advice on text game

[Ulax]

On 01/06/2026 at 4:07 PM, PsychedelicEagle said:

No texting will raise her attraction level. 

Come on dude. Your argument loses credibility by making such a universal claim. If texting could not raise attraction, then online game wouldn't matter.

[PsychedelicEagle]

The phone is for setting dates.

@Ulax that's exactly my claim — texting is not only ineffective, but a high-risk/low-reward strategy. Focusing on it will make you waste lots of time on something that barely has any chance in raising a girl's attraction level and lots of chances of ruining her attraction towards you.

PS: You forgot to quote the continuation:

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No texting will raise her attraction level. If that was the case nerds would all have their dicks worn out just by sitting at a desk and using GPT to craft "flirty" messages.

 

[Sugarcoat]

you seem cooler and deeper than her lol, why u wasting time. All these men giving you advice as if every woman is even worth that 

Edited Thursday at 12:44 AM by Sugarcoat

[yetineti]

@Sugarcoat dudes, just be thinking about the what ifs and what they would do and how it could work out, and nobody's even considering that this girl sounds boring as hell. 🤣

[Sugarcoat]

12 minutes ago, yetineti said:

@Sugarcoat dudes, just be thinking about the what ifs and what they would do and how it could work out, and nobody's even considering that this girl sounds boring as hell. 🤣

HAHAHHAHAHH I swear. And it's not judging, it's just first spontaneous first impression based on the convo. We dont know her ofc

It's like, some of them are so stuck in their head they barely even see the girl and how she is 😂 They just see "oh a female" and thats it 😂

Hello again btw : )

Edited Friday at 07:01 AM by Sugarcoat

[Schizophonia]

A priori she seems interested 

[Schizophonia]

On 08/06/2026 at 10:24 AM, Ulax said:

Come on dude. Your argument loses credibility by making such a universal claim. If texting could not raise attraction, then online game wouldn't matter.

It's very ineffective.

[Ulax]

4 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

It's very ineffective.

If you say so

[Olaf]

@Sugarcoat Yes waste of time indeed, but I guess I am all about learning, got some different perspectives from all of you guys, so it was worth it in the end.

[Infinite Tsukuyomi]

Similar to the photo that @LordFall posted mentioning the game of ping pong. I actually had the same insight a few days ago on a very low dose of mushrooms. "It's a game of catch, it's a game, we're playing" I understood in a swoop that if this is not happening then really nothing is happening in terms of dating/game via text. People, women, men want to play. Relationships themselves are a game if you watch closely. Entire marriages are two people playing house at scale. That is totally fine. For me, I realize if I'm not playing the game and just having a good time then I might be being too serious or perhaps not interested myself. Most people decide if they'll play very quickly within a few seconds of meeting you. 

[Sugarcoat]

7 hours ago, Olaf said:

@Sugarcoat Yes waste of time indeed, but I guess I am all about learning, got some different perspectives from all of you guys, so it was worth it in the end.

Yea its that openness