Most Dating Books/Teachers Aren't Exceptional

[AION]

Being a nerd is a lifestyle, not an isolated behavior. Most of the topics on this forum dive deep into the anals of consciousness. Most women are not interested in that and they will never be interested in that. It doesn´t matter how much the forum bends over to social justice warriorism. This field is mostly a man dominated field and there are some special women who are interested in it too. As for the masculine and feminine POV, I think a healthy amount of clash is natural and healthy. It is like yin-yang dynamic. But obviously the clash should be done with mutual respect and within certain rules. Totally demonizing any kind of clash between the sexes is unhealthy and creepy. That is why incels stay incels. Because they don´t work on their anima projection. And in the same way women should work on their animus projection.

[AION]

As for Emerald. She is a lovely person. And she had some hot takes which were special. Especially the Jungian angle. But she didnt´come off as a well rounded person. Especially for somebody who specialized in Jungian psychology. Ok she didn´t have any degrees in psychology but she did claim authority on the topic. That is why it was peculiar to see how she was struggling with her animus projection because she had a problematic relationship with masculine role models all of her life. She also came across as overly bossy, intellectual and masculine which was not a coincidence in my opinion. True feminine energy is different. 

[Leo Gura]

14 minutes ago, AION said:

Most women are not interested in that and they will never be interested in that. It doesn´t matter how much the forum bends over to social justice warriorism. This field is mostly a man dominated field and there are some special women who are interested in it too.

Eventually you will realize your view is too self-biased.

Sounds like it might take you years to realize that.

[Miguel1]

It is true that most people are stuck in survival and doesn’t have the capacity and / or interest to actualize themselves and explore consciousness deeply.

Most people are too immature to even have a basic thing like a healthy relationship.

To truly have a sustainable, compatible relationship based on honesty, authenticity and truth, is very rare.

[AION]

21 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Eventually you will realize your view is too self-biased.

Sounds like it might take you years to realize that.

It is not self biased. It is just emperical evidence + what I hear from other people. Most women are not interested in super nerdy talk. And if you are honest with yourself you will agree with this.

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[Leo Gura]

16 minutes ago, AION said:

Most women are not interested in super nerdy talk.

That is true. But you said more than that above.

[Ulax]

1 hour ago, AION said:

. Most of the topics on this forum dive deep into the anals of consciousness. 

Hol up

[Ulax]

@AION I agree with most of what you are saying btw.

Shame to see people dogpiling you on this thread. But people will take the opportunity to attack a controversial opinion to feel better about themselves where they can.

[Leo Gura]

It is not a personal attack. His view is quite biased.

Please don't take that personally.

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[Alexop]

I mean yea, they are less nerdy. They spend less time in their head and more in the present. My ex literally fell asleep while  explaining Spiral dynamics to her.

But does that make them less developed or less mature?? Relative  to what? I mean they observe so much stuff because they are so present, and observation can be a very stong tool for understanding. They are also very responsible in my experience. Especially after they have kids. And if assuming responsibility is not maturity, what is?

And we judge them based on how well they function and understand the techno-patriarchal society we built. But who says this is the only way to live well?  

Living in your head exposes yourself to many delusions. And that is not intelligent, that is stupid. You try to understand the essence of a hand through math and chemistry. She tells you: let that nonsense aside and just observe it's majesty. Your hand is fucking magic, nerdy idiot. 

[AION]

My observations are mostly balanced and on point. And I always get compliments on my POV. The only thing I need to work on is emotional and social intellgence so that I don't hurt people's emotions while saying the harsh truth.

Edited 18 minutes ago by AION

[Valach]

4 minutes ago, AION said:

My observations are mostly balanced and on point. And I always get compliments on my POV.

Sorry bro but that is just such a cringe thing to say

[Leo Gura]

2 minutes ago, Valach said:

Sorry bro but that is just such a cringe thing to say

Don't squeeze him please. It is counter-productive.

[Ulax]

4 minutes ago, Valach said:

Sorry bro but that is just such a cringe thing to say

Don't hate on the king. Know your place

[Valach]

5 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Don't squeeze him please. It is counter-productive.

What do you feel would be productive?

[AION]

6 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Don't hate on the king. Know your place

 

[Leo Gura]

2 minutes ago, Valach said:

What do you feel would be productive?

Anything that doesn't make him more defensive.