Polygamy- does it work

[Schizophonia]

5 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

You guys put it in front of us.  So.  We are like caged beasts. 

We're supposed to have active lives (culture, sports, etc.). If this fundamental need isn't met you'll have fantasies of being a pasha and maybe even become one. Like the Saudi princes who become perverse; they only want to drive Ferraris, sleep with Ukrainian escorts, and eat dates.

If you don't expend your energy, you become fat (full of energy  ).

 

[Leo Gura]

"The unpolygamous life is not worth living."

-- Inliytened1

[LordFall]

24 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

But I'm almost convinced now that they are all crazy.

Have you read books on female psychology before? There are some on the book list. I've read Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus, The Red Queen and The Female Brain by Louann Brizendine. Being only action oriented is not enough in life, you need a strong theoretical foundation to really be able to master life and being able to pull off life setups like dating 5 women in a way that would be beautiful whereas for the average guy it would end up in a nightmare. 

Women are complicated but they make sense. They have really high neuroticism compared to men, it's the main measurable personality difference between both genders. This makes them really prone to feeling a lot of anxiety and starting fights or nagging is one of the ways that manifests. If you sit down and analyze what she's feeling then it's pretty easy to solve.

I used to get mad at my ex and try to logically counter her points in arguments but they weren't logical points and that was not her real issue so it didn't solve the problem. Once I figured that out and literally read books on it then I would have conversations with her just cuddled up on the couch and comfort her while asking her thoughts on life and to just stream of consciousness it for me and I was then able to figure out what the upcoming problems and nip them in the bud. 

Edited 2 hours ago by LordFall

[Mellowmarsh]

18 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

But I'm almost convinced now that they are all crazy.

Not everyone is suited to the crazy life of crazy. Some people are just blissfully happy living lives of solitude. Even hermit life. 
 

Each to their own. It’s all about personal preference. There’s nothing wrong with any of us, we’re all just the perfect expression of oneness. We’re all different facets of the same one beauty. Unbelievable isn’t it.
 

 

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Have you read books on female psychology before? There are some on the book list. I've read Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus, The Red Queen and The Female Brain by Louann Brizendine. Being only action oriented is not enough in life, you need a strong theoretical foundation to really be able to master life and being able to pull off life setups like dating 5 women in a way that would be beautiful whereas for the average guy it would end up in a nightmare. 

Women are complicated but they make sense. They have really high neuroticism compared to men, it's the main measurable personality difference between both genders. This makes them really prone to feeling a lot of anxiety and starting fights or nagging is one of the ways that manifests. If you sit down and analyze what she's feeling then it's pretty easy to solve.

I used to get mad at my ex and try to logically counter her points in arguments but they weren't logical points and that was not her real issue so it didn't solve the problem. Once I figured that out and literally read books on it then I would have conversations with her just cuddled up on the couch and comfort her while asking her thoughts on life and to just stream of consciousness it for me and I was then able to figure out what the upcoming problems and nip them in the bud. 

I was too busy reading about physics. Shame on me.

[LordFall]

4 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

"The unpolygamous life is not worth living."

-- Inliytened1

To me if some random porn actor can fuck 4 gorgeous women at the same time, there is no way I will not experience that in my life and multiple times and with women I'm really into.

I don't understand how men don't think about it like this. It's like becoming a millionaire, if it's possible then why not go for it? 

[AION]

There is a relationship crises in the world because people don't understand women and people who say the truth about women get attacked. You should never tell truth to a women but men should know the truth about women within their groups.  

[Inliytened1]

7 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

"The unpolygamous life is not worth living."

-- Inliytened1

"Reality is imagination"

--Leo Gura

😞

[Jirh]

29 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

But I'm almost convinced now that they are all crazy.

Said the guy with the most unhinged posts on the forum 

[Inliytened1]

2 minutes ago, AION said:

There is a relationship crises in the world because people don't understand women and people who say the truth about women get attacked. You should never tell truth to a women but men should know the truth about women within their groups.  

Yeah that's going to go far. Lying to her.

[LordFall]

6 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

I was too busy reading about physics. Shame on me.

It's not too late, I would read one over the next few months. If your career is on point then might as well get obsessed with your dating life and fixing your blindspots so you can make your wildest dreams come true.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Manipulated_Man

This one is really good quite a short read. It's written by a woman who wrote it from the perspective of being ruthlessly honest about all the ways women take advantage of men. It'll help you understand the underlying principles behind arguments in relationships and how to not let your boundaries get crossed.

This one is also pretty classic and also great to analyze our own psychology as men and why we are drawn to dysfunctional relationships.

Edited 2 hours ago by LordFall

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Jirh said:

Said the guy with the most unhinged posts on the forum 

That's how I roll. I wing it. How I am still here is another matter.  So now that I recognized how reckless I have been, is it time to stop, or go full throttle? I say push it to the limit. 

[Leo Gura]

14 minutes ago, LordFall said:

To me if some random porn actor can fuck 4 gorgeous women at the same time, there is no way I will not experience that in my life and multiple times and with women I'm really into.

That's how a juvenile mind thinks.

It's not random. They are desperate people getting paid for sex.

Edited 2 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Rishabh R]

15 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

Not everyone is suited to the crazy life of crazy. Some people are just blissfully happy living lives of solitude. Even hermit life. 
 

Each to their own. It’s all about personal preference. There’s nothing wrong with any of us, we’re all just the perfect expression of oneness. We’re all different facets of the same one beauty. Unbelievable isn’t it.
 

 

This post is great .

[Mellowmarsh]

@Rishabh R ❤️💯

[BlessedLion]

https://www.reddit.com/r/openmarriageregret/

This can also help shed light on how much a fail trying to open a relationship typically is. 

 

[Inliytened1]

14 minutes ago, LordFall said:

To me if some random porn actor can fuck 4 gorgeous women at the same time, there is no way I will not experience that in my life and multiple times and with women I'm really into.

I don't understand how men don't think about it like this. It's like becoming a millionaire, if it's possible then why not go for it? 

Bro. Yeah if you sign up. Like i said.  Empty world.  Dollar signs that is it.  Be careful not to glorify the porn industry. 

[BlessedLion]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Does not contradict what I said.

There is a price to be paid.

Can you expand on that? 

[Xonas Pitfall]

Haha 

Nothing screams ego like: “I want as many people as possible to want to fuck me, obsess over me, love me, and want a long-term committed relationship with me, while I don’t stay committed or responsible to any of them. Infinite love for me, but not for thee!”

[Xonas Pitfall]

3 minutes ago, BlessedLion said:

Can you expand on that? 

I wouldn’t trust Leo much when it comes to his views on women, tbh.

His positions on this subject have been biased and rather shallow many times.