Women are attracted to relativity

[Jirh]

@Sugarcoat It's sad, honestly. He has the capacity, but just doesn't apply it here. I don't understand why.

[Sugarcoat]

51 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

But a hot girl is still hot, even if she has whatever other negative personal qualities.

A beautiful cake laced with poison still looks and tastes good.

Theres a difference between just finding someone hot (just good looking) vs feeling attracted to them because of that “isolated” characteristic you perceive 

Edited 3 hours ago by Sugarcoat

[Sugarcoat]

4 minutes ago, Jirh said:

@Sugarcoat It's sad, honestly. He has the capacity, but just doesn't apply it here. I don't understand why.

You saying that makes it almost seem to me like there’s an agitation in you to express some tendency you clearly see. Maybe I’m unclear but I’m just in general kinda skeptical to when people are concerned like that, I tend to guess it’s something about themselves actually (not bad thing), but that’s also based on my personal experience 

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, LordFall said:

You're not into black queens? Bro... I didn't expect this from you 

More for me 😏

[LordFall]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

More for me 😏

Very good I think you should get 3 girlfriends it’s a good number. You can get some variety in your own household and never be bored as well. 
 

 

1 hour ago, Jirh said:

@Sugarcoat It's sad, honestly. He has the capacity, but just doesn't apply it here. I don't understand why.

Can you attract hot women? Or do you have do rationalize it and find excuses as to why you can’t? Usually the most high consciousness and spiritual thing is just the truth. 

[integral]

1 minute ago, LordFall said:

You can get some variety in your own household and never be bored as well. 

Getting bored and needing a new woman is a you thing my life coach  

[Sugarcoat]

On 2026-06-23 at 5:08 PM, LordFall said:

I don't really see people's levels of developments as too much of an obstacle to relationships as long as goals are aligned and they are open to new perspectives. I'm very good at intellectual empathy and understanding where someone is coming from and challenging their viewpoint constructively so I legit think if I dated a conservative woman her level of consciousness would raise dramatically in little time.

 

Someone whose “goals are aligned” with you, and is “open to new perspectives”, sounds like someone that is actually “developed” enough so you can connect with them . The word “development” is quite loaded with assumptions so I get what you’re saying, i don’t think of it as “rigidly” either, it’s very broad imo . But the way I interpret it, I think it matters a lot to be able to have genuine connection. 
 

Conservative women are a somewhat broad group so yea some of them you could probably connect with because you’re open, but some would still be too “closed” in their ways I think, so even if you’re open and understanding it doesn’t guarantee she will be receptive to it. But maybe you’d even like that extra “challenge” haahah

 

[Jirh]

Quote

To a man with a hammer, everything looks like a nail.

-- Abraham Maslow

@LordFall You are interpreting everything through the lens of your red-pill ideology. It's sad that that's the only lens you have and that you cannot see the world without it.

[Schizophonia]

8 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Very good I think you should get 3 girlfriends it’s a good number.

😹 You mean at the same time?

8 minutes ago, LordFall said:

You can get some variety in your own household and never be bored as well. 

I just want a cool girlfriend, I'm simple in this area.

 

 

 

[LordFall]

39 minutes ago, integral said:

Getting bored and needing a new woman is a you thing my life coach  

In the first year of dating couples have sex on average more than 2x a week. After 5 years it drops to less than once a week. 25% of divorces are linked to lack of intimacy in a marriage. This is a lot of people man and women.

27 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Someone whose “goals are aligned” with you, and is “open to new perspectives”, sounds like someone that is actually “developed” enough so you can connect with them . The word “development” is quite loaded with assumptions so I get what you’re saying, i don’t think of it as “rigidly” either, it’s very broad imo . But the way I interpret it, I think it matters a lot to be able to have genuine connection. 
 

Conservative women are a somewhat broad group so yea some of them you could probably connect with because you’re open, but some would still be too “closed” in their ways I think, so even if you’re open and understanding it doesn’t guarantee she will be receptive to it. But maybe you’d even like that extra “challenge” haahah

 

Well a lot of low consciousness people are just slaves to public consensus so if you have a lot of status you basically override their herd opinions anyway so I think being powerful, abundant and high consciousness helps a lot in that area. 

 

25 minutes ago, Jirh said:

-- Abraham Maslow

@LordFall You are interpreting everything through the lens of your red-pill ideology. It's sad that that's the only lens you have and that you cannot see the world without it.

Not at all. I view things in may different perspectives. I asked you a question and you avoided answering it. You're the one projecting ideologies unto me, I mostly look at what I can observe. I'm actually a top scientist

20 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

😹 You mean at the same time?

I just want a cool girlfriend, I'm simple in this area.

Of course. Women love women so it'll be really fun type of relationship to be in. Fair enough, I would try to at least experiment and get out of your comfort zone before settling though! 

[integral]

3 minutes ago, LordFall said:

In the first year of dating couples have sex on average more than 2x a week. After 5 years it drops to less than once a week. 25% of divorces are linked to lack of intimacy in a marriage. This is a lot of people man and women.

This is related to a lack of self-development.

These people have no idea how to generate arousal, how to build intimacy into their relationship at a deep level, they never learned how to have good healthy relationships.

The point I made is that innate boredom that is biologically wired is not the primary problem.

How do I know this? Because I did the work to master my mind and I do not get bored.

[LordFall]

That's fair yes most men and women suck at sex and intimacy. There are books on it. I like Tantric sex myself that's some cool stuff you combine meditation and sex. 

[Jirh]

Just now, LordFall said:

Not at all. I view things in may different perspectives.

The perspective that you are missing is that beauty is subjective.

Just now, LordFall said:

I mostly look at what I can observe. I'm actually a top scientist

I don't know who you are. And I couldn't care less.

I could claim any amount of qualifications and experience. Anyone can. But that doesn't matter.

What matters is what you say and if it makes sense.

You keep asking for qualifications, but you're not aware that it's just an argument from authority fallacy.

[Miguel1]

3 hours ago, LordFall said:

You need a genius hottie that's the goated status for women. 

They are more rare than unicorns. But my God if I had a genius conscious hottie as my girlfriend, escape to live in the middle of nowhere, raise a family and practice spirituality together. Tantra at night.

Now this is happiness.

[Miguel1]

3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

But a hot girl is still hot, even if she has whatever other negative personal qualities.

A beautiful cake laced with poison still looks and tastes good.

As Jith pointed out, I am talking purely looks, not personality.

I couldn’t even appreciate real beauty by girls, before I matured, and got more abundant with girls.

[Schizophonia]

44 minutes ago, LordFall said:

In the first year of dating couples have sex on average more than 2x a week. After 5 years it drops to less than once a week. 25% of divorces are linked to lack of intimacy in a marriage. This is a lot of people man and women.

I would be good with sex once/twice a week.

I don't believe that men actually have a higher libido; I believe men are especially more compulsive.

If I orgasm too regularly sex becomes less deep, more paraphilic, and I have less manliness and energy in general.

Edited 45 minutes ago by Schizophonia

[LordFall]

1 hour ago, Jirh said:

The perspective that you are missing is that beauty is subjective.

To a point. A 400 lbs woman can be beautiful to someone. If you say you can attract beautiful women and you can only attract obese women I'd say you're coping and delusional and objectively are bad at attracting women. If you want to call that a red pill point that's just silly. 

55 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

They are more rare than unicorns. But my God if I had a genius conscious hottie as my girlfriend, escape to live in the middle of nowhere, raise a family and practice spirituality together. Tantra at night.

Now this is happiness.

Try more corporate/finance/crypto events. There are a lot of hot women there that are very smart. Consciousness can be learned if she respects you. Make some money start a homestead and vision complete.