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How to approach online game consciously?

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With pickup I've always found most of the teachers to be corrupt. Not necessarily in terms of the effectiveness of what they teach, but the ethicalness. I really value Leo's How to get Laid series because of this. It helps me how to think about pickup in a conscious way.

However, with online dating, I'm not aware of Leo producing content on this. I understand one way to get good would be to buy a product from someone who has studied the percentages of what gets results. However, again they don't talk about what is ethical, or a healthy way to approach it, its just seemingly "DO WHAT WORKS".

So, I'd like some perspectives on how to approach online dating consciously. (I want to do it alongside irl stuff) 


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I guess it's about balancing attractiveness with authenticity. I min-maxed a bit but I'm also naturally attractive and ended up with 60 matches and over 150 likes in a week, but only one person who was interesting to talk to . And they live 12 hours away (I was using tinder on a family reunion).

I'd much rather meet a girl through hobby groups than online or at a bar, both those environments attract a lot of low consciousness people. Also I notice using OLD degrades the quality of my consciousness, more so than going to a bar or even more than watching porn.

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