The happiness myth which I bought in for years.

[Rishabh R]

Getting a girlfriend or relationship= Happiness

That's the myth I need to question.

[Someone here]

Is it true for you or not ? That’s the question. 

[Rishabh R]

@Someone here Never been in a relationship so thereby I cannot answer .

[Someone here]

Cut the shit . You want a girlfriend.

[Rishabh R]

@Someone here Yup. 

[Someone here]

@Rishabh R 

I’d love to get to know you a little better and understand what you’re looking for at this stage of your life. What kind of relationship are you looking for ? something serious and leading toward marriage, a live-in relationship, or are you open to exploring a different kind of arrangement, such as multiple relationships?

I’m also curious about your current life situation, if you’re comfortable sharing ofc. What  do you do career wise, and what does your day to day life look like? And if you don’t mind me asking, how old are you?

There’s no pressure to answer anything you’re not comfortable with. I just think it’s helpful to be open and honest about what we’re both looking for, our lifestyles, and where we are in life. That way, we can see whether we have similar expectations and genuinely connect with each other.

 

 

[Rishabh R]

@Someone here That's great.

I am looking for a long term relationship leading to marriage , my age is going to be 26 , I work at a job (science sector). My day to day look like working at a job. My couple of posts must seem negative to you but they are because of the fact that I am feeling pain(emotional) right now .

[Someone here]

2 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

@Someone here That's great.

I am looking for a long term relationship leading to marriage , my age is going to be 26 , I work at a job (science sector). My day to day look like working at a job. My couple of posts must seem negative to you but they are because of the fact that I am feeling pain(emotional) right now .

Thanks. 
what avenues of dating have you tried ? Do you go out on weekends and your off days from work to social gatherings and cold approach girls ? Are you actively looking for a wife through your social circle of relatives ? 

[Olaf]

@Rishabh R It is more like a rollercoaster, many ups and downs, yes there are great moments, but also you will have times you wish you were single. When you are single it is more stable, but also kinda boring at times, but it all depends what kind of relationship it is and how many relationships you have had, your first relationship tends to be more special, atleast in my experience. Maybe go experience it yourself and get into a relationship. I sometimes think about just being single and having multiple woman, because love can be great, but it also can hurt you deeply when you get too attached to one woman. If you make one woman your world for years and she leaves or you break up, it can be very depressing, not to forget that some girls will traumatise you.