Do not approach women

[Majed]

@Thought Art hahahaha, my purpose isn't to harm women. They're beautiful like a cat. I was just trying to understand the perspective of violent men. I went too far probably for the forum, some things should be kept for myself especially when i didn't fully figure it out. 

[Thought Art]

@Majed Why are you laughing?  You just said some weird and fucked up stuff man. I’d want to avoid you if I was a woman and I saw you said that. 
 

Thr correct path is to really look at you and how wrong that was. Now that’s spirituality. 

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[Majed]

@Thought Art Because the way you said "you zen devil you" was funny to me. 

[Thought Art]

@Majed Fair, I stole that kinda thing from Leo. Be well and keep contemplating and learning. We are all in this together, 

[Majed]

@Thought Art Yeah i am certainly guilty of imperfections. I should work it out still, to figure out the truth from the bullshit. 

[yetineti]

@Majed is actually correct with his more recent point about male perpetrators.

I can see the male violence perpetrator’s mindset and I love them and want what’s best for them, as I do anything else.

The problem is: that almost always means to stop being a male violence perpetrator—immediately—stop it.

Violence against everybody should be avoided. 

Don’t try to spin that.

The problem with that: if your survival feels constantly threatened, and violence becomes a tangible outlet, defense mechanism or simply something more to consider than average—it actually becomes a danger to release violence from your mind.

@Majed — I would be saying ‘that is hippy bullshit’ in Lebanon, if I lived there too. 

You may be in a dangerous situation where talking like a white US twink looking hippie boy like me probably wouldn’t do much good for you there.

I don’t care because I am in US and I can look gay without being gay. I can say without worrying what I say. I can pray without worrying what I pray, etc.

I am sorry for your situation. I respect you trying to balance it with reality.
 

 

 

 

 

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[Thought Art]

 

[Majed]

@Thought Art I watched this video many times already. 

[Majed]

Btw i said some harsh things against women in this thread. Sorry to all the women reading this. Yall deserve love not violence, obviously. 

[Emotionalmosquito]

1 hour ago, something_else said:

I find women very enjoyable to talk to, in fact often more than men on average. So this might be a you problem rather than a woman problem. And seeing how you’re talking about women here just makes me think it’s a you problem even more.

It’s definitely not just a him problem. Most women I try approaching act like I’m some freak of nature just for speaking to them at worst or are totally boring/they politely look for an exit to the interaction. It’s not easy to find an interesting woman who’s open and willing to engage. However, when they do appear, I would agree those are even more fun to talk to than most men. 

[yetineti]

@Majed

Good boy.

Defend yourself at all costs, without making enemies.

Violence can be a resort, but you don’t want to stay there.

 

 

 

 

 

[cetus]

56 minutes ago, Majed said:

I feel like i am understanding the perspective of male violence perpetrators. Honestly sometimes women deserve it. They're so animalistic, that doing violence onto them isn't much difference than killing a chicken for dinner. 

You don't deserve to be here, and this forum has no place for the likes of you. @Leo Gura

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[Thought Art]

We can all do better. Being a man and relating to women is hard. No one is perfect. 
 

You’ve gotta be strong to love.

I’ve felt the anger, fear, shame, confusion, self doubt, distrust, wanting to control, the desire for certainty, for sex. I get it. 
 

But, you’ve gotta grow up and be a fucking man.

Men protect women. They don’t suck on them like leeches, demonize them like fools, hurt them like cowards. Men don’t play victim. They don’t make women lower than them in status. They don’t view them as meat, or as animals. They don’t want to control, abuse or use them. 
 

Real men want consciousness, they want conscious love. Friends, girlfriends, sisters, wives, women in the street, women who like you, women who reject you. You relate to them all consciously from a place of authentic grounding, love, none-neediness. 
 

Men grow up and make sense of this toxic manosphere. They admit to themselves their past wrongs and they grow into strong, loving, protecting, emotionally intelligent, MEN. REAL MEN.

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[Olaf]

@Majed talking about woman that way does more harm then good, for example if you ever came here and wanted to wing with me, I probably wouldn't, because of the things you said against woman. That is then an opportunity you miss by acting out from that emotion, that is just one example, one opportunity, but the same is with any other opportunity, like with girls and guys. Remaining grounded instead of acting from a reactive place will benefit you and will benefit woman. At the end of the day a woman wants a grounded men, not someone that is aggressive or reactive. Being calm and grounded is a super power, that is underestimated. 

[yetineti]

@Emotionalmosquito

I asked a guy about his truck bed cover in a parking lot the other day and he was nice and explained it to me and it was a cool mechanism I hadn’t seen before, but I could tell I was annoying him.

Who likes being approached? This isn’t weird and it’s only going to become more prevalent in this day and age.

 

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[Thought Art]

@yetineti A lot of people are happy you spoke to them. They are lonely. Just don’t be needy and weird. Be giving and kind. Expect some people not to be interested. 

[yetineti]

10 minutes ago, cetus said:

You don't deserve to be here, and this forum has no place for the likes of you. @Leo Gura

@cetus Take it easy. He got warning got point(s) already. If he said something after, qualifying a ‘final’ warning point, revoke this statement. Otherwise, take it easy. Do you live in Beruit? They apologized after receiving some empathy. See where it goes before sharing your opinion, especially being a mod who has actionable liability.

Public ‘tag Leo threats’ just escalated things. If you have the power to ban him, just do it.

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[Thought Art]

Easy guys. 

[yetineti]

2 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

@yetineti A lot of people are happy you spoke to them. They are lonely. Just don’t be needy and weird. Be giving and kind. Expect some people not to be interested. 

This doesn’t address the increasing pattern of less and less public interaction, in general.

You ever play cyberpunk 2057? Those NPCs are going to be our neighbors by 2057, at the rate we’re going.

[Majed]

I don't want to be banned, and i apologize for my misbehavior. I was trying to understand the perspective of male violence perpetrators and the like. Maybe i phrased it wrong. But i don't hurt any woman on a regular so don't worry. It's not like i abuse women or anything in real life, and i apologize for what i said and how i phrased it.