Being an introvert is a weak excuse

[Olaf]

I hear so many introvert guys say, I am introverted, I can't approach. WEAK. I am introvert myself, my wingmen is an introvert, we both have approached more woman together then any guy has in my country the last two months. So don't let your introvertness go to your head, you are not a special snowflake that can't learn social skills, because you are introverted. This is the weakest thing I have heard from introverts. What the hell does it even mean? You can't say hi? you can't say hello to an old lady?? To a random guy?? To a girl?? You are not introverted, you are weak, know the difference.

[Valach]

You can share advice without shaming people though.

[Olaf]

@Valach I wish someone gave me this exact advice years ago, I am not gonna making it sound nicer, I am giving the harsh truth as the dutch can do well, take it or leave it

[Someone here]

Keep in mind that we don’t know you or your level of actual success and experience with women to be able to assess your qualifications of being an online dating guru .

[Olaf]

@Someone here I am not a dating guru, I am pointing out the obvious

[Lyubov]

I completely agree with you. 

Maybe the only way introverts are at a disadvantage is that socializing might not be as enjoyable for them. If you are doing something you don't enjoy you won't often times do as well as someone who is enjoying themselves. 

But yeah as an introvert nothing is really stopping you, your low energy from socializing may make for some awful approaches though. But it's possible to pull even with low energy game if you have self esteem. 

Edited 15 hours ago by Lyubov

[Leo Gura]

It's not that I can't, it's just that it is meaningless to me.

Can you jerk off a horse? Sure. But it isn't meaningful to you, so you don't wanna do it.

Extroverts find small-talk meaningful and enjoyable. Introverts do not because we have better things to do.

Edited 14 hours ago by Leo Gura

[enchanted]

12 hours ago, Olaf said:

I hear so many introvert guys say, I am introverted, I can't approach. WEAK. I am introvert myself, my wingmen is an introvert, we both have approached more woman together then any guy has in my country the last two months. So don't let your introvertness go to your head, you are not a special snowflake that can't learn social skills, because you are introverted. This is the weakest thing I have heard from introverts. What the hell does it even mean? You can't say hi? you can't say hello to an old lady?? To a random guy?? To a girl?? You are not introverted, you are weak, know the difference.

I agree. The science shows that most people are ambiverts very close to the 50/50 level of introversion to extravertion

Edited 13 hours ago by enchanted

[LordFall]

Of course. Each of the 16 MBTI types can learn powerful socialization techniques that fit their unique personality.

 I dislike constant pointless socializing so I try to mostly attend only my own events or go to other events that I wanna study and replicate. I dislike boring small talk so I host content creation based events so I can talk to cute girls about technical topics and then as the evening winds down we can sip on some cocktails and then the conversation gets more casual and personal but my status and authority is solidified into their mind.

A lot of introverts try to masquerade as extroverts and game that way but I found it personally to lead to burnout and lack of top tier results. Doing it the way I've explained has lead to way hotter women being into me.