things I am looking for in a woman

[Olaf]

I just wanted to express my thoughts on what I would look for in a woman, as we already covered so much about what women are looking for in men. First of all I would say that a girl going to a bar or club is 99% of the time it is a turnoff for me, for a long term relationship, like if I find you in a club or bar I probably won't want to date you seriously. If a girl is dressed in a very sexual way, trying to get sexual attention, that is of course a turnoff, like first of all I would be ashamed to introduce you to my family and secondly why would you be wearing that? For what purpose? Then if she is fake, like fake tits, ass, lip fillers etc. like how can I even relate to you like your a real person when half of your body is fake? Same with make up, if they wear too much make up like their face is a brown pancake and then her neck is white as snow, like that is just awful. if she is too young I am not even interested in a conversation, because why would I want to talk to a 19-year-old? What life experience do you have that is interesting to talk about? Another one, if a girl has no personality at all, even tho she looks the part, she has 0 personality, what the hell are we doing? Talking about chips bags and mosquitoes? Like there needs to be some depth and personality to you. Last big turn off would be a girl that is loud, screaming and has a very very masculine personality, like sure everyone is a bit masculine, but if it gets too much I feel like I am talking to a dude.

Okay so those were my turn offs, what I look for is probably a girl that isn't too easy, like maybe you need to take her out a few times, convince her a few times, she isn't someone to just jump in and go for it, she takes her time, which is actually a level of self-respect, which I appreciate. If she isn't complaining too much, like if she is always loudmouthed and complaining, that is like a negative thing in my life, I want positivity in my life and feel drawn to woman who are positive. Being kind and generous as a woman is very attractive. Actually, wisdom is very sexy, like if a girl has learned from her lessons, pfff that is attractive, instead of a girl that might fall for the same toxic relationship over and over again. Like personally, I think my type is a bit festival type of girl, very expressive in her way of expressing herself, I don't know I just realised that when I was walking around that it seems that those are the girls I fall for. Also when I was on a festival I was like, I didn't know there were so many attractive girls in the world at the same place. Okay now I am just dragging it lol. Lastly I would say a girl who is not so stuck in a box, like a bit of a free bird, if you are too much stuck in some political party or you dress exactly like your friends, too much belonging to some group, like you basically have nothing original to you, that is not what I want. I want someone who is original in their ideas, in how they express themself and having the "balls" to be different and free, probably because I am quite different and free myself from the mainstream.

Now I know this might be controversial, but this forum is all about honesty, so I thought, why not share honestly what my type is, your type might and probably is completly different so don't see this as some ultimate way to screen woman or like labeling this as what YOUR type should be, you might dislike everything I like and like everything I dislike, everyone has their own type. Just wanted to share this somewhere. I feel already you guys are gonna hate on all of this, but fuck it. If I get too much hate I might delete the post.

[Ulax]

I like a hot bratty girl who loves mascara

[Olaf]

@Ulax sounds like an American girl

[Miguel1]

Here’s a question for ya’ll:

If your girl is having a girls’ night out, is it ever just innocently having fun? In a place where unconsciousness, alcohol, validation and sex are the main factors?

Why not have a girls’ night at home with only you and your friends, without being harrassed and getting hit on by anyone?

[BlessedLion]

12 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

Here’s a question for ya’ll:

If your girl is having a girls’ night out, is it ever just innocently having fun? In a place where unconsciousness, alcohol, validation and sex are the main factors?

Why not have a girls’ night at home with only you and your friends, without being harrassed and getting hit on by anyone?

That's a good question!

 

I'd say it's fine if i'm secure with her and trust her. Sometimes you want to be in an environment with music, things happening, dance and to just be out in general-especially for the feminine. And maybe she has single friends who want to go somewhere they can meet guys, i don't want to be the controlling dude who doesn't let his girl go out, it's much more badass to be so secure in her and yourself that she doesn't even have a thought of cheating, and knows that if she does, she is disposable. I get the sentiment of not wanting to just being home in some confined apartment. So as long as I trusted her, i'd have no problem with this. 

[Miguel1]

39 minutes ago, BlessedLion said:

That's a good question!

 

I'd say it's fine if i'm secure with her and trust her. Sometimes you want to be in an environment with music, things happening, dance and to just be out in general-especially for the feminine. And maybe she has single friends who want to go somewhere they can meet guys, i don't want to be the controlling dude who doesn't let his girl go out, it's much more badass to be so secure in her and yourself that she doesn't even have a thought of cheating, and knows that if she does, she is disposable. I get the sentiment of not wanting to just being home in some confined apartment. So as long as I trusted her, i'd have no problem with this. 

All of those you can have in a home party with her friends.

Except if her friends are single and want to meet guys. It can quickly turn into her just being there for her friends to meet guys, rather than having fun herself tho.

[something_else]

1 hour ago, Miguel1 said:

Here’s a question for ya’ll:

If your girl is having a girls’ night out, is it ever just innocently having fun? In a place where unconsciousness, alcohol, validation and sex are the main factors?

Why not have a girls’ night at home with only you and your friends, without being harrassed and getting hit on by anyone?

I think you’re projecting your experience as a guy into women. Most guys go out with the primary goal of getting laid, so you assume women are the same.

Many women enjoy going out just to dance and have a few drinks with friends, not specifically to get laid. Although many do go out for that as well of course.

[Olaf]

@BlessedLion it is more like, if your girl goes out every month or week, then I won´t control her, I will just not be with her in the first place. I don´t think controlling is so much the issue here, you don´t have to control someone who naturally doesn´t resonate with going out, getting drunk and partying. Controlling is trying to change someone, why change someone? If you don't like what she does, you don't resonate with her and find someone who you do resonate with. Controlling is unattractive anyways, just like jealousy. 

[Olaf]

@something_else If a player comes down there, a real one, your girl will forget about you in 2 seconds. That is for sure. She will kiss the guy, tongue down her throat, and not even remember she had a boyfriend. Happens all the time.

[something_else]

41 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@something_else If a player comes down there, a real one, your girl will forget about you in 2 seconds. That is for sure. She will kiss the guy, tongue down her throat, and not even remember she had a boyfriend. Happens all the time.

I don’t doubt it happens, but to assume that all women are just mindless creatures with no morality who will cheat whenever they get an opportunity is not a fair characterisation.

Some girls may do this, that doesn’t mean your girlfriend will do this.

[Olaf]

@something_else you have allot of confidence that your girl won´t do this hahaha bro Owen will come allong, take your girl and she will do an RAS flip on you, thinking about all the horrible things about you in a matter of minutes. You have to talk to some real players: then the stories will shock you what woman will do, especially at night with a bit of fun and alcohol in the mix. It is truly shocking. Your only lucky that there are quite few really good players out there. 

[LordFall]

7 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@something_else you have allot of confidence that your girl won´t do this hahaha bro Owen will come allong, take your girl and she will do an RAS flip on you, thinking about all the horrible things about you in a matter of minutes. You have to talk to some real players: then the stories will shock you what woman will do, especially at night with a bit of fun and alcohol in the mix. It is truly shocking. Your only lucky that there are quite few really good players out there. 

The idea of Owen being able to steal most people's girlfriends is a meme lol. I've met Mystery in person and saw him run game on multiple women. They were entertained and he is a good storyteller but he's not that attractive and there was little chance he was gonna pull any of them that night and they were all single let alone actually having a committed partner. 

I'm sure it's happened a few times in his career but Owen is a marketer. He'll spin a girl talking to him politely at an event for 5 minutes into she's now disgusted by her man and was almost going to fuck me in the bathroom because he can't push-pull her like I just did! 

Edited 2 hours ago by LordFall

[Jirh]

3 hours ago, Miguel1 said:

If your girl is having a girls’ night out

Shift + Delete

[something_else]

24 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@something_else you have allot of confidence that your girl won´t do this hahaha bro Owen will come allong, take your girl and she will do an RAS flip on you, thinking about all the horrible things about you in a matter of minutes. You have to talk to some real players: then the stories will shock you what woman will do, especially at night with a bit of fun and alcohol in the mix. It is truly shocking. Your only lucky that there are quite few really good players out there. 

When I’m single I am the player 😛

I’ve spent a lot of time in clubs, yea people cheat, but it’s not like the moment a girl enters a club or a bar she forgets she has a boyfriend, especially if it’s serious and going well.

Also, a lot of late teen / early twenties people in clubs have someone they’d call a boyfriend or girlfriend but it’s really more like a situationship. Calling that cheating is a stretch.

I’m generally pretty secure. I don’t see a point in worrying about my girlfriend cheating unless I actually saw evidence that it was happening. I certainly wouldn’t worry about Owen of all people lmao. You revere pickup people way too much. Most girls would find Owen mildly entertaining but not particularly attractive.

[LordFall]

17 minutes ago, Jirh said:

Shift + Delete

Why would your woman be able to meet another guy cooler than you randomly going to a club? Sounds like a failure in life strategy more than a legitimate boundary.

If your girl goes out to a club she should be horrified at the state of the average man and run back home to you and fuck you more passionately than she has in weeks. 

[Jirh]

@LordFall It's not a competition. I simply don't like club girls and don't think they're long term relationship material.

[LordFall]

18 minutes ago, Jirh said:

@LordFall It's not a competition. I simply don't like club girls and don't think they're long term relationship material.

Do you mean regularly going clubbing or going to the club at all? Some businesses host corporate events at clubs. Some bachelorette parties end up at pub crawls or in clubs as well. 

[Jirh]

@LordFall It has to feel like an obligation to her, not something she's eager to do.

Otherwise, she's gone.

[Miguel1]

59 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Why would your woman be able to meet another guy cooler than you randomly going to a club? Sounds like a failure in life strategy more than a legitimate boundary.

If your girl goes out to a club she should be horrified at the state of the average man and run back home to you and fuck you more passionately than she has in weeks. 

The question is what is her reason for going to such unconscious, sex driven place?

[Ulax]

5 hours ago, Olaf said:

@Ulax sounds like an American girl

Yessir and Spanish/ Italian