A person can have different values or priority than truth or love .

[Rishabh R]

It has been proven to me over and over again that my top value is:-

1.Resilience which involves engaging with challenges ,discomfort and difficulty of day to day life after accepting them . 

2nd value is Tranquility which involves questioning the thoughts ,beleifs and assumptions behind the emotion when angry , hurt ,triggered or experiencing any negative emotion by - What if I'm wrong ?, What would it mean if I were wrong ? ,Would being wrong create a better problem than my current problem or worse problem for both myself and others? then arriving at a balanced conclusion.

3rd value is connection by expressing myself honestly to others .

And I have experienced progress by acting in alignment with them.

Edited Sunday at 08:07 AM by Rishabh R

[LordFall]

Well let me promise to you that your top value is not resilience otherwise you would torture yourself to prove to yourself that you can take it. 

Once you can survive something like this guy and be chilling then you can say that you particularly practice resilience

Also Leo never said that truth or love HAS to be your top values just that it's probably best that they are.