You Don't Want To Solve Your Problems

[CARDOZZO]

I can guarantee you:

No matter how insane, problematic, normal your problems are, you actually don't want to solve them.

You have solutions to your problems. All of them. Right now, all of your problems are solvable problems.

A human being already did it. The solution is on a video, book, blog, AI, friend, expert or it is right here into Consciousness waiting for you.

You love drama, conflict, feeling like a victim, being weak.

That is why your life sucks. You are holding reality too tightly.

Contemplate:

• Why I don't want to solve them?
• Why do I love my problems?
• Why do I think it is a problem?
• Why do I love being hurt?
• What will happen if I solve this problem?
• What will happen if I never solve this problem?

[integration journey]

I always need better bigger problems to give my life better meaning. 

[CARDOZZO]

3 minutes ago, integration journey said:

I always need better bigger problems to give my life better meaning. 

Cool. Keep solving them 😉

[CARDOZZO]

• What hidden payoff am I getting from avoiding this problem?
• What hidden payoff am I getting from having this problem?

(Credit to David R. Hawkins)

[Miguel1]

Yes, many of our problems are indeed procrastinated, as a self-defense mechanism.

But there are also legit problems, for example in the health department, where actually no solution has been developed yet.

[aurum]

Life is not a fantasy where you can solve all your problems.

The vast majority of your problems you can do nothing about.

Life is in control, not you.

[gettoefl]

I have one Problem. From that there arises unending problems. Problems are my agenda - the things I need to accomplish before I am happy. Notice that nobody is happy. Even 95yo Warren Buffet is busy scheming to eke out a few more billions before he rides off into the sunset. He solved millions of problems but not the one Problem. Worse still he isn't aware he has a Problem and so he spins his wheels until death does its part.

Problem is one's BIAS = belief in a self

Edited 1 hour ago by gettoefl

[Someone here]

Life would be boring without problems . Don’t you think ? 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

You know - when you remove problems from people. It reveals this big empty hole inside they have never faced. An unoccupied, un-inspected place. 

When we are first confronted with it - it gets slapped with 'boredom' or 'understimulated'. 

But if you sit with it, you reveal what cannot be spoken. You connect with breath - how we connect to reality moment to moment. 

But yeah most people fucken hate the mundane that is underneath their drama and problems. So they just make some more to replace the old 🤣🤣🤣

Edited 42 minutes ago by Natasha Tori Maru