ceiling 


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1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

You just need to learn to have better sex.

Good sex requires training, skill, and experience. There are many ways to make your sex a lot hotter and deeper. But people are too lazy and uncreative to do it.

Don't form your opinions on sex based off one or two girls you've done it with or some lame ONS. Jerking off is not nearly as emotionally satisfying as sex well-executed.

Sex, like awakening, comes in many degrees. Don't expect girls to just give you great sex on their own. You must lead them into great sex. Train them to have hot sex.

Yes I kinda agree  .

Though im noticing many physical changes, I was surprised to realize that those changes had little effect on my ability to enjoy sex .

 The reason for that is, now that I'm in my 25s my view of sex has evolved from when I was a teenager from merely a physical expression into something more personal, intimate and even spiritual. The physicality of sex, while still important, takes a back seat to how it feels to make a connection with my partner and to be fully present in moments of intimacy.

All it takes is a willingness to let go of judgments and try new things to accommodate the natural physical and emotional changes of having a good sex. It may take trial and error , but this process of exploration can be powerful (and very sexy) if i approach it with patience and vulnerability.

I think Using lube is a simple and inexpensive way to make sex feel comfortable . Making a  lube a regular part of my sex life, and when im with a partner, find ways to make applying it playful and sexy so that it adds to the experience.


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6 minutes ago, Someone here said:

The physicality of sex, while still important, takes a back seat

Great sex is all about your mind, not your body. The physical mechanics are the least important part of sex.

6 minutes ago, Someone here said:

I think Using lube is a simple and inexpensive way to make sex feel comfortable . Making a  lube a regular part of my sex life, and when im with a partner

Never had this need.

Get her and yourself so turned on that you won't even be thinking about lube.


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I'm not sure if sex is pleasurable or not because I'm sexually repressed lol. 

This Leo guy is like the original Trenton Lmao. 

(chuckles) 

 

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41 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Never had this need.

Get her and yourself so turned on that you won't even be thinking about lube.

When girls are turned on ..their pussy becomes wet . So they have natural lube .  But we men ..the dick just erects.   I think it needs some lube to feel more slippery and pleasurable  .and also to protect the penis from overstimulation and friction. 


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55 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

I'm not sure if sex is pleasurable or not because I'm sexually repressed lol. 

This Leo guy is like the original Trenton Lmao. 

(chuckles) 

 

Just wait then hahah

Its amazing


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51 minutes ago, Someone here said:

When girls are turned on ..their pussy becomes wet . So they have natural lube .  But we men ..the dick just erects.   I think it needs some lube to feel more slippery and pleasurable  .and also to protect the penis from overstimulation and friction. 

Dude, dick drips as much as a pussy if not more. Just get properly aroused.

Jerking off does not produce proper drip. You need an actual hot girl to arouse you properly.


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1 hour ago, Thought Art said:

Just wait then hahah

Its amazing

Ohhh


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I don't know if it's semen or what that which lubricates that. 

 


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Sex has dimensions, are you taking from physical dimension point of you? 
Have you ever tried to explore another dimension through sex? 
 

Sex is a door to divinity. You have a little bit twisted  vision of it. 

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52 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Dude, dick drips as much as a pussy if not more. Just get properly aroused.

Jerking off does not produce proper drip. You need an actual hot girl to arouse you properly.

Are you talking about precum?  When I fap I notice it oozing ..but it's low in quantity ..not that much to give you full lubrication.  

And I think yeah..it depends on how intensely I'm aroused .

13 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

I don't know if it's semen or what that which lubricates that. 

 

No .semen come out when we cum (have an orgasm).  There is fluid that comes out of the penis called precum. It comes out when we are aroused .and it helps with lubrication. 

8 minutes ago, Galyna said:

Sex has dimensions, are you taking about physical dimension point of you? 
have you ever tried to explore another dimension through sex? 

What do you mean by other dimensions? 


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6 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Are you talking about precum?  When I fap I notice it oozing ..but it's low in quantity ..not that much to give you full lubrication.  

And I think yeah..it depends on how intensely I'm aroused .

No .semen come out when we cum (have an orgasm).  There is fluid that comes out of the penis called precum. It comes out when we are aroused .and it helps with lubrication. 

What do you mean by other dimensions? 

Oh me..let me expend on this…would be a great topic for my article. I will share. 


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7 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Are you talking about precum?  When I fap I notice it oozing ..but it's low in quantity ..not that much to give you full lubrication.  

And I think yeah..it depends on how intensely I'm aroused .

No .semen come out when we cum (have an orgasm).  There is fluid that comes out of the penis called precum. It comes out when we are aroused .and it helps with lubrication. 

What do you mean by other dimensions? 

Then what's your deal with using lube? 

 


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10 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Are you talking about precum?  When I fap I notice it oozing ..but it's low in quantity ..not that much to give you full lubrication.  

And I think yeah..it depends on how intensely I'm aroused .

No .semen come out when we cum (have an orgasm).  There is fluid that comes out of the penis called precum. It comes out when we are aroused .and it helps with lubrication. 

What do you mean by other dimensions? 

Also, what are you trying to achieve with sex?


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6 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Then what's your deal with using lube? 

 

The problem is it comes out in such low quantities. Its not enough to lubricate the penis .so i need to use a lube like my spit or some olive oil .

 


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6 minutes ago, Galyna said:

Also, what are you trying to achieve with sex?

Pleasure. Obviously. 


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1 minute ago, Someone here said:

Pleasure. Obviously. 

Lol, wrong. 
you can achieve so many things through sex, pleasure is just one of it. 
1. Healing 

2. ascension 

3. Energetic charge

4. Better understanding of your polarity and masculinity/feminine sexuality 

5. Success 

6. Even sex can help you to expand your hidden talents

 


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2 hours ago, Someone here said:

When girls are turned on ..their pussy becomes wet . So they have natural lube .  But we men ..the dick just erects.   I think it needs some lube to feel more slippery and pleasurable  .and also to protect the penis from overstimulation and friction. 

I think I might be the only one that finds masturbating more pleasurable without lube. I think the dryness allows for more friction or something, which makes it more pleasurable for me. I am strictly talking about masturbation here, btw.

 

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"God is not a conclusion, it is a sudden revelation. When you see a rose it is not that you go through a logical solipsism, "This is a rose, and roses are beautiful, so this must be beautiful." The moment you see it, the head stops spinning thoughts. On the contrary, your heart starts beating faster. It is something totally different from the idea of truth." -Osho

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14 minutes ago, Galyna said:

Lol, wrong. 
you can achieve so many things through sex, pleasure is just one of it. 
1. Healing 

2. ascension 

3. Energetic charge

4. Better understanding of your polarity and masculinity/feminine sexuality 

5. Success 

6. Even sex can help you to expand your hidden talents

 

What else? 

And would you explain how exactly can you extract that from having sex ? Especially the "healing, " and "success " part .


"life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived "

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