How do you lock a woman in to where she isn't thinking about anyone else but you?

[AION]

2 hours ago, Joseph Maynor said:

I agree.  This thread is just weird.  

Relationships based on sex always fail. There are deep reasons for this but I won’t go into it. And it signals some other stuff too. It is a clear giveaway. 

Edited 3 hours ago by AION

[Natasha Tori Maru]

To be clear sex isn't just penis in vagina. And none of what I express has anything to do with relationships being centred around sex. It is one element of a healthy whole (even none at all, if both individuals are asexual or prefer it that way). Like everything, sex fades. Connection has to remain though.

[Inliytened1]

1 hour ago, AION said:

Relationships based on sex always fail. There are deep reasons for this but I won’t go into it. And it signals some other stuff too. It is a clear giveaway. 

We didn't say based on sex. But it is a key element. It is the connection. 

[Inliytened1]

1 hour ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

To be clear sex isn't just penis in vagina. And none of what I express has anything to do with relationships being centred around sex. It is one element of a healthy whole (even none at all, if both individuals are asexual or prefer it that way). Like everything, sex fades. Connection has to remain though.

Hopefully it won't fade until we are both really old.

[Willy Phallicus]

Be dominate (not in a toxic way) but worship her at the same time.  

And yeah, give her god realization orgasms on the regular.

Other than that, its the basics.  Take an interest in her interests, be spontaneous at times, etc etc

Edited 1 hour ago by Willy Phallicus

[Leo Gura]

6 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I just think a lot of the guys here are under-socialized and haven't had a really quality, deep and healthy long term attachment with a strong and put together woman with healthy love attachment.

Don't say so much truth. Have mercy 

[AION]

1 hour ago, Inliytened1 said:

We didn't say based on sex. But it is a key element. It is the connection. 

You two should get a room bro 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Apparently a pup needs to be strategically thrown a carrot from time to time, otherwise it'll start to complain that the world is unfair lmao

[WonderSeeker]

15 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Make sex not about penetration or touch, fuck your woman with your mind and emotions - in a good way! 😁

This is so true it's not funny. Some of the best sex I ever had I didn't penetrate. Not once. We just kissed and wrestled naked, and I kept whispering all sorts of things into her ear that even the best comedian on earth couldn't come up with.

It has to come from pure inspiration for life, and genuine interest in who's sitting across from you.

I think seduction has a 360 spiral to it, where:

1) the simpiest level is telling her how attracted you are and that you'd do anything for her

2) in this level you're more sublte and cooler, more nuder the radar, but still egoically looking out for number one

3) here, you go back to worshipping her, but from a refined place of joy and celebration for her and life, side-by-side

I've only had 1 such affair, It lasted 2 weeks, It was better than any multi-year relation I've ever had.

Edited 2 minutes ago by WonderSeeker