Where Have You Had Sex?

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

She had lots of resentment? 

I dunno when I judge others I tend to be just blocking or avoiding my own shit. So if I sat here and judged you as a dickhead (I dont lol), I would actually just be trying to attempt not to feel hurt or dissappointed. Instead of just feeling hurt/dissappointed and letting it go so I can be happy again. Judging gets you stuck with the feeling repeating it over and over. Just let the real feeling out and be done! 

That's not to say I don't discern when there is wrongdoing. I just try to drop that moralising judgement. My sister judges endlessly and won't let anything go. Maddening. Like we talking shit from 15 years ago. My god 

i think she did from her pevious marriage, yes.  

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[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

She had lots of resentment? 

I dunno when I judge others I tend to be just blocking or avoiding my own shit. So if I sat here and judged you as a dickhead (I dont lol), I would actually just be trying to attempt not to feel hurt or dissappointed. Instead of just feeling hurt/dissappointed and letting it go so I can be happy again. Judging gets you stuck with the feeling repeating it over and over. Just let the real feeling out and be done! 

That's not to say I don't discern when there is wrongdoing. I just try to drop that moralising judgement. My sister judges endlessly and won't let anything go. Maddening. Like we talking shit from 15 years ago. My god 

Yeah now that i really contemplate it, she had a lot of trauma from her previous relationship.  I guess we should take past trauma into consideration when we take on a new relationship.  Because we all have a past.

[Mellowmarsh]

1 minute ago, Inliytened1 said:

Well come on Mellow!  You still want some old guy driving you around..cuz I'll pull up.  Just as soon as I get the engine tuned.

It ain’t over till it’s over man, let’s go. While there’s still life in this old dog. 
 

Clean people are the dirtiest  between the sheets. 
 

Clean:  meaning having a mature responsible healthy attitude to the most craved and natural activity evolution ever invented. As long as it’s mutually consensual it’s not a hanging offence. It’s the most beautiful thing I’ve ever personally experienced. Thank God for that.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

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6 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

i think she did from her previous marriage, yes.  

Makes it hard with older women who have had bad experiences. In the one hand they can be more mature and on your level. But then they can miss or crush their natural feminine joy of "being" in all the silly conditioning. Which is what younger women can naturally have. And men tend to crave.

Life serving up bags of dicks. 

Your lucky girl will come along. I don't see you as someone to sit still for long 😁

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[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Goddamn, he was right wasn't he. Fuck

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Makes it hard with older women who have had bad experiences. In the one hand they can be more mature and on your level. But then they can miss or crush their natural feminine joy of "being" in all the silly conditioning. Which is what younger women can naturally have. And men tend to crave.

Life serving up bags of dicks. 

Your lucky girl will come along. I don't see you as someone to sit still for long 😁

I hope she comes along soon, I don't have all day.

[Inliytened1]

4 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

It ain’t over till it’s over man, let’s go. While there’s still life in this old dog. 
 

Clean people are the dirtiest  between the sheets. 
 

Clean:  meaning having a mature responsible healthy attitude to the most craved and natural activity evolution ever invented. As long as it’s mutually consensual it’s not a hanging offence. It’s the most beautiful thing I’ve ever personally experienced. Thank God for that.

Ok firing this baby up.  Let's go for a spin.

[Mellowmarsh]

2 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Ok firing this baby up.  Let's go for a spin.

Like a record baby, right round, round round. I’m so dizzy. Let me be your fantasy. 

[Mellowmarsh]

18 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

I hope she comes along soon, I don't have all day.

LoL , you do make me laugh. I’ve throughly enjoyed reading this thread. 
 

You are a beautiful human being inside and out. I can just tell, don’t ask me how, I just know. 
Take care, and don’t hurry love, it’ll happen when it’s meant to happen and not one second before…oh wait…😉

[LordFall]

4 hours ago, something_else said:

I think it's a fair comparison. It's going to be close to impossible to maintain a harem unless there's a significant power dynamic at play.

How many women do you think grow up fantasising about being in a man's harem one day? Not many. It's not something a woman typically wants, it's something a woman tolerates in order to gain access to resources, or it's something she's manipulated into. Which means there is an exploitative power dynamic at play.

This analogy harms your argument more than it helps it. The larger a business gets, the more unethical and exploitative it must become. There are zero businesses making hundreds of millions of dollars which don't exploit people. In the same way, the more women you bring into your harem, the more exploitation becomes necessary to maintain it.

Wanting 5 wives all to yourself is equivalent in this analogy to running a multi-billion dollar company, which cannot exist without serious exploitation. The fundamental drive creating such a business is greed, ego, status and desire, and the same is true for explicitly wanting a 5-wive harem.

I think a lot of the poly community would dislike how you use their language. There are terms in that community like "harem-building" and OPP (one penis policy) which are used to identify men who want to join the poly community as a means to building a harem to satisfy their ego and status.

How many bisexual women are there? Literally 5-10% of the population. A lot of these women would want to date a man and a woman at the same time. Boom you got 2 girlfriends. 

Fun, adventure and a tight knit group of people are resources. Inviting a woman into that is not gonna be for everyone but many are gonna jump at the opportunity. Have you researched the polyamory community or are this your gut reaction to it? There are some funky looking dudes that bang 2-3 women regularly that are not rich.

Now I will embrace your core objection and I think power dynamics are phenomenal to throw on top of it. If you are a multimillionaire doing this even better. You can abuse your power and hurt people whether you have $0, $500k or $500 billion. 

I don't relate with this cope commie anti business take sorry. If you're argument is gonna be that Google is an exploitive entity because they're worth trillions then I think you've lost a lot of credibility. 

I don't exist to be approved of by people I don't know. I collect frameworks that I see as effective from different communities. I've read some poly books and what I've learned in terms of communication and emotional intelligence skills is already priceless. I learn from them, they don't have to approve of my particular sex or dating life. 

The problem with projecting on me that I want to build a polycule to build ego and status is that it seems that throughout the discussions I have on this forum and the continuous attacks I get from it; it only highlights that even just mentioning this idea hurts men's egos and status by just hearing the concept.

I just want to travel the world multiple women and have awesome adventures with them and build a family on top of it if I find it's conducive to such a thing. It's not that deep bro. 

@NewKidOnTheBlock What on earth are you talking about lol, there is almost endless truth you can learn from dating, sex and relationships. They are a mirror to who we are as people in real life and our competence. A lot of dudes on here that write posts about wanting high quality women don't know any women in real life and can't get 5 of them together for an platonic event let alone getting an attractive girl to fuck them.

Pick up artistry is applied science and behaviouralism. It's definitely a science. Why is science reversed for random dudes in a lab? 

Social circle game ties directly to influence in society and the world as a whole. If you can get an attractive girl to go on date with you probably you can host a photoshoot event with models. If you can do that probably you can host a real estate event for realtors in your city. If you can do that then you can host a big conference. If you can do that then you can host a political rally and become a lobbyist for the most powerful people in your country and then the world. It all starts with offering value and being relevant. 

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[Inliytened1]

44 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

LoL , you do make me laugh. I’ve throughly enjoyed reading this thread. 
 

You are a beautiful human being inside and out. I can just tell, don’t ask me how, I just know. 
Take care, and don’t hurry love, it’ll happen when it’s meant to happen and not one second before…oh wait…😉

I try to please

[Inliytened1]

@Leo Gura You still listening.  So, if you want pickup, here's how it goes.

[something_else]

5 minutes ago, LordFall said:

How many bisexual women are there? Literally 5-10% of the population. A lot of these women would want to date a man and a woman at the same time. Boom you got 2 girlfriends. 

Being bisexual doesn't mean a girl wants to share her partner. Most are still monogamous.

9 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Have you researched the polyamory community or are this your gut reaction to it? There are some funky looking dudes that bang 2-3 women regularly that are not rich.

I've participated loosely and known a fair few people who have been more deeply involved. Guys who are trying to build a harem have a very poor reputation in that space. Especially when using poly terms to legitimise their harem-building. It is quite a common trope.

10 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Now I will embrace your core objection and I think power dynamics are phenomenal to throw on top of it. If you are a multimillionaire doing this even better.

Power dynamics are fun in bed when everyone consents, yes. But actual relationships built upon heavy power imbalance are not ideal.

14 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I don't relate with this cope commie anti business take sorry. If you're argument is gonna be that Google is an exploitive entity because they're worth trillions then I think you've lost a lot of credibility. 

You've got the logic of my argument backwards. I don't think Google is exploitative because they're worth trillions of dollars, I think they're worth trillions of dollars because they're exploitative. It is a fundamental tenant of capitalism that to make money you must exploit people. In smaller scale businesses it's pretty minimal, but for a company like Google the exploitation is far more prevalent.

There are children in Africa mining the lithium that goes into every Pixel phone, and a big chunk of of their money comes from selling customer's data to the highest bidder. There are plenty more examples of exploitation, but those were the first two that came to mind.

20 minutes ago, LordFall said:

The problem with projecting on me that I want to build a polycule to build ego and status

What you describe isn't a polycule though, it's a harem.

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it seems that throughout the discussions I have on this forum and the continuous attacks I get from it; it only highlights that even just mentioning this idea hurts men's egos and status by just hearing the concept.

"Anybody who disagrees with me is just defending their own ego" is itself a mechanism for defending your own ego.

People who disagree with or criticise you aren't necessarily doing so because you hurt their egos and threatened their status. It's beneficial for you to believe that because this mechanism allows you to basically discount almost any criticism.

[Inliytened1]

1 hour ago, Mellowmarsh said:

LoL , you do make me laugh. I’ve throughly enjoyed reading this thread. 
 

You are a beautiful human being inside and out. I can just tell, don’t ask me how, I just know. 
Take care, and don’t hurry love, it’ll happen when it’s meant to happen and not one second before…oh wait…😉

Of course I am, I'm God  Gonna bring you all that love cuz I can

 

[Mellowmarsh]

2 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Of course I am, I'm God  Gonna bring you all that love cuz I can

 

Yes I know, that’s why I know you know. 🙂

That’s what we’re here to do, to climb that stairway to heaven, to show we are each the other in heaven. Some people just know what heaven is. Others… well fuck knows what’s going on in their minds. 

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Mellowmarsh said:

Yes I know, that’s why I know you know. 🙂

That’s what we’re here to do, to climb that stairway to heaven, to show we are each the other in heaven. Some people just know what heaven is. Others… well fuck knows what’s going on in their minds. 

Well shit,  I really wanna rock your world now  

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[Inliytened1]

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[Mellowmarsh]

22 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

@Leo Gura You still listening.  So, if you want pickup, here's how it goes.

 

4 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Well shit,  I really wanna rock your world now  

You’re already ROCKING it, have you only just realised it, now. LOL 

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Mellowmarsh said:

 

You’re already ROCKING it, have you only just realised it, now. LOL 

Yeah, i guess im just dumb

[Mellowmarsh]

2 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

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You don’t have to be nuts to live here on earth, but if you are ballsy, you’re fucked.