Posted November 9, 2021 (edited) for me prostitution makes men and women akin to mortal enemies, like a crack addict turning every stone to get at their dealer in some circumstances yea it can be okay, for example some disabled people have no other way of experiencing intimacy but in most cases for me it makes the world more polarized alienating cold and desperate it is like engaging in legalized slavery when you realize how dehumanized it makes the sex provider in short i believe it fosters mutual ever growing hatred between the parties in the long run ... but that's just me Edited November 9, 2021 by gettoefl Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 @ivankiss A friend of mine had a feminist, artist prostitute as a grandmother. There are some women who do this job and somewhat find a lot of beauty in it. Maybe try to find one of them. You'll be a better client for her than most. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 (edited) 24 minutes ago, gettoefl said: it is like engaging in legalized slavery when you realize how dehumanized it makes the sex provider in short i believe it fosters mutual ever growing hatred between the parties in the long run ... but that's just me i'd say most of capitalism is like legalized slavery it's also not fun for a guy to work 45 yrs at a factory or something and then still barely get by when tax time comes and i'm not sure i get your point of growing hatred, why do you mean that? Edited November 9, 2021 by PurpleTree Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 (edited) To be stupid or not to be stupid. Very difficult choice indeed. Lol Focus on smth else maybe, these desires will pass soon and you will feel good that you didn't go that road in the end. I think somewhere deep you know it. That's why the struggle is happening within you. Just do the right thing, you'll be glad in the end. ? Edited November 9, 2021 by Salvijus Those you do not forgive you fear. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 anyone read siddharta the guy basically searched for enlightenment and stayed with a prostitute for yrs or decades Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 8 minutes ago, PurpleTree said: i'd say most of capitalism is like legalized slavery it's also not fun for a guy to work 45 yrs at a factory or something and then still barely get by when tax time comes and i'm not sure i get your point of growing hatred, why do you mean that? hatred since you are both slaves ... is there a slave loving their mas'r no don't compare getting up going to do office work with sex work Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 2 minutes ago, gettoefl said: hatred since you are both slaves ... is there a slave loving their mas'r no don't compare getting up going to do office work with sex work why not, many of those women could go work in an office or a factory at a store, nurse, cleaning etc., they'd get much less money though i'm not talking about sex trade people forced into prostitution here obviously only voluntarily higher class prostitutes Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 (edited) 17 minutes ago, PurpleTree said: why not, many of those women could go work in an office or a factory at a store, nurse, cleaning etc., they'd get much less money though i'm not talking about sex trade people forced into prostitution here obviously only voluntarily higher class prostitutes no person in their right mind opts for sex work ... it exacts enormous psychological costs wounds stigma trauma ,,, all of which is imo unfixable why do they do it? they are damaged, and damaged they will stay the longer they remain at it Edited November 9, 2021 by gettoefl Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 I'm thinking very selfishly here. What's right or wrong for me, only. The prostitute's point of view, is a whole other topic. A different story. Not really my business. I also don't really give a fuck about what society thinks about this. I'm just not sure if I should satisfy the urge, or transcend it. I see value in both sides. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 (edited) The whole society is damaged. And these things like going to prostitutes only makes the collective world situation worse. Either you're a part of the problem, or you're a part of the solution. Don’t be a part of a problem if you can, that would be a wise thing to do. ? Edited November 9, 2021 by Salvijus Those you do not forgive you fear. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 5 minutes ago, ivankiss said: I'm thinking very selfishly here. What's right or wrong for me, only. The prostitute's point of view, is a whole other topic. A different story. Not really my business. I also don't really give a fuck about what society thinks about this. I'm just not sure if I should satisfy the urge, or transcend it. I see value in both sides. if you could earn a years salary by being a crack dealer for 24 hours if there was no chance of being caught would you do it Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 1 hour ago, gettoefl said: if you could earn a years salary by being a crack dealer for 24 hours if there was no chance of being caught would you do it depends who to sell it to adults who can decide for themselves maybe i know a guy and a chick who smokes crack sometimes, the guy still goes to work everyday etc. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 (edited) 12 minutes ago, PurpleTree said: depends who to sell it to adults who can decide for themselves maybe i know a guy and a chick who smokes crack sometimes, the guy still goes to work everyday etc. it's a yes no question, seems you vote yes, the ones being sold to are akin to the prostitute if you follow the analogy Edited November 9, 2021 by gettoefl Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 Just now, gettoefl said: it's a yes no question, seems you vote yes whatever obviously for me it's not a yes no Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 1 minute ago, PurpleTree said: whatever obviously for me it's not a yes no it was worded to elicit yes no but to each their own Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 2 minutes ago, gettoefl said: it was worded to elicit yes no but to each their own ok probably not because crack is trash Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 3 minutes ago, PurpleTree said: ok probably not because crack is trash nice, i wonder what @ivankiss would do, take the pile of money or block the addict getting their hit Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 7 minutes ago, gettoefl said: nice, i wonder what @ivankiss would do, take the pile of money or block the addict getting their hit what about you and the same question but with mdma or alcohol? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 1 minute ago, PurpleTree said: what about you and the same question but with mdma or alcohol? i am in the no camp mainly due to how messed up i perceive sex work is, i wouldn't do something that supports it Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 Bruh no big deal go do it a dozen times get a feel for what it's like and then contemplate further if it's an experience that fulfills you in any way. No shame. It's the oldest profession in the history of mankind. The only one judging you will be yourself. Can you be okay with it or are you going to need a priest to confess? ? World's #1 Spiritual Twerking Coach 🍑 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
