I was talking to a gold digger

[Olaf]

I talked to this absolute 10 out of 10 and initially accused her of being a gold digger and she admited she was a gold digger lol. So then I was intrested in her perspective as she seemed so open about it. What was intresting was how she told me that she did date a very broke guy for 3 years and that she got sick because he had stuff in house mold or something and that he didn't have money for proper heating etc. And that she hated to take the public transport instead of a cab, because guys woulf harras her and she also had a stalker. Now that she has become older she decided to have higher standards and only date rich guys. And if the guy had shown more ambition that she probably would have stayed with her first boyfriend. But now with her rich boyfriend she is more comfortable and enjoys the vacations that the broke guy couldn't afford. Actually she made me change my mind about gold digging or I got sucked in her frame lol. But what I do think is that 1. There are 10s who will date you if you aren't wealthy, she is the proof of that 2. That it isn't so much about money as it is about comfort and doing fun stuff. She mainly emphasised that she didn't have to worry about her health, the stalker, the harassment in public transport and more time to do fun stuff on vacations etc. It was actually an insightful conversation as most woman aren't very transparant about these things, I probably got her to open up somehow, because she kept texting. So not every conversation has to be about pick-up and trying to get the girl, sometimes you learn something when you listen.

[Schizophonia]

Filipina ?? 

[Olaf]

@Schizophonia Bulgaria I believe

[Schizophonia]

1 minute ago, Olaf said:

@Schizophonia Bulgaria I believe

There was a Bulgarian girl at my high school she was pretty. It's a strange mix a bit like Turkish people.

[Olaf]

@Schizophonia I have heard some crazy stuff about Turkish girls

[Monster Energy]

10 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Schizophonia I have heard some crazy stuff about Turkish girls

Please tell me I love Turkish girls.

👉🏻👌

[Olaf]

@Monster Energy no, secret 

[TKP]

The comfort and safety angle makes sense, a lot of what gets called gold digging is really just wanting stability. The mold and heating stuff is a real health issue, not just a preference.

[Olaf]

@TKP yeah if you provide very basic shit (in her case health, harrasment of other guys in public transport, heating) I think that is more important then all the luxury stuff, if you fix those then the only other thing the rich guy can provide is fun trips and vacations, not much more then that. 

[Monster Energy]

1 hour ago, Olaf said:

@Monster Energy no, secret 

There is no secret 

[Olaf]

@Monster Energy exactly

[LordFall]

I think transactional relationships are some of the most honest out there. It's not the ideal but read through the sugar dating subreddit and you'll find a level of self-awareness and bluntly honest navigation of human dating dynamics that I find refreshing.

https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/

The guy that hired me to throw events and build the Velvet Network was a sugar daddy and also took literally 12 RSD bootcamps. He said he found Owen quite deceitful and his game not that good and he thinks their ideology warning guys against money-game was mostly both coping and also just a ploy to market their products.

He said when he paid extra for a bootcamp by Owen that his assistants ran it and at like 1 am Owen showed up, gathered everyone that was in the club outside, gave them an inspirational speech on game and then left and that was $1500 USD extra compared to the other bootcamps he took that were ran by Jeffy and Madison.

I think he was a bit jaded and there is still a lot that can be learned from RSD but the core fact that they are business an agenda is a good lesson to takeaway from it. Women that specifically look for well off men are also fulfilling their agenda and I don't think should really be shamed for it.

Life is about understanding what you want and the best way to get there. If you want to attract the hottest women, working on your business and cashflow is a solid bet. 

[Lyubov]

Most beautiful women are either gold diggers, some sort of sex worker (influencer, OF, etc.) or stay at home moms. Beautiful women usually base their survival off men in some form. It's some of the most stable income.

[Olaf]

@LordFall Yes it was fun to talk with her she had some good wit and humor, but honestly I don't think I want a woman who chose me only because I was rich, because even tho I can see it work well, she was dming me so much and I am not even that good at game, if some actual player comes in she can easily cheat on him if his game is not solid. Besides that having an 8 is probably very nice too, I think if I want to be rich I just want to do it for myself. Also you saw how she still was with this super broke guy for 3 years, so if you want a short relationship with her, I think its very much possible, she told me she hated that he lacked ambition the most, the broke guy. Many girls will still go for potential of a men, instead of the reality of his current financial situation.

[Olaf]

@Lyubov but honestly, if you were a hot woman, would you do anything differently? 

[Lyubov]

54 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Lyubov but honestly, if you were a hot woman, would you do anything differently? 

I would try but it’s easier said than done. Just because I wouldn’t want to be so reliant on another person. There’s a lot of opportunities beautiful women have which sorta give them the freedom while still cashing in on sex and their looks, flip the script, but it’s still at the end of the day coming from a man. Sex with beautiful women will always be a very valuable commodity. First category: Onlyfans, bottle girl, pornstar, cam girl, stripper, karaoke girl, escort, etc. More independent forms of it. Refined in such a way where men act like suckers and empty their wallets for these women. The age old profession comes in different forms. Second category: There are more relationship based versions, sugar baby, gold digger, even house wife to some degree (trad wife) you are still relying on men and exchanging sex and beauty but you have less say and power in these situations, but it depends. Many beautiful women will place themselves to some degree in the second category. Most beautiful women will expect  you to pay the rent and cover most of the bills. Some (not all) women weaponize it and run it as sort of a scam, they prey on gullible men and the ambiguity and know how to milk men with their beauty while having very different intentions behind their actions. For example I met girls who would go on dates with guys they had zero interest in or get a bill paid but they have zero interest in sleeping with them or anything more than getting some cash out of the experience. Gotta be careful for these hoes. 

[Jirh]

She's not a gold digger. She's just a woman who learned how bad poverty is the hard way. She is a wise woman with high integrity and appropriate self-esteem.

Gold diggers only purely care about money, and not just normal amounts. They require sugar daddy type of men.

Edited 5 hours ago by Jirh

[Olaf]

@Jirh yes I was able to respect her more after she explained, but also she has options of course so she told me she was looking for the rich guy in the social circle that she was attracted to. So I guess it might be more standards, which also comes with more options, compared to a girl who has no options and will jump on the first guy with money, that is why she said there are levels to gold digging hahaha she said if he is digging for gold I am digging him hehe