Let’s Take Looksmaxxing Seriously

[Hojo]

@LordFall grooming yourself isnt looks maxing. Thats just regular activity. There's no difference between pictures besides you shaves and took your glasses off and now milfs ate suddenly kicking their lips at you.

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[LordFall]

7 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@LordFall grooming yourself isnt looks maxing. Thats just regular activity. There's no difference between pictures besides you shaves and took your glasses off and now milfs ate suddenly kicking their lips at you.

Sure it is, I see plenty of dudes with unkept facial hair walking down the street.

I also have better style hair in that 2nd picture

The glasses are particularly not great since they are bulky and reduce my facial symmetry. The grey contacts seem to do me well but mileage may vary based on individuals. I got the tip from when I was living with a male stripper in Toronto. 

The jewelry draws attention to me more than having a more bland style.

The shirt is more form fitting.

You don't have to get surgeries to looksmax already by dressing better and optimizing accessories, hairstyle and facial hair will raise most guys by like 2 points. Then the fitness as I mentioned is a big part of it. Surgeries you can go off the wall and do stuff that some will say makes you look worse like Clavicular and his recent nose job. 

 

 

[Hojo]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

I get the sense that people who feel strong need to point out the importance of these things, is because they dont have strong enough desire to genuinely want to do it for themselves. So it’s like you’re also in a way trying to convince yourself of the importance of this when writing about it . If you genuinely wanted to go to barber shop and get nice haircut regardless, would you really feel need to write this long text about it
 

Also you won’t look better than the healthiest version of yourself and that includes health on all levels meaning also inner state (because it will have effect on cellular level) Rest is just modifications and enhancement, for example make up is not how one actually looks . So actually “looks-maxing” in its basis is quite natural and healthy

Looksmaxxing is for other people. Thats why it dosent work

 Its people pleasing to the point of self mutilation.

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[LordFall]

Yes and dating  and sex involve other people. It's kind of the point, you make yourself more attractive to more mates to improve your reproduction and sexual access odds. There is a difference between strategic self-optimization to meet your own goals vs neurotic people pleasing. I think people pleasing involves changing yourself to fit someone else's goal as opposed to meeting an authentic desire that you have. You should probably want to be an attractive male that women wanna fuck. 

Sometimes the results can seem subtle but it makes a big difference. Just shows that you're self-awareness and understand society and the world around you. This is a good series to watch to see examples. If you do a lot of cold approach you see right away the difference in how people treat you based on how you look. 

 

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[Ulax]

2 hours ago, Yimpa said:

LOOOL

[LordFall]

2 hours ago, Yimpa said:

Shrek is a true lesson in masculinity. He saves the princess when the prince is too afraid to do it. True alpha male. 

[integral]

Its effortless to looksmax as a dude, dress well and shower, good posture, go to the gym for 2+ years.

Dial in basic self-development concepts.

Believe it's Child's Play and it will effort to lose so they be done

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[integral]

4 hours ago, AtmanIsBrahman said:

Why are looks important? Simply put, we evaluate people’s attractiveness almost instantly, as a biologically ingrained mechanism.

Try vibemaxxing. walk vibe, talk vibe, be vibe.

They will be attracted you just by your eye contact and micro facial expressions, tone of voice, how you carry yourself.

Why is dancing so attractive? Vibemaxxing.

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[integral]

4 hours ago, AtmanIsBrahman said:

Leo is 6’2

This had 0 impact. It took him years of non-stop pickup to get 1 date.

Leo said his top pickup buddy was 5'4 and ABSOLUTLY KILLED IT.

They didnt stand a chance. His vibe was illigal.

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[integral]

When i go on a frist date I take some mushrooms beforehand to maximize vibe and to spike performance. 

People drink Alcohol just to get vibe, thats the whole point

The best Vibe is the outward expression of how you inwardly feel, and people are hyper sensitive to it

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[LordFall]

I've never tried shrooms that's wild. Sometimes I try to game with high on weed but it's too intense for me. I'm sensitive to it and then I get awakening experiences walking down the street and my own consciousness looking at me through random women it's quite anxiety inducing. 

It doesn't really have to do with looksmaxxing but understanding your MBTI type and how it relates to dating is so important. Anything extroverted is gonna be not too hard and the more introverted you are the more disconnected you are from people so it's gonna be harder. I'm an INTP so I got it on veteran mode but the levels of game I'm starting to unlock are pretty interesting so I don't really think there is a worst type just more effort you'll have to put in. 

[bazera]

Isn't taking care of your looks a no-brainer when it comes to dating? 

Losing weight, becoming fit, proper grooming, buying clothes that fit, fixing teeth maybe, etc. 

Why are we framing that as "looksmaxxing"?

I don't like this idea of maxxing because what are you maxing towards? Some Clavicular ideal? 

[LordFall]

I mean it's straight forward you're maximizing your potential. I don't know if you guys are being intellectually honest here, what percentage of men do you guys know that are as fit as they can be, have a top tier fashion, have a unique style that gives them sex appeal? That's like easily less than 5% of dudes I meet and I live in Montreal and lived in Toronto which are supposed to be pretty cosmopolitan. In Calgary it was like 2% at best. 

Have you been guys been to a nightclub recently or walked down a street? You guys really think dudes look as good as they could? That's not even to speak of the dudes that look like they came from 2002 and/or their mom dressed them which is like easily 20% of men. It's also summer, there are pool bars and beaches. If you look like a chump that's gonna hurt your chances. 

Just in the first 30 seconds of this I got a dude wearing a blue and red disaster that looks like a warning sign, asian bro wearing a shirt 2 sizes too big for him and indian bro looking like his dad. Like if you don't cold approach you might think this stuff doesn't make a difference if you're just thinking about it in your head but talk to real women in the street or at events and it makes a big difference. If you got great game you can handle handicaps but especially if you're going after attractive women that have options every part where you're uncalibrated works against you. 

I ran a podcast where the whole point was talking to women about their dating lives and basically all of them had trouble finding men they were attracted to and were shocked men were this clueless. Are you guys observing the opinions you have about dating in real life or it's just like theories that you think might be true? 

 

Edited 13 minutes ago by LordFall