Is neediness a question of vulnerability or an actual lack of abundance?

[UpperMaster]

Mark Manson wrote that practicing vulnerability (vulnerability: intentionally making your desires and intentions been known) is the gateway to being non-needy.

I mean I think we can all agree that this is true, ofc practicing vulnerability will help us be more indifferent to people rejecting us. This is lowkey rejection therapy. 
 

but does this truly cure neediness?

Like Leo says that you should actively create abundance in your life, then you will naturally be less needy and your abundance will grow even further due to non-neediness.

 

Like I’m having several  experiences..and am seriously trying to look through the lense of truth..what’s really true here?

Please leave your opinions for discussion.

 

[Eskilon]

Lack of abundance and Incompleteness for sure. 

If you have done spiritual practice and you have experienced bliss, and temporary completeness, the thought of chasing girls and attraction is non-existent in those moments.