The dumbest collective shit test

[integral]

8 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

 LordFall that he was trying to present himself as superior to others; you fell into the mousetrap.

I did not say he thinks he's Superior, that he's placing himself as the expert while misrepresenting what other people say and diagnosing them as victims.

While then pulling Tony Robin positivity paragraphs making everyone fall in love with him.

8 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I think he could say everything he said face to face, but you probably can't tell me face to face the message you posted.

it's because you're reading things with a negative tone of voice. Nor am I being playful right now.

Because Tony Robbins decided to misrepresent everything i said, like I haven't been doing self development my entire life.

8 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

No he's the one who posts useful links like this video on how to create a good Hinge profile, the site about Telegram accounts for pick-up artists, or even his Instagram which can be inspiring.

It's great that you're getting incredible free life coaching session from someone.

I didn't know that was what I was supposed to be doing.

I didn't know this was a competition.

Edited 9 hours ago by integral

[integral]

I understand that I got defensive trying to represent my position, I won't do it again.

Take care guys.

[LordFall]

It's all good we're only human learning to be superhuman! Have a good day friend 

[integral]

56 minutes ago, LordFall said:

It's all good we're only human learning to be superhuman! Have a good day friend 

We didn't connect and that's okay.

Take more time trying to understand what people are saying next time.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@LordFall the first chunk of my life was believing that my way was the best way. And that if only someone lived my life they would come to the precise conclusions I did. 

Someone I know coined it the 'golden shadow' (as opposed to just shadow projection). Where I projected out capabilities on others and belief in their faculties. When they didn't measure up to my belief they could overcome all I had and more, I was quite damning. I just truly thought others could make it. I had to learn some people think otherwise. Some people just aren't capable. They are totally different in ways I don't understand. 

Leaving that belief behind made way for more open, honest and good faith questioning to understand. Rather than try to fix their problems with advice. I am a hardcore fixer. Ex self improvement junkie. 

I think I noticed some small patterns in your talking points that may echo what I went through? I don't truly know if you relate to the above. 

Maybe it will assist ❤️

[LordFall]

3 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@LordFall the first chunk of my life was believing that my way was the best way. And that if only someone lived my life they would come to the precise conclusions I did. 

Someone I know coined it the 'golden shadow' (as opposed to just shadow projection). Where I projected out capabilities on others and belief in their faculties. When they didn't measure up to my belief they could overcome all I had and more, I was quite damning. I just truly thought others could make it. I had to learn some people think otherwise. Some people just aren't capable. They are totally different in ways I don't understand. 

Leaving that belief behind made way for more open, honest and good faith questioning to understand. Rather than try to fix their problems with advice. I am a hardcore fixer. Ex self improvement junkie. 

I think I noticed some small patterns in your talking points that may echo what I went through? I don't truly know if you relate to the above. 

Maybe it will assist ❤️

That makes sense. We are on a self-development forum though and thus I will keep offering advice to those that want it. I've worked a lot on this area of my life and it seems to be taking me where I want to whereas a lot of people still spin their wheels in the mud. 

4 hours ago, integral said:

We didn't connect and that's okay.

Take more time trying to understand what people are saying next time.

I like to argue so people that claim things with certainty over things that are quite nuanced trigger me. I hope I gave you an interesting perspective to ponder. 

Edited 4 hours ago by LordFall

[integral]

6 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I know a lot more than you about this area of life though and you seem to not be able to bow down gracefully

When someone feels not understood and misrepresented they then try to seek clarity and then when that Clarity is denied over and over they then get frustrated

When they get frustrated they're diagnosed as lacking emotional intelligence, Given a video of Owen explaining how to engage with life fully and told that they aren't bowing down gracefully 😂

9 minutes ago, LordFall said:

 I know a lot more than you about this area of life though 

We're both arrogant that's for sure

[integral]

13 minutes ago, LordFall said:

people that claim things with certainty

My writing style isn't the best that's for sure

[LordFall]

It's all good I can get defensive as well. I apologize for not understanding what you were trying to communicate. The line between confidence and arrogance is thin, it's hard to always fall on the right side of it for me at least. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@LordFall I find @integral is totally guilty of using 'absolute' language statements 😜

Whenever you push him, probe or question him further in good faith, he usually reveals it was simply wrong language use and not his true meaning. 

You such a bad boy @integral  heh heh

The benefit of the above is that I personally believe, based on previous experience, he is not married to his ideas and concepts. He will flat out abandon them for something better - provided you can present an argument with sound evidence and good reasoning. Don't even have to provide a conclusion. Just receipts, reason, perspective and he lets it cook. Just my 2c on observing how he thinks. 

/Psychoanalysis over 

[integral]

43 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

You such a bad boy @integral  heh heh

omg why am i enjoying this 😭

48 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@LordFall I find @integral is totally guilty of using 'absolute' language statements 😜

Whenever you push him, probe or question him further in good faith, he usually reveals it was simply wrong language use and not his true meaning. 

You such a bad boy @integral  heh heh

The benefit of the above is that I personally believe, based on previous experience, he is not married to his ideas and concepts. He will flat out abandon them for something better - provided you can present an argument with sound evidence and good reasoning. Don't even have to provide a conclusion. Just receipts, reason, perspective and he lets it cook. Just my 2c on observing how he thinks. 

/Psychoanalysis over 

Im pretty sure i wasnt wrong yet  

[WonderSeeker]

7 hours ago, LordFall said:

What? It's a good thread and we're each sharing our perspective. What is unproductive about this conversation? Seems like perhaps you're not a fan of chaos in general and run from it. Confronting all our shadows is how we grow as people. Poking at each other's weaknesses is good. We should welcome it. 

I concur, it's a solid thread (not that I'm biased or anything). Maybe some ego and talking past each other — I'll admit some fault on that — but now that we're aware of it we can make the conversation more productive.

7 hours ago, LordFall said:

 I mean it's common for people that lack experience to have a similar perspective. I've clearly stated throughout the thread that if you're happy with your current circumstances then there is no need to change it. I have said that I'm not yet where I want to be in life and working each day towards it and enjoying the journey. 

To me an identity is constantly evolving. 

I'm relatively happy with my situation, especially where I see it going in the coming years. Am I done though? Hell no! I still have some work to do as far as dating quality partners over taking whatever has a pulse. As an experiment I tried that and the rewards were minimal. Amazing sex with a psychopath or getting your D sucked in a parking lot 30 mins after meeting the person weren't as thrilling or rewarding as the RSD/pickup people made it seem it would be.

Right now I'm in Korea, getting ready to move to China and create an adventurous social circle and find a solid girlfriend. In Mongolia a few years ago, I had some epic dating experiences that changed my life and I intend to create the more of those in China. Strangely, and my Australian bro (who has had 100+ ) can attest to this, Korea/Japan are SUPER hard to date in due to the barrier.

I'm mid-journey but the way I see it, it's okay, even healthy to see where you're going (the spiritual path) and start living it if it suits you.