When do men start being unnatractive when it comes to looks?

[gettoefl]

1 hour ago, Butters said:

Lol tell that to the girls dating coked up junkie club promoters. 

In fact, many girls date total lowlifes. 

My love has so much potential though. And that's what I am wanting for my kids.

[gettoefl]

1 hour ago, Elliott said:

How about you?

 

Short term or long term?

[Elliott]

3 minutes ago, gettoefl said:

Short term or long term?

Great answer

[ladelle]

Aging is a terrible thing that happens to us, I hope we will be able to reverse it in our lifetime

[ladelle]

Just now, ladelle said:

Aging is a terrible thing that happens to us, I hope we will be able to reverse it in our lifetime

I want to experience being in my early twenties again, 23/24 was my prime as a woman 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

26 minutes ago, ladelle said:

Aging is a terrible thing that happens to us, I hope we will be able to reverse it in our lifetime

Can you brainstorm up some good things about aging?

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

9 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Can you brainstorm up some good things about aging?

Probably just a heightened awareness of how short life is and how fast time is flying by, resulting in an increased appreciation for the time you have left. Also it is a natural order of things - we are born, and we cease to exist, that applies to everything not just living beings. Also, expecting and anticipating a certain time windows within which you get to live, gives you a certain strange sense of comfort and sanity - you roughly know very confidently how your life is going to unwind, the same way as for your ancestors. But other than that, there are only negatives

[Natasha Tori Maru]

7 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Probably just a heightened awareness of how short life is and how fast time is flying by, resulting in an increased appreciation for the time you have left. Also it is a natural order of things - we are born, and we cease to exist, that applies to everything not just living beings. Also, expecting and anticipating a certain time windows within which you get to live, gives you a certain strange sense of comfort and sanity - you roughly know very confidently how your life is going to unwind, the same way as for your ancestors. But other than that, there are only negatives

This is salient. There are tons of negatives to aging. 

Even if we drum up a list (which would be easy, imo) I sort of wonder what sort of weight each point would carry against your statement above (personal for everyone). Because it moves toward a sort of equanimous peace and gratitude based state of being. Which isn't guaranteed either, but powerful.

Man, the pain of getting old. Like, literally pain - that gets me. I think it is short sighted putting too much weight on the aesthetics of aging as a negative. It's mostly done by those who are too young to yet feel their health erode and pain arise. Idgaf about saggy tits if my basic existence is punctuated by pain and suffering. Poor health / chronic medical issues. 

Quality of life is priority for me, over longevity.

Edited 7 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[integral]

6 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Man, the pain of getting old. Like, literally pain - that gets me. I think it is short sighted putting too much weight on the aesthetics of aging as a negative. It's mostly done by those who are too young to yet feel their health erode and pain arise. Idgaf about saggy tits if my basic existence is punctuated by pain and suffering. Poor health / chronic medical issues. 

Have you had some health issues so far? 

Edited 7 hours ago by integral

[Elliott]

I feel physically better and better as I age.

 

 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

8 minutes ago, integral said:

Have you had some health issues so far? 

Hashimoto's. I am lucky to, otherwise share @Elliott's experience.

But two of my close family members have motor neurone disease. It's hard. 

 

 

[LordFall]

1 hour ago, ladelle said:

Aging is a terrible thing that happens to us, I hope we will be able to reverse it in our lifetime

Anti aging is looking really good. I would follow Bryan Johnson and his experiments, it's not quite there yet but in 20 years I'm sure a 50 year old will look 25. 

1 hour ago, ladelle said:

I want to experience being in my early twenties again, 23/24 was my prime as a woman 

How is your fitness level? As we age our metabolism slows down and it's easy to get overweight and that's where a lot of unnacttractiveness comes from. 

23 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Man, the pain of getting old. Like, literally pain - that gets me. I think it is short sighted putting too much weight on the aesthetics of aging as a negative. It's mostly done by those who are too young to yet feel their health erode and pain arise. Idgaf about saggy tits if my basic existence is punctuated by pain and suffering. Poor health / chronic medical issues. 

Quality of life is priority for me, over longevity.

Yeah I'm starting to get way more injuries from working out consistently but not even that hard. My new addiction is asking Gemini about every pain I experience, it's fun to get actual answers. Just be careful to not let it turn you into a hypochondriac 

Edited 6 hours ago by LordFall

[Raze]

1 hour ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Can you brainstorm up some good things about aging?

Aging is a natural state of no self

 

[Sucuk Ekmek]

Not 40 yet but I don't feel that way at least for myself, also I don't care if others think themselves unnatractive.

For women it's 40 after that they don't click with me biologically.

I hope there is no paradox in what I just wrote.