Whats the psychology behind this?

[Schizophonia]

11 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Glad you see me as in touch with my feminine side  

Sorry I was aggressive/tried to humiliate; it doesn't accomplish anything.

[Schizophonia]

I'm going to make a more nuanced/gentle post to explain what I mean.

 

[Joseph Maynor]

They are doing it to connect with you and then you don't connect.  

[Ulax]

11 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Sorry I was aggressive/tried to humiliate; it doesn't accomplish anything.

Appreciate it *Forgives*

 

[integral]

There's multiple options

1. She feels like she made you take her there and you don't want anything, she feels selfish and using you (unintentionally) 
2. She expected a moment together, instead she has to do it alone, abandoned. 
3. If you don't get something, she feels like you're judging her for indulging.
4. If you don't get something, you're not part of the team and she feels left out

Edited 42 minutes ago by integral

[Hojo]

3 hours ago, Miguel1 said:

Omg guys.

She wants to have a moment with her love, sharing an ice cream. What in the world is so hard to understand their disappointment?

It’s like I hype you to go watch your favourite sports team’s match, then when we arrive, I’m like:

”Nahh, actuallt I don’t want to watch, but I’ll be here close to you, focused on my phone”.

Are you saying if I take my girlfriend to a sports game and she's not interested and looks at her phone I can hit her and tell her to watch because I want to connect with her? Or is that type of maturity reserved for men? If I go a sports game and my gf come and she dosent want it and looks at her phone I will still enjoy the game. Its not about that.

Edited 26 minutes ago by Hojo

[integral]

3 minutes ago, Hojo said:

Are you saying if I take my girlfriend to a sports game and she's not interested and looks at her phone I can hit her and tell her to watch because I want to connect with her? Or is that type of maturity reserved for men?

If you take her somewere you get your hopes up to have a fun time together, if she is not enjoying herself you feel like you failed. 

Edited 26 minutes ago by integral