What Are The Best Things To Desire in Life

[BlessedLion]

I truly believe that in life if you are in good health and have drive, you can manifest and create whatever you want with enough hard work and discipline. The question isn't whether or not that's possible, but what actually are the proper things to work towards in life. 

I feel like most people just go for unconscious programming without questioning it much, this channel has helped me get clear on what the proper things to desire in life are.

 

I also notice a lot of online views are conflicting regarding this question, many seem to place high import on money, but typically making a lot of money, like "fuck you" level money requires a ton of emotional and time investment that could be used for other things like spirituality, understanding, rest, contemplation, yoga, excercise, dating, etc. 

 

On the other hand many spiritual teachers just say go all in on awakening and Being, but this is too simple an answer imo.

 

Here are the things i think are actually worth working towards in life:

 

-Quality social relationships (4/5 good close friends) (building this)

-Dating and Attraction Skills

-Sexual skill and mastery, being able to have great sex and be an incredible lover

-Social skills and confidence

-Speaking, thinking, and articulation skills

-Awareness, knowing your true nature as Nothing (Who am I?)

-Consciousness, becoming conscious of reality and metaphysical questions

-Pursing mastery in a domain in life

-Knowledge and understanding , reading 100s of books and creating a nueral map of how things interrelate

-Moving up spiral dynamics (development, mastery, growth)

-Learning what you Authentically want without societies influence (ie- do I want kids, marriage, career, house, etc) 

-Financial independence, not being tied to anyone or dependent, able to walk away from anyone or any situation

-Strength, flexibility, endurance, power, skill, hitting the gym and having a healthy and ripped physique

-Being able to fight/defend yourself 

-Having fun expereinces, partying, dancing, laughing, not being too serious or a robot

-Finding and fulfilling your life purpose

-Creating a body of creative work 

-Having clean habits, like meditation, yoga, walks in nature and mastering getting rid of detrimental ones like porn. coffee, booze, scrolling

-Having a calm energy and stable nervous system

-Getting high quality coaching on skills you want to learn

 

 

What else?

 

[BlessedLion]

I'll add emotional stability, having worked through all your traumas and shadow stuff, but also not getting lost in that world

[Hojo]

Death should be number 1 desire.

Edited 2 hours ago by Hojo

[LambdaDelta]

Childlike wonder, selflessness, sharing love, recognizing beauty in everything 

[YIDIRYIDIR]

Your mom. 

(sorry couldn't resist)