Men of the forum - Respect / Love

[Natasha Tori Maru]

3 hours ago, Inliytened1 said:

Both are very vital but overall consistency is more valuable. 

Consistency in general across all domains of romantic relationships - or as it applies to both respect / love?

A mature & secure response  - consistency is one of the best raw communicators of authenticity.

For me coherence trumps consistency, as consistency could be... consistently a piece of shit.

LOL 

[Inliytened1]

2 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Consistency in general across all domains of romantic relationships - or as it applies to both respect / love?

A mature & secure response  - consistency is one of the best raw communicators of authenticity.

For me coherence trumps consistency, as consistency could be... consistently a piece of shit.

LOL 

Haha.  Well mate, I suppose if you're not coherent it's all in vain. But yeah. Why do some couples fall out of love, explain that one to me.  And others you see like a movie (ie The Notebook) a love that can never be extinguished.  I want that kind of love! 

Edited 18 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Inliytened1 Raw, fiery, carnal passion and hot chocolate cuddle-puddles everlasting!!

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@Inliytened1 Raw, fiery, carnal passion and hot chocolate cuddle-puddles everlasting!!

Yes you have nailed it right there.  Cuddle puddles is a new one for me i am gonna have to digest that one.  Love it!

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Inliytened1 Cuddle puddle was used on me - to great affect.

Probably a good phrase for the gentleman who want to woo the ladies

"Movie and a cuddle puddle?" 

I SEDUCE MYSELF!

[Inliytened1]

7 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@Inliytened1 Cuddle puddle was used on me - to great affect.

Probably a good phrase for the gentleman who want to woo the ladies

"Movie and a cuddle puddle?" 

I SEDUCE MYSELF!

I need some cuddle puddles for sure. Won't deny it.

[Emotionalmosquito]

Neither. She’s out the door if she says either one of those. That’s getting into committed relationship territory which serves me no purpose and costs a fortune. I still have dozens of gorgeous women I need to experience before even thinking about settling down. That’s why I’m trying to learn the art of seduction. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Emotionalmosquito very interesting.

Why do you think you reject expressions of love and admiration? 

It seems to me they appear to be loaded terms for you. Do you know where you developed your relationship to receiving love and respect? 

[Basman]

I never heard anyone say "I respect" you outside of a fight where they need to reestablish trust. Respect is something you show through your actions in my opinion. Words are nice but only one factor. 

[Emotionalmosquito]

21 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@Emotionalmosquito very interesting.

Why do you think you reject expressions of love and admiration? 

It seems to me they appear to be loaded terms for you. Do you know where you developed your relationship to receiving love and respect? 

Well it’s just because I don’t need things to be getting that serious. Maybe if she expressed that I could tell her “I’ll pretend you didn’t say that” and try to forget it before really leaving. I just want a no strings attached partner so we can bust each other’s balls, be goofy, play tag, hide and seek, and do epic prank calls together and stuff. If she starts getting real feelings that means it’ll hurt more once it’s time to move on because then I feel bad for cutting it off. Plus it’ll start costing me money I don’t have. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Emotionalmosquito so you don't go deep because you want to avoid pain?