talking nonsense

[Olaf]

Today I experimented with free association. I would go up to girls and completley free associate and say the most unlogical bs ever. What I noticed is that in a conversation like that, you are basically putting the gass down, you are no longer tyring to be slick or say the slick thing, you just say some nonsense that comes to your mind which gives you more stuff to talk about. After I did this exercise I had the best conversation I had in a long time, she laughed 4 times and I was much more free flow. I am thinking that it isn't about saying the right stuff as much as just teasing her with some nonsensical illogical sentences. Talking about the moon and sky and her being a cute mouse running around for fries whatever. I am gonna practice this more, because I feel this can work really well when I practice being more free flow. 

[Jirh]

Yeah, this works because there's no obvious/immediate agenda behind it.

It seems innocent, until it isn't 😈

[Joseph Maynor]

I think most women think guys are creeps unless they have a reason to think they know them.  

[Miguel1]

This is good practice, but eventually you need to get her to invest emotionally into you, otherwise you are just an entertaining clown

[Olaf]

@Joseph Maynor I wouldn't say this is true, based on my own experience, girls are overall friendly especially if you have a bit of social skills, they just don't feel sexually attracted to nice guys, which is different. They think nice guys are their little helpers who buy them beer or help them out when they get lost and need to find the direction. 

[Joseph Maynor]

Just now, Olaf said:

@Joseph Maynor I wouldn't say this is true, based on my own experience, girls are overall friendly especially if you have a bit of social skills, they just don't feel sexually attracted to nice guys, which is different. They think nice guys are their little helpers who buy them beer or help them out when they get lost and need to find the direction. 

Okay.