What Are The Best Things To Desire in Life

[BlessedLion]

I truly believe that in life if you are in good health and have drive, you can manifest and create whatever you want with enough hard work and discipline. The question isn't whether or not that's possible, but what actually are the proper things to work towards in life. 

I feel like most people just go for unconscious programming without questioning it much, this channel has helped me get clear on what the proper things to desire in life are.

 

I also notice a lot of online views are conflicting regarding this question, many seem to place high import on money, but typically making a lot of money, like "fuck you" level money requires a ton of emotional and time investment that could be used for other things like spirituality, understanding, rest, contemplation, yoga, excercise, dating, etc. 

 

On the other hand many spiritual teachers just say go all in on awakening and Being, but this is too simple an answer imo.

 

Here are the things i think are actually worth working towards in life:

 

-Quality social relationships (4/5 good close friends) (building this)

-Dating and Attraction Skills

-Sexual skill and mastery, being able to have great sex and be an incredible lover

-Social skills and confidence

-Speaking, thinking, and articulation skills

-Awareness, knowing your true nature as Nothing (Who am I?)

-Consciousness, becoming conscious of reality and metaphysical questions

-Pursing mastery in a domain in life

-Knowledge and understanding , reading 100s of books and creating a nueral map of how things interrelate

-Moving up spiral dynamics (development, mastery, growth)

-Learning what you Authentically want without societies influence (ie- do I want kids, marriage, career, house, etc) 

-Financial independence, not being tied to anyone or dependent, able to walk away from anyone or any situation

-Strength, flexibility, endurance, power, skill, hitting the gym and having a healthy and ripped physique

-Being able to fight/defend yourself 

-Having fun expereinces, partying, dancing, laughing, not being too serious or a robot

-Finding and fulfilling your life purpose

-Creating a body of creative work 

-Having clean habits, like meditation, yoga, walks in nature and mastering getting rid of detrimental ones like porn. coffee, booze, scrolling

-Having a calm energy and stable nervous system

-Getting high quality coaching on skills you want to learn

 

 

What else?

 

[BlessedLion]

I'll add emotional stability, having worked through all your traumas and shadow stuff, but also not getting lost in that world

[Hojo]

Death should be number 1 desire.

Edited 18 hours ago by Hojo

[LambdaDelta]

Childlike wonder, selflessness, sharing love, recognizing beauty in everything 

[YIDIRYIDIR]

Your mom. 

(sorry couldn't resist)

[Yimpa]

3 hours ago, YIDIRYIDIR said:

Your mom. 

(sorry couldn't resist)

She truly is Beautiful.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Peace. Prosperity. Health/homeostasis.

Peace is so up there. 

[oOo]

The Sacred.

Only desire and reach for the sacred and a being will break through every conceivable personal development wall imaginable relative to that beings potential.

The sacred provides the ontology for teleology within a being, before a being even needs to think about their purpose, they are already guided by the light and the divine within them. They're not their overanalysing or juggling between false realities because aligning with the sacred forces a being to come into truth alignment across multiple axes (energy, mind, action). 

The sacred is the playground truth plays in, truth is just teleology, its not axiomatically functional, its axiomatically structural to the sacred path across the multiple axes of truth that encompass its revelation. Truth alone then as an objectification, especially intellectually, will not save you and some of the smartest people in history wasting away their years for truth are evidence of this, it became a shielded armour that always partly camouflaged the very sacred alignment every human truly seeks and is already the very answer to honouring within the truth of the sacred.

So here's a practical step to take action on today, get out something equivalent to a digital notepad and think up any ambition your heart desires and see how the sacred is going to either help you get there, or be what shed's greater light and truth on the desire to have it fall into alignment of what you truly want. Understood with wisdom and maturity, there is nothing lost with this path, instead every door opens that you ever could have imagined relative to what is true to your divine sacred path. 

Best wishes.

Rock out.

[Carl-Richard]

21 hours ago, BlessedLion said:

What else?

Whatever you currently want to do. That does not mean blindly cater to impulse and discount all future visions. It means cater to what is the best choice in your current situation.