Let’s Take Looksmaxxing Seriously

[Hojo]

@LordFall grooming yourself isnt looks maxing. Thats just regular activity. There's no difference between pictures besides you shaves and took your glasses off and now milfs ate suddenly kicking their lips at you.

Edited 1 hour ago by Hojo

[LordFall]

7 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@LordFall grooming yourself isnt looks maxing. Thats just regular activity. There's no difference between pictures besides you shaves and took your glasses off and now milfs ate suddenly kicking their lips at you.

Sure it is, I see plenty of dudes with unkept facial hair walking down the street.

I also have better style hair in that 2nd picture

The glasses are particularly not great since they are bulky and reduce my facial symmetry. The grey contacts seem to do me well but mileage may vary based on individuals. I got the tip from when I was living with a male stripper in Toronto. 

The jewelry draws attention to me more than having a more bland style.

The shirt is more form fitting.

You don't have to get surgeries to looksmax already by dressing better and optimizing accessories, hairstyle and facial hair will raise most guys by like 2 points. Then the fitness as I mentioned is a big part of it. Surgeries you can go off the wall and do stuff that some will say makes you look worse like Clavicular and his recent nose job. 

 

 

[Hojo]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

I get the sense that people who feel strong need to point out the importance of these things, is because they dont have strong enough desire to genuinely want to do it for themselves. So it’s like you’re also in a way trying to convince yourself of the importance of this when writing about it . If you genuinely wanted to go to barber shop and get nice haircut regardless, would you really feel need to write this long text about it
 

Also you won’t look better than the healthiest version of yourself and that includes health on all levels meaning also inner state (because it will have effect on cellular level) Rest is just modifications and enhancement, for example make up is not how one actually looks . So actually “looks-maxing” in its basis is quite natural and healthy

Looksmaxxing is for other people. Thats why it dosent work

 Its people pleasing to the point of self mutilation.

Edited 1 hour ago by Hojo

[LordFall]

Yes and dating  and sex involve other people. It's kind of the point, you make yourself more attractive to more mates to improve your reproduction and sexual access odds. There is a difference between strategic self-optimization to meet your own goals vs neurotic people pleasing. I think people pleasing involves changing yourself to fit someone else's goal as opposed to meeting an authentic desire that you have. You should probably want to be an attractive male that women wanna fuck. 

Sometimes the results can seem subtle but it makes a big difference. Just shows that you're self-awareness and understand society and the world around you. This is a good series to watch to see examples. If you do a lot of cold approach you see right away the difference in how people treat you based on how you look. 

 

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[Ulax]

2 hours ago, Yimpa said:

LOOOL

[LordFall]

2 hours ago, Yimpa said:

Shrek is a true lesson in masculinity. He saves the princess when the prince is too afraid to do it. True alpha male. 

[integral]

Its effortless to looksmax as a dude, dress well and shower, good posture, go to the gym for 2+ years.

Dial in basic self-development concepts.

This is childs play.

Im more interesting in statemaxxing. That also involves mostly basic concepts as long as you dont have health issues.

Edited 2 minutes ago by integral

[integral]

4 hours ago, AtmanIsBrahman said:

Why are looks important? Simply put, we evaluate people’s attractiveness almost instantly, as a biologically ingrained mechanism.

Try vibemaxxing. walk vibe, talk vibe, be vibe.

They will be attracted you just by your eye contact and micro facial expressions, how you carry yourleft.

Why is dancing so attractive? Vibemaxxing.

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