Do men ''chase'' attractive women or attractive women ''come'' to them?

[Never_give_up]

If a man is attractive, does the woman try to come in social contact with them or are they just make subtle signals.

Obviously I wouldn't make this question if I was attractive. So I wonder what's the experience of attractive men. 

I mean, I want to know if a woman ever finds me attractive how she will act since I don't like making the first move ever. 

 

[Leo Gura]

If attractive enough some women will approach the man. But mostly men still have to approach, the women are just far more receptive and down to fuck.

[Leo Gura]

42 minutes ago, Never_give_up said:

I mean, I want to know if a woman ever finds me attractive how she will act since I don't like making the first move ever. 

Eye contact.

She will lock eyes with you and keep looking at you.

You can tell just by looking at her face if she likes you. Focus on learning women's facial reactions to you.

Edited 16 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Natasha Tori Maru]

58 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Eye contact.

She will lock eyes with you and keep looking at you.

You can tell just by looking at her face if she likes you. Focus on learning women's facial reactions to you.

This is a big tell, I agree.

Knowing how to read body language and facial expression can mean your hit rate is much higher because you act on positive signals.

Lots of dudes do just spam approach hoping, but never actually end up learning and assessing a women's signals.

You can get flat rejections and some hostility even, if you fail in a reading of woman. Then you fall into the trap of thinking women flat hate being approached. Or that women hate men. Hate sexuality. Hate forwardness. Traps everywhere.

@Never_give_up Sometimes you will also notice a women may be partially turned toward you - their body may be facing you with eye contact or their face turned to you. Frequent small glances can also be a positive indicator.

Sometimes women will look in an admiring way - but this does not always mean they are dtf or want to be approached.

We aren't candid. I wish it were easier for dudes.

Edited 15 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[AION]

The body language will tell you more than the face. 

[gettoefl]

Woman has next to no interest in a man not into her or who witholds interest signals. Life's too short and plenty more fish in the sea. If she makes first moves, she compromises herself since this is the entire foundation of a potential relationship. She makes herself weak and desperate. Yes sometimes indeed rarely she will bypass this for a greater good - take a risk. Fact is that he must do the initial lifting to get it off the ground. Man decides on day 1 if she is right for him. She takes her sweet time deciding. So if she jumps in first beware - its a false flag. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@gettoefl I disagree.

I've made the first move plenty of times.

Doing so never weakened me in any capacity. It was simply earnest candid expression.

[Rishabh R]

@Leo Gura What about women who don't make eye contact with you initiating conversation with the you. 

I have had multiple instances of this happening to me.

[gettoefl]

6 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@gettoefl I disagree.

I've made the first move plenty of times.

Doing so never weakened me in any capacity. It was simply earnest candid expression.

Of course there is exceptions which is why I said rarely. Anyone awake is beyond silly rules. For most it backfires. Man is lazy, takes a back seat and lets woman wear the pants. Fair play if that's what works.