I want to have sex with a girl this week

[Inliytened1]

@Olaf its ok.  Just joking around. 

Edited 4 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Joshe]

18 minutes ago, Breakingthewall said:

Imo you don't have at least five girls on WhatsApp with whom there's a possibility, maybe remote, but not outright impossible (friendzone), of having sex, then you're doing something wrong.

So, instead of meeting a drunk girl at a club and having completely unsatisfying sex with her, without any real energy or attraction, just two people wanting to sex with someone, what would be better is to start going on dates forgetting about sex and focusing on the situation, the energy, maintaining a naturally high situation, being focused on your masculinity and not making a fool of it in front of everyone.

And above all, if you're so desperate to have sex, go to a brothel, that's it. Personally, I think it's not ethical and I won't do never again, but in the past I've had sex with prostitutes a thousand times more satisfyingly than with girls I've met at a nightclub. 

Anyway, as a zen master would say, if you want sex don't go for sex, go for creating tension, aura, you're the man, you have the power. You don't beg, you grant. You don't flatter, you savor. You're in control and you direct the situation, and things fall into place. If not, it just wasn't the right place. And if sex happens it's not a "success", it's the natural flow of the things. You are not a "trier", because if you are, you are a "beggar" and if you are that, anyone who wants sex with you is retarded, and, would you like to have sex with anyone retarded? Not me. 

Sounds about right.

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, Joshe said:

Sounds about right.

I'm sorry but I can't talk girls with this dude.  Give me a minute.

[CARDOZZO]

I don't know, it seems to me that a lot of guys here on the forum love to mask their animal side. For real, do you never felt a urge so hard to fuck like an animal and just sleep together after that?

 

[CARDOZZO]

Ok, we are spiritual beings but come on... we are here to enjoy material things also  

[Olaf]

@CARDOZZO facts, anyone who is too busy with spirituality becomes a spiritual nerd forgetting about life alltogether, only reading the bhagavat gita and eckhart trolle, there is more to life then just starting at a wall

[Olaf]

update: so after I went to the bars and went home, was looking for my game plan for the night, cleaned everything in my house, made sure I had condoms etc. Then went out and approached a girl, she was drunk I believe or atleast on something. It took her 5 to 10 seconds everytime I said something for her to reply, besides that she seemed really into it and started touching me. I probably could have pulled her, but I felt like I would be doing wrong, making use of a drunk girl. So I decided I leave her in her drunkenness and move over to the club, the whole vibe was aggressive on the street with only guys who were just totally drunk and aggressive, it is never like that during the weekend, I then went to the club I approached one girl outside and one girl inside, she left and then I was there in the club with 4 other people hahaha, omg God is definitely playing a joke on me. I AM GONNA GET LAID. God: here are four people! HAHAHA so it was already late, everything was closed, I could have stayed there longer listening to the music, I paid 10 euros to get in so I felt I needed to get something out of it lol, so I started listening to the music while playing games on my phone, pretty good dj, that is also how I got sold. The guy at the entry said, there are not many people, but the dj is good HAHAHA, I though maybe only 15 people, but 4 people is the saddest thing I have seen in my life. My memory is full on my phone, so I couldn't take a picture, otherwise I would have shown you guys how pathetic it looked.  now going to sleep, tomorrow a new chance

[Olaf]

btw I learned something today from this new wingmen, I was observing his energy and he was a tiny bit arrogant, but also super fucking chill, slick and cool, like he wouldn't fidget with his clothes, break eye contact or look on his phone or move, just being able to be chill and cool. I think his frame is kinda that he is cool and chill and deserves to talk to girls and take their time and just high self worth in general. Was really interesting to observe, he had been doing it for 3 years so he is pretty good, best wingmen I had so far. I would say that you don't necessarily need to get rid of anxiety, but rather not let the anxiety move you, holding that tension of feeling the anxiety but not acting from it, on the outside act cool and chill till that becomes congruent. I think that is the secret, I will try it out tomorrow aswell to have that frame, he didn't teach me this, but I could just observe from reading his energy. A little bit the arrogance of you deserving to take up space and time from someone else even if it leads nowhere. Besides that we had the longest conversation I had with approaching which was 30 mins and in that 30 mins I noticed that actually it is just holding a conversation, we can make it all fun and flirty, but we don't have to be a clown for 30 mins, we can just hold a conversation, just like you talk with your friend. 

Edited 1 hour ago by Olaf