How to find a partner you're compatible with value wise.

[Inliytened1]

7 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

I feel like men and women are both emotional, but sometimes the emotions are not aligned in time and place.  

They will never be aligned, you might as well get used to it.  Men and woman are like aliens to each other.  We're two differnet species.

Your mission: Conquer her.

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[Natasha Tori Maru]

9 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

To get her in the bedroom you don't need all that shit.. That shit comes after,  and you know I'm right.  In the moment we meet its in the chemistry and how I make you smile.  And then we get it on.  That's it.  After that we can worry about everything else.

That all requires emotions - and paying attention to them. 

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

That all requires emotions - and paying attention to them. 

Naw...its how you like us. If you like us you will fuck us.  There''s nothing that shallow.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

19 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

I feel like men and women are both emotional, but sometimes the emotions are not aligned in time and place.  

I agree. Many times we just can't identify or be aware of our emotions. Especially if we have built elaborate behaviours to avoid them.

12 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Naw...its how you like us. If you like us you will fuck us.  There''s nothing that shallow.

What is "like" but an expression of a feeling/emotion? I ain't letting you off so easy! 😁

[Inliytened1]

@Natasha Tori MaruLet's just admit we leave it all at the front door when we hit it off.  We hit it hard.  And that shit don't matter.  I mean it both ways.  I don't mean it just on women.. Shit, men are worse.  But don't make it into some deep metaphyiscal shit.  I'm gonna hit you from behind, and I'm gonna hit you hard.  And you are gonna like it.  And their aint no deep shit behind that.  That's when we meet.

 

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[Natasha Tori Maru]

26 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

@Natasha Tori MaruLet's just admit we leave it all at the front door when we hit it off.  We hit it hard.  And that shit don't matter.  I mean it both ways.  I don't mean it just on women.. Shit, men are worse.  But don't make it into some deep metaphyiscal shit.  I'm gonna hit you from behind, and I'm gonna hit you hard.  And you are gonna like it.  And their aint no deep shit behind that.  That's when we meet.

 

It sounds like that's your experience of it.

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

It sounds like that's your experience of it.

One of em yeah, another i spread over my pool table.

[Joseph Maynor]

People are nuts lol.  

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Joseph Maynor said:

People are nuts lol.  

Where have you fucked a girl?

Or where have you not fucked a girl?

what's the strangest place you banged her at?  I can tell you this - i can tell you some weird places.

[Joseph Maynor]

50 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

One of em yeah, another i spread over my pool table.

Be careful of people who have their own pool cue and ask you to bet on a game.

[Inliytened1]

1 hour ago, Joseph Maynor said:

I feel like men and women are both emotional, but sometimes the emotions are not aligned in time and place.  

Correct - can one argue with that?  i mean if the connection is there, and that is emotion to some extent, does anything else matter?

Its not just emotion - it could be a combo.  Maybe she finds him attractive off the get go.  Maybe she likes his personality.

Maybe - if he moves in for a kiss, she might like the way he kisses.  From there, if he doesn't screw up, its his pussy.  That's just how it goes.

I've done hundreds like that.  How about you?  It's OK if its under 10.

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[Joseph Maynor]

3 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Correct - can one argue with that?  i mean if the connection is there, and that is emotion to some extent, does anything else matter?

Its not just emotion - it could be a combo.  Maybe she finds him attractive off the get go.  Maybe she likes his personality.

Maybe - if he moves in for a kiss, she might like the way he kisses.  From there, if he doesn't screw up, its his pussy.  That's just how it goes.

I've done hundreds like that.  How about you?  It's OK if its under 10.

To be fair to this -- I think it comes down to your goal.  And there is nothing wrong with dating.  I think it is a good area for people to explore.  

[Inliytened1]

7 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

To be fair to this -- I think it comes down to your goal.  And there is nothing wrong with dating.  I think it is a good area for people to explore.  

We;re kids, I'm gonna keep score until I'm 70.  But I'll tell you this, I lost count and my black book a whle back, so now I'm just going for the numbers.

Haha, you like this?

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[Lyubov]

I don’t think it’s something you find over something you create. 

Relationships are a lot more simpler than people realize in their fundamentals but we bring a lot of our own hang ups and stubbornness into them which creates friction and dissatisfaction. 

You meet a girl, you decide if she checks enough of your boxes, you decide if any of the ways you are incompatible are deal breakers, and then from there you relate. You work on communication skills and relationship sorta acts as a medium toward you being authentic and in your flow and aligned with your spirit. 

[Inliytened1]

24 minutes ago, Lyubov said:

I don’t think it’s something you find over something you create. 

Relationships are a lot more simpler than people realize in their fundamentals but we bring a lot of our own hang ups and stubbornness into them which creates friction and dissatisfaction. 

You meet a girl, you decide if she checks enough of your boxes, you decide if any of the ways you are incompatible are deal breakers, and then from there you relate. You work on communication skills and relationship sorta acts as a medium toward you being authentic and in your flow and aligned with your spirit. 

My son is making it work beautifully, but i fear he has let her be the dom...so i dont want go give up my dominance to any woman.  My son's wife's mom also is the dom, her husband doesn't work and gave up fulll dominiance.  I can't do that and never will.  That's why i have always battled with relationships.  You better watch for that..They will want to dominate you.  But if you find one you can easily domiinate, it's too easy. So, it's a fne line there

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[Joseph Maynor]

But we are talking about dating here no?  No you guys got me interested in this area of creation?   

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Joseph Maynor said:

But we are talking about dating here no?  No you guys got me interested in this area of creation?   

We're talking about the whole deal.  When you get into a relationship, there will be one who wants to dominate.

The question is are you going to give in to that.. I never have been able to.

[Joseph Maynor]

3 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

We're talking about the whole deal.  When you get into a relationship, there will be one who wants to dominate.

The question is are you going to give in to that.. I never have been able to.

I don't know you bro so I can't give you any specific advice.  

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Joseph Maynor said:

I don't know you bro so I can't give you any specific advice.  

Well that's how it is.  There will be one who is going to be the dom, or the dominator, and the one that is going to submit.

The reason i can't make relationships is because I do not want to submit to that dominance of a women. I just can't do it.

As i said, I'm too selfish.  So, if you wanna make a relationship work with a women you willl have to submit to her dominance and work on her scheudle.

Trust me, I've been trhough over a dozen of them.  It's all the same, every time. Your choice.

[Joseph Maynor]

1 minute ago, Inliytened1 said:

Well that's how it is.  There will be one who is going to be the dom, or the dominator, and the one that is going to submit.

The reason i can't make relationships is because I do not want to submit to that dominance of a women. I just can't do it.

As i said, I'm too selfish.  So, if you wanna make a relationship work with a women you willl have to submit to her dominance and work on her scheudle.

Trust me, I've been trhough over a dozen of them.  It's all the same, every time. Your choice.

I'm not trying to discount you.  I'm working on dating.  You have some good insights IMO.