Key insight to get laid

[Majed]

A magic key to get laid more often is to be more sexual with women. 
If you're sexual with a girl, she's gonna get turned on and she would want to have sex with you.
Guys these days do not sexualize enough because they think they'll go to jail if they do so. But really any guy who ever got laid, got laid because he was sexual with the woman. 
There's simply no other way, if you want to get laid, you have to be sexual. 
There's no secret other than approach, sexualize, get laid, repeat.

[Miguel1]

Agree. This is very important.

If you can pull this off in a non-needy way, most of ur work is done after the initial approach and hooking.

[LordFall]

Also agreed, being comfortable with your sexuality is a big bonus point for game and if you make hanging out with you a safe heaven for women to express theirs then you'll have a good time. 

[Majed]

The difference between strong men and weak men is that strong men do not wait for women to want to sleep with them to have sex. They create the opportunities themselves by focusing on approaching women in big quantities. Hence getting laid whenever they want consistenly.

[Majed]

The difference between strong men and weak men is that strong men do not wait for women to want to sleep with them to have sex. They create the opportunities themselves by focusing on approaching women in big quantities. Hence getting laid whenever they want consistenly.

[CARDOZZO]

Mode One - Alan Roger Currie

[Majed]

The guys who get laid the most, are players by definition. A player isn't gonna shy away from sexualizing the conversation and showing sexual intent. He's not gonna befriend you to then become your boyfriend, he's a player, he uses the player frame not the friend frame. By holding the player frame i mean that from the way he carries himself and his attitude, the girl knows he's a player, and will let him hit on the first night if he attracts her.

[Rafael Thundercat]

 

If you want a woman bragging about you in her groupchat, master one skill: high-level banter.

Banter is her biggest kryptonite (especially if she's neurospicy)

ok fine, I'll explain..

Most men try to impress her with the obvious: status, money, intensity, deep stares, heavy compliments. That can create interest in the short term, but what actually sticks is the combination of tension and playfulness.

Status can be googled. Money can be displayed. Intensity can be faked. Real banter cant. Its live. Its calibrated. And when its rlly good, she feels safe while still being kept on her toes.

Banter is what disarms the masculine shell a woman is forced to wear all day. With good banter, you make her snap out of performance and into presence. its a playful back and forth that draws her into a world that requires her to stop overthinking and planning. to even play along with you she must drop into her body bc for banter to be any good it must be embodied not intellectual.

she must commit to the bit fully.

Its all improv. so in these moments you find a shared rhythm, and create a shared world, with several characters and inside jokes. Its an intimacy between your inner childs and she exhales, "i can relax around him." relaxation is incredibly SEDUCTIVE. bc youre also providing direction youre holding your hand out and telling her "follow my lead, turn off the interview mode and step into my world." this hits deeper than any credential ever will.

Neurodivergent people rlly crave and excel at banter bc for some reason their minds refuse to tolerate the dead air of small talk. Their attention isnt wired for social scripts. they want stimulation, novelty, pattern jumping, and play. most dates get stuck in predictable conversation scripts. neurodivergent minds instinctively want to leap sideways. bring unexpected ideas, create a random bit outside of the structure and challenge them to speak from intuition instead of convention.

A man who can bring play, spontaneity and lightness to something filled with tension is free. free from performance, free from the pressure to impress. that is erotic. This playful back and forth with you might be the most free she gets to feel all week. once the mind drops its guard, the rest of her tends to soften with it.

Most men have no idea how boring they are on dates. stuck overthinking, self-monitoring, and trying to manage her impression of him. The woman across from them is there just waiting for permission to relax and enjoy the exchange.

Leadership starts with your own presence. Banter is the most reliable way to do this. Use it everywhere until it becomes more natural, then you'll understand why it changes the entire dynamic.