I approached 40 sets in 8 hours

[Olaf]

Besides my shit talk I actually take action. Today I took MASSIVE action, I don´t think I ever went this wild. It was the first day of the week thursday, hadn´t approached all week. But through macro momentum I did the first approach without any approach anxiety, normally that first approach goes very shit, but I felt like I had no fear at all. Now that is why I feel I have to go out atleast 2 times every week to build up this momentum. I approached so many people I barely remember. My wingmen wanted me to try this thing where you spread your arms wide open and make eye contact with the idea that they should give you a hug. I tried it by 5 girls they all rejected, so I tried with a group of 3 guys and they all gave me a hug lol.

Another one was my high five game I must have given sooo many high fives today, I am somehow really good at getting high fives, so I might change my opener to a high five, because it works so well for me and is so much more fun then a boring opener. I then came back to my city and 3 other wingmen were still out in Amsterdam, so we went like a gang together and I just approached so much, I had a lot of fun, and the bad thing was that it was still so early hahaha we only went till 23:00 so it is this weird in between stage where its not fully night game, neither fully day game. Nevertheless I approached a walking group of 8 girls which was the most girls in a set I have ever approached, which was a huge win.

We went to the karoake bar and some weird German sect was singing some German songs lol so I went to the karaoke bar on the other side of the street and started giving girls high fives and singing and going crazy as if it was 3 a clock at night hahahaha My wingmen were closing numbers left and right, we were like a gang with the 4 of us which was so funny, myself I didn't close any numbers, I should be closing much more, but also I mainly never get to that stage yet where I ask for the number. Anyways, this is only day1, I am going out for the next 3 days aswell, which is crazy.

Lessons learned: challenge yourself get even more out of your comfort zone, have more fun, state building can go crazy, in between stage between night and day is actually kinda funny, experiment, spread good vibes, also don't forget to close, abc always be closing, do stuff that is intimidating so you have no limits, there is always a next level remember that you got balls and go for it. I walked for 8 hours so my legs are dead, but my energy and state is still crazy. 

[Miguel1]

It’s time for you to focus less on quantity and focus more on quality.

At this point, approaching 40 sets and not even getting once to a point of number closing is awful.

[Leo Gura]

Good. 

But yes, focus on quality over quantity.

Make it your goal to sustain at least 1 set for 60 minutes.

Stop self-ejecting from sets. Stay until they tell you to leave.

Edited 13 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Zenterus]

Messaged you.

Edited 9 hours ago by Zenterus

[Olaf]

@Leo Gura I am working on it, I do try to do less self ejection, sometimes during the day tho girls just walk away during day game, maybe I need to work on my stop aswell to just stop them hard. At night its a bit easier to have longer conversations for me, this was all day game btw.

[Joseph Maynor]

What does approaching 40 sets mean?

[Olaf]

@Joseph Maynor 40 groups

[Olaf]

Me and Zenterus will go out tomorrow so maybe that helps

[Lyubov]

Bro good effort but you gotta redirect it into keeping stuff going. I used to spam sets, it’s easy to keep doing that thinking stuff will start progressing in your interactions but really you’re the equivalent of a pop up ad in real life. Are you able to find a few girls who seem receptive to you and wanna go grab a drink NOW? Like you chat for 10-20 mins and then ask them with your wingmen to go to a bar or something? Sounds like you can open which is good but you gotta now start watching how guys pull and close. 

Edited 5 hours ago by Lyubov

[Olaf]

@Lyubov its not so much that I suck after the first 3 mins, but more that I struggle to keep them in the first 3 mins, after they talk with me for 3 mins, now its easy, but you got to hook them in those first 3 mins and that is where I struggle with the hooking part and probably also the open to make them stop them hard in their tracks as they are walking. 

[WonderSeeker]

I used to play attraction like a video game. I still remember doing 130 sets in 5 days in Miami. That was with RSD... haha, good times.

But after approaching over 400 sets in a season with only a handful of dates, I switched gears entirely.

Dating really is the most twisted of all self-help fields. Because, you can be brave, do all of this approaching, and still end up with nothing.

Not saying that's you, you've gotten results. I know a guy in France who has done 1000s of approaches and still hasn't gotten laid.

[Miguel1]

49 minutes ago, WonderSeeker said:

Not saying that's you, you've gotten results. I know a guy in France who has done 1000s of approaches and still hasn't gotten laid.

Olaf got his results when he was younger. He used to be really good looking, like Justin Bieber. And for the girls in their youth, that is like maximim attraction.

Now olaf lost his hair and aged like 20 years in 5. I don’t know even know how that’s possible.