eyes are the window to the soul

[Olaf]

Okay, eye contact is a superpower, but it is not just about eye contact. Like looking someone in the eyes doesn´t do the trick. The trick isn´t necessarily in the eyes as much as the energy. The eyes are the window to the soul. Now guess what, when your full of anxiety, fear, being stuck in your head, eye contact is not gonna be the solution. So first, getting more confident, social, more present in the moment, then you start to have presence. This presence is then booming from your eyes and it will do wonders.

In fact, to me, talking is then only to make it less awkward or just of secondary importance. The eyes are primary as they tell everything about you, your energy and people read it instantly. If you blink or blink a lot or look away, they can see you are not confident and weak. If you hold steady, but not forcing it, like restful, presence, gosh they realise you are the real deal. Because you are the real deal, you have gained confidence, you have gotten rid of that anxiety, now of course you are not gonna wake up tomorrow and be all of a sudden in this presence or as the younger generation would call it, having `aura`. 

It happens after a long time of approaching and socialising, but once that happens, you can even open that way, you can simply open with first eye contact and then whatever comes up in the mind, because the words don´t matter that much, it is the energy. And the way people notice your energy is through your eye contact. It is the ultimate marketing, but you can´t fake it, you have to become the real deal.

[Hojo]

One time I stare into the eyes of my cat for a long time and he gained some awareness.

To hold long eye contact realize that the person behind the eye is brain dead like you. 

Edited 16 hours ago by Hojo

[Olaf]

@Hojo I don´t know what the hell your saying hahaha

[Hojo]

@Olaf people get nervous about eye contact cause they make up that theres someone behind the eyes.

[Olaf]

@Hojo Are you getting into nonduality?

[LordFall]

Hojo is like the poor man's nonduality enthusiast lol, what he says doesn't really make sense most times. At least to me idk about you guys. If you don't believe in people Hojo then who are you? 

I don't like to do eye contact too much I feel like it's too intense and we get too close to eachother when we look into eachothers eyes it's like it divolves the barriers between consciousnesses. I like my individuality. 

With certain women it's intoxicating though. 

Edited 9 hours ago by LordFall