Forum's Drama

[CARDOZZO]

I beg you to focus on what really matters on your life. Stop creating drama on this forum.

You should be working so hard on your life that you forget what a forum is  

Why are you guys so attached to the forum?  

Focus on working on yourself.

[UnbornTao]

It's not about the forum, it's about the people and the community (this was not written by GPT, I swear.)

Use it as a case study for certain dynamics, spiritual pretension, curiosity, and so on. How about that?

 

[LordFall]

Always fun to speak on a high horse. What are you working on? Post it publicly and the forum will hold you accountable! 

Discussion with your peers on various topics that are important to you is not really a waste of time. If you utilize it wisely it should sharpens your mind.  

Edited 4 hours ago by LordFall

[Human Mint]

How it will affect you all depends on the type of person you are. There is drama here because people create drama by themselves, that's the function of the ego. I genuinely feel more concerned about studying my own defense mechanisms after spending time in here.

People share intersting stuff here. Trip reports, transformational videos, life experiences, insights, etc. I would rather scroll in here than Tik Tok or Instagram. Cause' I'm a Chad.

But to make a point for you, it would be better if people posted mostly at their best state.

 

Edited 3 hours ago by Human Mint

[CARDOZZO]

1 hour ago, UnbornTao said:

It's not about the forum, it's about the people and the community (this was not written by GPT, I swear.)

Use it as a case study for certain dynamics, spiritual pretension, curiosity, and so on. How about that?

 

I don't get it. We have abundant resources everywhere to make life happen.

It is all about your choices. 

[CARDOZZO]

28 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Always fun to speak on a high horse. What are you working on? Post it publicly and the forum will hold you accountable! 

Discussion with your peers on various topics that are important to you is not really a waste of time. If you utilize it wisely it should sharpens your mind.  

Working on relationships, making money, spirituality, reading, good habits, philosophy, technology.

It was not a thread to put people down. It was just a wake up call 😎

[CARDOZZO]

26 minutes ago, Human Mint said:

But to make a point for you, it would be better if people posted mostly at their best state.

 

This.

[LordFall]

6 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

Working on relationships, making money, spirituality, reading, good habits, philosophy, technology.

It was not a thread to put people down. It was just a wake up call 😎

So all the things that we talk about and discuss here? 

What goals do you have specifically in those areas? Particularly surrounding relationships and money. 

[UnbornTao]

24 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

I don't get it. We have abundant resources everywhere to make life happen.

It is all about your choices. 

You watch the videos and engage in this place, so get that that isn't incompatible with pointing out "unconscious" behavior.

Of course that pandering, agreeing, making each other feel special, being entertained, etc., doesn't generate as much noise and drama (and this is equally a function of the ego, by the way - it just isn't so explicit.)

The real metric here would be: would you have complained or pointed out the same thing without the drama, but with the pandering and cult dynamics at play, with no one else pointing them out? 

Of course it isn't a convenient thing to look into, plus it is easy to dislike and feel invalidated by it.

But the truth doesn't care about your life, or mine. It's just about what's going on.

If Leo were the one saying this very same words most of you would start paying some attention.

Edited 3 hours ago by UnbornTao

[Thought Art]

1 hour ago, CARDOZZO said:

Focus on working on yourself.

 

[CARDOZZO]

7 minutes ago, LordFall said:

So all the things that we talk about and discuss here? 

What goals do you have specifically in those areas? Particularly surrounding relationships and money. 

A lot of them. Buying houses, cars, financial independence.

If you got triggered, my bad 😉

[CARDOZZO]

4 minutes ago, UnbornTao said:

You watch the videos and engage in this place, so get that that isn't incompatible with pointing out "unconscious" behavior.

Of course that pandering doesn't generate as much noise and drama.

The real metric here would be: would you have complained or pointed out the same thing without the drama, but with the pandering and cult dynamics at play, with no one pointing them out? 

Of course it isn't a convenient thing to look into, plus it is easy to dislike and feel invalidated by it.

But the truth doesn't care about your life, or mine. It's just about what's going on.

If Leo were the one saying this very same words most of you would start paying some attention.

If you really cared about Truth, you wouldn't be here. You know deep down that fact but you are attached to something on the forum.

You will not change Leo, forum or people's behavior. It is what it is. 

 

[Yimpa]

39 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

If you really cared about Truth, you wouldn't be here. You know deep down that fact but you are attached to something on the forum.

What brings you back to the forum? 

[LordFall]

I'm not triggered, I just dislike low quality discourse. We have good discussions on this forum and change people's opinions all the time. If you're not a persuasive person that can understand people's perspective and make good points towards changing it when you feel it right to do so then all you're doing is projection. 

58 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

If you really cared about Truth, you wouldn't be here. You know deep down that fact but you are attached to something on the forum.

You will not change Leo, forum or people's behavior. It is what it is. 

 

1 hour ago, CARDOZZO said:

If you really cared about Truth, you wouldn't be here. You know deep down that fact but you are attached to something on the forum.

You will not change Leo, forum or people's behavior. It is what it is. 

Edited 2 hours ago by LordFall

[zurew]

1 hour ago, CARDOZZO said:

You will not change Leo, forum or people's behavior. It is what it is. 

if you actually thought that, in that case you wouldnt have created this thread and you wouldnt be replying to people here and trying to persuade them to do what you think is more productive for them to do.