eyes are the window to the soul

[Olaf]

Okay, eye contact is a superpower, but it is not just about eye contact. Like looking someone in the eyes doesn´t do the trick. The trick isn´t necessarily in the eyes as much as the energy. The eyes are the window to the soul. Now guess what, when your full of anxiety, fear, being stuck in your head, eye contact is not gonna be the solution. So first, getting more confident, social, more present in the moment, then you start to have presence. This presence is then booming from your eyes and it will do wonders.

In fact, to me, talking is then only to make it less awkward or just of secondary importance. The eyes are primary as they tell everything about you, your energy and people read it instantly. If you blink or blink a lot or look away, they can see you are not confident and weak. If you hold steady, but not forcing it, like restful, presence, gosh they realise you are the real deal. Because you are the real deal, you have gained confidence, you have gotten rid of that anxiety, now of course you are not gonna wake up tomorrow and be all of a sudden in this presence or as the younger generation would call it, having `aura`. 

It happens after a long time of approaching and socialising, but once that happens, you can even open that way, you can simply open with first eye contact and then whatever comes up in the mind, because the words don´t matter that much, it is the energy. And the way people notice your energy is through your eye contact. It is the ultimate marketing, but you can´t fake it, you have to become the real deal.

[Hojo]

One time I stare into the eyes of my cat for a long time and he gained some awareness.

To hold long eye contact realize that the person behind the eye is brain dead like you. 

Edited Saturday at 08:49 PM by Hojo

[Olaf]

@Hojo I don´t know what the hell your saying hahaha

[Hojo]

@Olaf people get nervous about eye contact cause they make up that theres someone behind the eyes.

[Olaf]

@Hojo Are you getting into nonduality?

[LordFall]

Hojo is like the poor man's nonduality enthusiast lol, what he says doesn't really make sense most times. At least to me idk about you guys. If you don't believe in people Hojo then who are you? 

I don't like to do eye contact too much I feel like it's too intense and we get too close to eachother when we look into eachothers eyes it's like it divolves the barriers between consciousnesses. I like my individuality. 

With certain women it's intoxicating though. 

Edited yesterday at 03:10 AM by LordFall

[Hojo]

@LordFall i do beleive in people but people are dead. You are dead right now. People are dead beings in the body. That's the divine spark.

You are dead right now and keep thinking and talking over your dead self.

When we die you will be looking at me and I will be dead. And you will feel my deadness and not be able to look away and not be able to run from truth anymore. Or you can get used to it now and recognize my divine spark.

Edited yesterday at 05:38 PM by Hojo

[LordFall]

7 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@LordFall i do beleive in people but people are dead. You are dead right now. People are dead beings in the body. That's the divine spark.

You are dead right now and keep thinking and talking over your dead self.

Do you think perhaps you're depressed and feel unconnected to the world and this is what you mean by this? I don't really understand it another way, feel free to explain. 

[Hojo]

@LordFall you are putting emotions and ideas over my deadness. Take away all and see whats there. That why people don't like looking in the eyes for a long time. If you can look in the eyes of a human and see a dead being you are seeing truth and if you can feel it you are helping them and yourself. You are doing something for them they cannot do.

Edited yesterday at 05:42 PM by Hojo

[LordFall]

Yes this screams depression and dissociation to me. I feel the dead energy from people who are overwhelmed with life and their soul and aspirations are crushed. Some people though are bursting with aliveness and there are sparkles and shine in their eyes, they radiate life. It's rare to see because life is tough but it's beautiful. I notice it especially with attractive femininine expressive women that are enjoying their life and don't really worry about much. 

Edited yesterday at 05:51 PM by LordFall

[Someone here]

@LordFall He’s saying you are a brain dead retard who learned good mathematics.

[Schizophonia]

My gaze tends to be stern. Once I wanted to shoot a video to improve my speaking skills and I looked like a beaten angry dog or a guy who had spent his life in the army. 
Maybe it was the lack of sleep.

Edited yesterday at 06:48 PM by Schizophonia

[LordFall]

1 hour ago, Someone here said:

@LordFall He’s saying you are a brain dead retard who learned good mathematics.

That's a pretty weird way to jump into a conversation, I don't think that's what he was saying and I don't appreciate your comment. I think it borderlines deserves a warning point for being a personal attack. I think a lot of your takes are silly and I've never personally insulted you for it.

[Joseph Maynor]

This is deep.  How you present has an energy to it.  

[Hojo]

@LordFall it is what I'm saying. Sit there and feel it. You are running from it. Underneath all the ideas you've ever had is a something thats like its dead. Because it is and you are. If you can touch this part of yourself you are free.

Edited 21 hours ago by Hojo

[Someone here]

2 hours ago, LordFall said:

That's a pretty weird way to jump into a conversation, I don't think that's what he was saying and I don't appreciate your comment. I think it borderlines deserves a warning point for being a personal attack. I think a lot of your takes are silly and I've never personally insulted you for it.

I wasn’t necessarily insulting you . I was being cheeky . Trying to mimick him . Take it lightly.

[Hojo]

Its like your in a coma right now. If you were in a coma a brain dead thing thats not thinking is creating your entire existence and you are that thing. And you can experience it in between you making up that you aren't that thing.

Edited 20 hours ago by Hojo

[Olaf]

okay everyone, keep it respectful, don´t insult eachother otherwise I will report your posts. Talking about eye contact, just as @LordFall says, some people radiate life. Now that is exactly what happens when you have good eye contact, you radiate life and people are attracted to this and this is through building confidence and being in a flow state or even pumping your state. It makes your eye contact not forced, where you HAVE to look in the eyes forcefully, which is control and fear mostly.

It should be natural, this aliveness, that shines through you and that makes people want to talk and engage with you. You spark them with your spark so to say. But if you feel very bad and you look someone in their eyes, of course they are not gonna go smile back at you, they will look at you the same way. Almost "law of attraction" or rather state transference. What you feel the other feels. So if you feel like shit, they are gonna feel like shit when looking into your eyes. Therefor I said, it isn't about the eye contact, but that the eyes convey the spark better then anything else, that spark in you, that aliveness, but also social energy, that is what is contagious and radiates through the eyes.

Hope this makes sense, if you have something meaningful to say or add to this, let me know. I don't want to hear any nonsense, unless you want to make some joke and add some value in a funny way, that is fine, but please keep it respectful as well.