Do not approach women

[LordFall]

1 hour ago, Majed said:

@something_else Nah i've had my fair share of taking responsibility and trying to fix myself, it's women's fault. At this point idgaf. 

Well what value are you offering these women on the street? I told you to host music events and start working with local musicians in Beirut, have you done that? 

Even in most socially open societies cold approach is still low ROI, let alone in the more conservative part of the world that you're in.

Don't blame women for having high standards, I also dislike random uncalibrated men coming up to me with an unclear offer. Humble yourself and think that people don't owe you shit for existing nor for trying to talk to them and instead see it from their perspective of also being a stressed human with limited time and wonder what would make their life better? Why aren't you dialed in to some of the coolest events happening in your city and country? You can volunteer your time to promote someone else's events or build up your own and then invite women there and once you're a guy that has an awesome social life and knows a lot of women, your social life will start to take care of itself.

Be careful of using your ego in pickup, it's a terrible handicap. I have more trouble than extroverts socializing and by default most people find my ideas too complicated and hard to relate to. Do you think I got bitter and blamed the world for my lack of results? Yes of course. Then I got over it and found a better strategy. 

This was the summer I got laid the most in my life. Do you wanna guess how much cold approach I did? Barely any. Do you know what I did? I got a high value skill(photography), offered cool guys in the new city I was moving to(Toronto) free photoshoots as a networking strategy and ended up making friends with one who I moved in with. Becoming roommates with that guy lead me to meeting another club promoter roommate who had access to a free booth and bootles 3 times a week,(booths in Toronto and a bottle is around $2000) and I did a free photoshoot for him and shot content for him for free multiple times.

All the environments that you see in the video are worth thousands of dollars if you pay for them and I paid $0 for it because I offered value to men who already had access to them. Then you offer women free access to them and THEN AND ONLY THEN do you try to game and pull.

Do you see how that's nowhere close to being a random dude on the street spamming cold approaches? That method is like spamming cold approaches but asking people for jobs and getting frustrated you're still unemployed. Just because it works for a few people does not make it a good strategy.

Take the advice I've given you, use the next 1-2 years to build massive value and you will be in abundance of cool women that wanna sleep with you. 

Also my guy realize that you are ideologically conflicted. You are probably brainwashed by Islam telling you that you are superior for existing as a man but that leads to your parents setting up an arranged marriage for you and you've watched western videos of random dudes sleeping with a lot of chicks and you added both thoughts together without really breaking down how the dynamics work.

It's kinda like a Stage Green socialist college student being frustrated that other people have more money than him but he doesn't have a business and has a part time job. You can be frustrated at the world or you can become obsessed with acquiring value and exchanging it to others to get what you want. Some people get paid $10,000 USD to have a 1 hour lunch with them because their skillset and knowledge is so well crafted. How much would the average person pay to have lunch with said socialist college student? Now same thing why would random women on the street be desperate to get to know you if you haven't crafted much value in your life? 

Good on you for taking a lot of action and doing a couple of thousands of approaches but hitting your head against the wall without improving your strategy is of course gonna lead to a lot of frustration if not boiling anger at the world. Understandable, now swallow your pride and become one of the coolest guys in your country and all your dreams will come true.

It sounds like a wild statement but I'm basically the coolest guys in most environments that I step in. Not from an egotistical frame battle angle but most other men I meet even the successful professionals are shy and stifled and I come in making friends with everyone and strategizing on what awesome things we can do and build together. Being cool basically means adding value, you can do it by being in a good mood and saying jokes but overall taking that same energy and using it to better the lives of the people in your circle over years will make you an irreplaceable men in most of the people's lives you meet as opposed to once again being A RANDOM DUDE ON THE STREET WITH NOT MUCH TO OFFER. 

Edited 4 hours ago by LordFall

[yetineti]

@Majed Listen to LordFall. Also, have some empathy for yourself and your situation, like the woman you want will for you someday.

I can tell you’re a real man, but if you make it so obvious another man will have to squash you like bug, for safety of village.

 

[Thought Art]

I find just talking to women works. Be chill, fun. I personally don’t need a thousand approaches. 

[Majed]

I've had a warning from @Natasha Tori Maru 

Because of this 

14 minutes ago, Majed said:

I feel like i am understanding the perspective of male violence perpetrators. Honestly sometimes women deserve it. They're so animalistic, that doing violence onto them isn't much difference than killing a chicken for dinner. 

And my reaction to this warning is as follows:

Understanding radically different perspectives requires seeing their validity. 

My question is simple: do male violence perpetrators exist? Obviously yes, and in relatively significant quantities. 

Then this means that their perspective has some validity. 

Just labeling them as evil monsters is antithetical to truth seeking and perspective taking. 

[Thought Art]

@Majed You are currently unwell.

If you aren’t LOVING other people you are doing it wrong. 

All women are your LOVE.

There is NEVER a time to do violence to a woman, or other person. 
 

Edited 4 hours ago by Thought Art

[Majed]

@Thought Art Lmao. That's truth seeking. What's wrong with you people, i thought we were here to be open minded

[Majed]

2 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

@Majed You are currently unwell.

If you aren’t LOVING other people you are doing it wrong. 

All women are your LOVE.

There is NEVER a time to do violence to a woman, or other person. 
 

@Thought Art This is some hippie bullshit. True love is loving the male violence perpetrators and seeing the validity of their perspective. Now try that for an exercise. That's true spirituality. 

[Thought Art]

@Majed We are here to develop ourselves into being loving, intelligent and conscious people. If you think harming women is good, your self deceived and should reflect before you cause harm to yourself or another. 
 

Do not let online foolish, stupidity, male culture toxicity rot your mind.

Women are there to love.

Grow yourself into a man. Stop being a selfish, scared and hurt child.

[LordFall]

6 minutes ago, Majed said:

I've had a warning from @Natasha Tori Maru 

Because of this 

And my reaction to this warning is as follows:

Understanding radically different perspectives requires seeing their validity. 

My question is simple: do male violence perpetrators exist? Obviously yes, and in relatively significant quantities. 

Then this means that their perspective has some validity. 

Just labeling them as evil monsters is antithetical to truth seeking and perspective taking. 

Yes, you deserve it.

Being an angry butthurt dude and using violence to achieve your goals is a somewhat productive strategy that yields some form of results for sure. That is why some men that haven't thought it through use that strategy. Becoming a thief or a bandit instead of getting a job works a little bit for some amount of time and some people have become very wealthy through it.

 Compared to win-win solutions that enhances all party's lives; it's a trash strategy that deserves to be shutdown in every way imaginable. 

Also transmutation is a thing. Raw energy is useless it burns everything it touches. Try standing on the sun. Well channeled, it becomes one of the most useful, appreciated and powerful forces in the universe. Same with raw masculinity. 

Edited 4 hours ago by LordFall

[Thought Art]

@Majed No, you can do that as part of your spiritual practice for sure and I’ve done this in my understanding of human devilry, and corruption. 
 

But, when you say some women deserve violence against them and male perpetrators are right… you are wrong. 
 

A sage uses wisdom to make fine distinctions between his love for all his brother and their evil… but he does not confuse their evil with his love and treating others well. 
 

I am not hippie bullshit, you are self deceived and embarrassing yourself. I know you’ll work through this and find higher clarity. 

Edited 4 hours ago by Thought Art

[Majed]

1 minute ago, Thought Art said:

@Majed No, you can do that as part of your spiritual practice for sure and I’ve done this in my understanding of human devilry, and corruption. 
 

But, when you say some women deserve violence against them and male perpetrators are right… you are wrong. 

@Thought Art Okay so violence against women is never justified. I see, well let's agree to disagree then. Because the real growth is seeing the validity and truth in the male violence perpetrators's perspective. But that's too much to ask from you from what i am seeing. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Majed Yes. I gave you a warning. I stand by it, and you can perform whatever mental gymnastics you like to justify it but the below markup in bold are the false parts of your statement:

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 feel like i am understanding the perspective of male violence perpetrators. Honestly sometimes women deserve it. They're so animalistic, that doing violence onto them isn't much difference than killing a chicken for dinner.

This is what you need you address in your thinking and deductions. 

Edited 4 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[Thought Art]

Woman are there for men to love and vice versa. Selfish, childish, moronic, ignorant, hungry, stupid men (lots of men right now) don’t have a fucking clue the love that is possible if they work on themselves and become superior men. 

[Thought Art]

@Majed My perspective if above yours my friend. You’re digging your own grave here. 
 

What you are saying is stupid. I rarely talk this way but it is. 
 

You can understand the perspective of a murderer without saying it’s right 

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Edited 4 hours ago by Thought Art

[LordFall]

You might enjoy this song and this artist as a whole. He's a very well thought rapper that touches on other people using lower consciousness needs met and rightfully critiques that approach

He's also a man who had a lot of pain and learned to transmute it into higher forms of creation and accrue a lot of value for himself in the process. He's a good inspiration for your path specifically brother. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Majed your mixing up relative vs absolute perspectives.

[Majed]

1 minute ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@Majed Yes. I gave you a warning. I stand by it, and you can perform whatever mental gymnastics you like you justify it but the below markup in bold are the false parts of your statement:

This is what you need you address in your thinking and deductions. 

@Natasha Tori Maru I say that while having empathy for the chicken's perspective and the women's perspective as well. 

My post is sophisticated even if it doesn't seem so. If you're following Leo and increasing your consciousness, you should start to notice that most people aren't much more intelligent than chickens, which is why they treat chickens the way they do. 

And the male violence perpetrators are also just like the dumb humans abusing animals, but in their case they're abusing women. 

[Thought Art]

If I remember correctly you are young.
 

There was once a young monk who went into a store and took an apple and left. When the shop keeper caught him and asked “why did you steal?” He said “my master said everything is one, everything is me… so it’s not stealing it’s mine!”…

This is bad application and misuse of spiritual teaching. You zen devil you.

 

Edited 4 hours ago by Thought Art

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Majed it's not about sophistication. 

Don't try to justify selfishness in this way. Violating another person's consent is wrong.

[Olaf]

men that are reactive and can't control their anger are a danger to society. This is why woman many times are afraid of men, rightfully so.