Do men ''chase'' attractive women or attractive women ''come'' to them?

[Never_give_up]

If a man is attractive, does the woman try to come in social contact with them or are they just make subtle signals.

Obviously I wouldn't make this question if I was attractive. So I wonder what's the experience of attractive men. 

I mean, I want to know if a woman ever finds me attractive how she will act since I don't like making the first move ever. 

 

[Leo Gura]

If attractive enough some women will approach the man. But mostly men still have to approach, the women are just far more receptive and down to fuck.

[Leo Gura]

42 minutes ago, Never_give_up said:

I mean, I want to know if a woman ever finds me attractive how she will act since I don't like making the first move ever. 

Eye contact.

She will lock eyes with you and keep looking at you.

You can tell just by looking at her face if she likes you. Focus on learning women's facial reactions to you.

Edited 2 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Natasha Tori Maru]

58 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Eye contact.

She will lock eyes with you and keep looking at you.

You can tell just by looking at her face if she likes you. Focus on learning women's facial reactions to you.

This is a big tell, I agree.

Knowing how to read body language and facial expression can mean your hit rate is much higher because you act on positive signals.

Lots of dudes do just spam approach hoping, but never actually end up learning and assessing a women's signals.

You can get flat rejections and some hostility even, if you fail in a reading of woman. Then you fall into the trap of thinking women flat hate being approached. Or that women hate men. Hate sexuality. Hate forwardness. Traps everywhere.

@Never_give_up Sometimes you will also notice a women may be partially turned toward you - their body may be facing you with eye contact or their face turned to you. Frequent small glances can also be a positive indicator.

Sometimes women will look in an admiring way - but this does not always mean they are dtf or want to be approached.

We aren't candid. I wish it were easier for dudes.

Edited 1 hour ago by Natasha Tori Maru