give me your best opener

[Olaf]

I know openers are a bit bs, but I think still fun to share your best opener. My favorite opener is "You look like a terrible partner" and do it with a big smile, most funny is when she has earplugs in and with great excitement you ask her to put her earpots off to then end up saying this line. Gets a laugh most of the time. Now what is yours.

[integration journey]

Hi, are you from..? 
depends on context and where and what. 

[Someone here]

13 hours ago, Olaf said:

I know openers are a bit bs, but I think still fun to share your best opener. My favorite opener is "You look like a terrible partner" and do it with a big smile, most funny is when she has earplugs in and with great excitement you ask her to put her earpots off to then end up saying this line. Gets a laugh most of the time. Now what is yours.

These cute little openers can make her smile or giggle a bit . How are you gonna carry on the rest of the conversation after hook point? The opener can literally be anything . The rest of the conversation is much more important.

[Jirh]

I suck at this. Like what do you actually say? Especially if you're not already attracted to the girl.

[Someone here]

2 hours ago, Jirh said:

I suck at this. Like what do you actually say? Especially if you're not already attracted to the girl.

If you don’t like her then why open her in the first place?

and it’s not difficult. Just compliment her in a cheeky manner . Or ask about what time it is or the directions and then gradually compliment her and change the topic .

Edited 1 hour ago by Someone here

[Jirh]

31 minutes ago, Someone here said:

If you don’t like her then why open her in the first place?

That's the problem with cold approaching girls for me. It usually takes time for me to develop attraction for a girl, and unless she shows body features with tight/suggestive/revealing outfits or has an incredibly beautiful face, I can't be instantly attracted to her, which makes me feel creepy about approaching, which affects my state and vibe and shuts her off immediately.

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and it’s not difficult. Just compliment her in a cheeky manner . Or ask about what time it is or the directions and then gradually compliment her and change the topic .

I don't know how to do that in a casual non-creepy way.

Edited 52 minutes ago by Jirh

[Someone here]

6 minutes ago, Jirh said:

That's the problem with cold approaching girls for me. It usually takes time for me to develop attraction for a girl, and unless she shows body features with tight/suggestive/revealing outfits or has an incredibly beautiful face, I can't be instantly attracted to her, which makes me feel creepy about approaching, which affects my state and vibe and shuts her off immediately.

I don't know how to do that in a casual non-creepy way.

Then do that . Obviously the first step is screening her up and down and find out if she’s physically attractive to you . Face , hair , dress etc.

to come off as non creepy you gotta be smiling and your posture and body language should be friendly. She should have the impression that you are a cool guy approaching her , that’s the vibe . She should not feel fear or pressure.