What I learned from approaching 50 women in 3 nights

[TheGod]

Moving to Madrid from Toronto was the best thing ever for my game. Never in my life had I seen so many beautiful and feminine women. Toronto is a scarcity compared to Madrid because women there are 4-6 out of 10 and here most of them 7-8 starting and a lot of 9 and 10. In Toronto I could spent hours in the mall waiting for hot women to appear. I only approached like a 100 women in 2 years when I was in Canada. Here in Spain, I approached 50 good looking women in 3 nights. 

A lot of North American men think that Spanish women are easy, but nothing could be further from the truth. The women in Spain not easy but they are definitely warmer and more emotionally explicit. You can relate to them authentically right off the bat and I love it because I am a direct and emotionally warm guy. 

Anyways, things that I learned for just 3 nights:

1. Most of the women whose IGs and phone numbers I got didn't respond or came up with excuses why they couldn't meet me. 

2. Most of the fear went away after having approached 30 women, now I am able to approach smoothly. 

3. Some women just like attention and will want you to think you are gonna sleep with them but they just feed their ego. 

4. Women are very emotional and mood depended creatures. If you meet a girl at night and you create a connection you need to fuck her the same night becuase next day most likely she's not gonna even respond to your texts otherwise (from my experience).

5. If women see that them rejecting you doesn't result in you feeling bad or sad it creates attraction. This one was a big surprise for me. I approached some women and when they rejected me I smiled with gratitude and geniune energy of not giving a fuck and I could clealry see that this one thing created attraction in them lol 

My goal is to approach a 1000 women and my ultimate goal is not that good  I don't want to have a lot of sex because my priority is something else: I want to be able to pull a girl to my place and make out with her and at the last minute I want to be able to be so disciplined that I can tell her, "Let's take it slowly." I want to win them over the game they are playing. Yeah I know it's some ego thing but it is what it is. 

 

 

[Rishabh R]

43 minutes ago, TheGod said:

. If women see that them rejecting you doesn't result in you feeling bad or sad it creates attraction. This one was a big surprise for me. I approached some women and when they rejected me I smiled with gratitude and geniune energy of not giving a fuck and I could clealry see that this one thing created attraction in them lol 

I underestimated my non-fuckery after a harsh rejection. I mean when I was rejected harshly by a girl , I stood up for myself - faced threats ,cruel pushback. But I moved on. Later I rarely paid attention to her and guess what she approached me twice asking questions each time. 

Later again I was worried that I will feel bad after seeing her with her make best friend but guess what - her make best friend engaged with me in a respectful manner and I didn't gave a Fuck about her and it's liberating.

Edited 7 hours ago by Rishabh R

[Sugarcoat]

4 hours ago, TheGod said:

My goal is to approach a 1000 women and my ultimate goal is not that good  I don't want to have a lot of sex because my priority is something else: I want to be able to pull a girl to my place and make out with her and at the last minute I want to be able to be so disciplined that I can tell her, "Let's take it slowly." I want to win them over the game they are playing. Yeah I know it's some ego thing but it is what it is. 
 

“Let’s take it slowly” woman’s worst nightmare right 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😂😂

[LordFall]

Good for you bro, happy you're liking Madrid better.

I gotta back up Toronto though as you're saying nonsense, where exactly were you hanging out? King street and queen street in downtown has hundreds of beautiful women walking at almost all times of day in the summer. 

Women in Toronto have very high standards and its a status oriented city though. I had good success but I was tight with club promoters that took me into their social circle so that helped. 

King Street in the weekends has so many girls you don't even need to get into a club to cold approach. 

[Sugarcoat]

6 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I gotta back up Toronto though as you're saying nonsense, where exactly were you hanging out? King street and queen street in downtown has hundreds of beautiful women walking at almost all times of day in the summer. 

 I’m wondering sometimes how some people think, because I see plenty of very beautiful when I’m outside. And it’s not “being nice” saying that it’s genuine 

Maybe we have a bunch of top models in this forum that’s why their standards are so high😂😂😂👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

Edited 3 hours ago by Sugarcoat

[LordFall]

9 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

 I’m wondering sometimes how some people think, because I see plenty of very beautiful when I’m outside. And it’s not “being nice” saying that it’s genuine 

Maybe we have a bunch of top models in this forum that’s why their standards are so high😂😂😂👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

You should approach them yourself! Everyone should get a girlfriend, women are great.

No the default coping mechanism of men when they have anxiety or no success is to blame the environment or the women. I was out with my friend in Calgary a few months ago in a very busy bar with dozens of beautiful women and he said man there are no girls here we should leave.

I had to literally physically shake him and tell him bro you're coping and lying to yourself. Describe in words to me literally the beautiful woman you want and I will walk around this venue myself and find your type and you will approach her. It worked he realized he was lying to himself and just scared to talk to them. 

Edited 3 hours ago by LordFall

[Lyubov]

Yeah dude USA/Canada is filled with the most mid women. Europe all the way.

[Sugarcoat]

1 minute ago, Lyubov said:

Yeah dude USA/Canada is filled with the most mid women. Europe all the way.

Obese people are like two (or even more in some cases) people in one, so maybe that’s what’s skews the proportions there 😂😂😂😂🧐🤓

[LordFall]

1 hour ago, Lyubov said:

Yeah dude USA/Canada is filled with the most mid women. Europe all the way.

North America is much more capitalistic than Europe. If you don't have a good social circle you will be barred from the nightlife environment that the attractive women go out to. Bottle service culture is big in most cities here. If you don't know a club promoter you have to pay $1500-3000 to get a table and bottles to host women. Yacht culture is big in the summer as well. 

That's part of why I like social circle game so much. You can meet the right guys to get you access to the right places and then host your own events. If you do only street cold approach then I'm sure Europe is 5x better yeah. 

Edited 2 hours ago by LordFall

[Leo Gura]

6 hours ago, TheGod said:

Some women just like attention and will want you to think you are gonna sleep with them but they just feed their ego. 

Many women are chatty and friendly, but they will not directly reject you because that is not the feminine way.

It's also a safety issue for them. They can't know how you will react to a rejection.

Edited 2 hours ago by Leo Gura

[TheGod]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

Let’s take it slowly” woman’s worst nightmare right 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😂😂

Exactly ahaha 

[TheGod]

1 hour ago, LordFall said:

Good for you bro, happy you're liking Madrid better.

I gotta back up Toronto though as you're saying nonsense, where exactly were you hanging out? King street and queen street in downtown has hundreds of beautiful women walking at almost all times of day in the summer. 

Women in Toronto have very high standards and its a status oriented city though. I had good success but I was tight with club promoters that took me into their social circle so that helped. 

King Street in the weekends has so many girls you don't even need to get into a club to cold approach. 

Bro I know all of the places in Toronto because I lived there. I have been to the best clubs, busiest malls and all the main streets. The thing is you and I have different tastes in women. 
If you want to understand what I am talking about go to Madrid and see it for yourself. If you haven’t been there it’s pointless to argue. 
At the end of the day to each their own. If you like Canadian women - fine, I am happy for you. For me I prefer Latinas and Spanish women because I vibe with them naturally. 

[TheGod]

1 hour ago, LordFall said:

Calgary a few months ago

One of the most disgusting places in Canada. Filled with homeless and crackheads. Every time I was there I wanted to kill myself. 
The hot women you saw there were Ukrainian girls 😅

[TheGod]

23 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Many women are chatty and friendly, but they will not directly reject you because that is not the feminine way.

It's also a safety issue for them. They can't know how you will react to a rejection.

Leo, I went to a club yesterday and met a hot African girl there. We started dancing and I was touching her as and boobs. When I had to go to the washroom and came back, I saw here doing the same with another random guy. At the end of the night I saw her leave alone. She was just seeking attention. 
Also, most of the women I approached here directly rejected me. Learn some Spanish and come to Madrid, let’s go for a night out 😉

[LordFall]

16 minutes ago, TheGod said:

One of the most disgusting places in Canada. Filled with homeless and crackheads. Every time I was there I wanted to kill myself. 
The hot women you saw there were Ukrainian girls 😅

LOL I mean Canada is experiencing a homelessness issue I'll give you that. Plenty of hot women in Calgary though, Stampede is filled with a sea of hot blondes, brunettes, etc. If you like particularly latinas though then it won't be the city for you.

Yes a lot of attractive women in Canada right now are ukrainian refugees, I would say Ukrainian women were like 30% of the crowd at the events I hosted. Plenty of attractive Canadian women though. 

There are Latin clubs in Toronto. The bottle girls there are as attractive than any top tier Madrid girl I'd be pretty confident. If you don't do social circle game it's pretty hard to meet and sleep with bottle girls though. I worked at Cactus Club in downtown for a while so I met a lot of servers there and invited them to my events. 

That one was in Calgary

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DIFE8QDxsfj/

And this one in Toronto

I find when you host your own events as opposed to like cold approaching in the mall the attractiveness of the women goes up significantly. I actually plan to host some European events next year so perhaps we can connect there in person. Barcelona is one of my destination for Yacht/Modelling events I wanna host in summer 2027 and other places in Italy and the south of France. 

Edited 1 hour ago by LordFall

[Leo Gura]

16 minutes ago, TheGod said:

Leo, I went to a club yesterday and met a hot African girl there. We started dancing and I was touching her as and boobs. When I had to go to the washroom and came back, I saw here doing the same with another random guy. At the end of the night I saw her leave alone. She was just seeking attention.

Dude, girls go to clubs to party and have fun.

They are not there with a pickup or even dating mindset. They are not there to acheive anything. It's not seeking attention, it's just unwinding, partying, and socializing. Unlike you, women socialize just to socialize, not to go on a date.

Edited 1 hour ago by Leo Gura

[LordFall]

18 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Dude, girls go to clubs to party and have fun.

They are not there with a pickup or even dating mindset. They are not there to acheive anything. It's not seeking attention, it's just unwinding, partying, and socializing. Unlike you, women socialize just to socialize, not to go on a date.

Yes this is a hilarious dichotomy in nightlife especially for intellectuals or introverted men.

Average extraverted woman -> Going to the club is fun and I'm dancing yay fun

Average introvert doing pickup -> Going to the club to dance is one of the last activities in the world that would be fun. Hot woman spotted, target acquired, now engaging approach sequence 

I don't think it's realistic for introverted men to find an aligned parter in a club environment. You can use it to practice game but the odds of finding a girlfriend that you relate with deeply are less than a needle in a haystack. 

Self-awareness and knowing your personality type is so key. @Miguel1 likes the dance game but that will probably not work for a lot of men on this forum. 

I feel like I unlocked a cheat code hosting content creation events and photoshoots. It's one of the few environments I can interact with women in a logical mode and mingle with them in a way that adds value to both of our lives. As an INTP it unlocked a new way to game that I never aligned with in terms of nightlife and the club promoter type of social circle game. 

Edited 1 hour ago by LordFall

[TheGod]

42 minutes ago, LordFall said:

LOL I mean Canada is experiencing a homelessness issue I'll give you that. Plenty of hot women in Calgary though, Stampede is filled with a sea of hot blondes, brunettes, etc. If you like particularly latinas though then it won't be the city for you.

Yes a lot of attractive women in Canada right now are ukrainian refugees, I would say Ukrainian women were like 30% of the crowd at the events I hosted. Plenty of attractive Canadian women though. 

There are Latin clubs in Toronto. The bottle girls there are as attractive than any top tier Madrid girl I'd be pretty confident. If you don't do social circle game it's pretty hard to meet and sleep with bottle girls though. I worked at Cactus Club in downtown for a while so I met a lot of servers there and invited them to my events. 

That one was in Calgary

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DIFE8QDxsfj/

And this one in Toronto

I find when you host your own events as opposed to like cold approaching in the mall the attractiveness of the women goes up significantly. I actually plan to host some European events next year so perhaps we can connect there in person. Barcelona is one of my destination for Yacht/Modelling events I wanna host in summer 2027 and other places in Italy and the south of France. 

I don’t have time or resources to host social events just to be able to attract women. Cold approach is the best for me because this way you are way more exposed to rejections and I am not trying to get laid or find a girlfriend. My main objective is to de-idealize women and get rejected a lot.

Come in Madrid bro to host an event. The vibe is awesome here, you will not won’t to go back to Canada 😅

[Leo Gura]

29 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I feel like I unlocked a cheat code hosting content creation events

Tantric massage? 

[LordFall]

23 minutes ago, TheGod said:

I don’t have time or resources to host social events just to be able to attract women. Cold approach is the best for me because this way you are way more exposed to rejections and I am not trying to get laid or find a girlfriend. My main objective is to de-idealize women and get rejected a lot.

Come in Madrid bro to host an event. The vibe is awesome here, you will not won’t to go back to Canada 😅

I'm getting really fucking tired of these winters man, you could perhaps sell me on a Europe lifestyle  I just had to stand up for our women.

14 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Tantric massage? 

Nah it's not the same. I think that was Osho's move right? Being a community leader and isolating female followers with life problems and telling them you can help and it eventually boils down to get naked so I can massage you to release your energetic blockages and don't worry about my dick being here it grounds my chakra and then blackmailing and kicking out women that aren't into it from the community is different. Pretty close to Harvey Weinstein level of game or the Louis CK naked man move.

I believe in using your social circle and brand to be well known in your city, country and then whole world and then just portraying yourself as an guy with sex appeal and publicly owning your sexuality. I have a dating brand where I talk about sex and relationships and I tell pretty much everyone that I want to date multiple women and love bisexual women. I think miss leading people about your intentions is where the problems lie. 

This is another example where the guy just posts with about being a dom and giving BDSM tutorials. Clearly interested women are gonna hit him up and I'm sure he gets laid from his brand. 

 

Edited 31 minutes ago by LordFall