What Would You Do In This Situation?

[Oppositionless]

1 hour ago, Oppositionless said:

@Miguel1 I'm going to an Osho dynamic meditation meetup in an hour, if all the women are normies I'll let you know. 

Okay it got canceled because of extreme cold.

[Miguel1]

@aurum For someone to be a solid green, surely they have to care about self-improvement. At least to a degree. You are not born into green, as the gravitational pull of humanity is much lower.

You gotta do a lot of self-reflection and introspection to get there. Seems like we have a different definition of self-improvement. To me, psychological and moral growth belongs in it too, most definitely.

I agree that the girl doesnt have to be Tier 2 sage, but a stage blue or orange is too low in self-developmental level for me. I will not be able to have any meaningful conversations whatsoever at all, which is important for me to be able to be had with my partner. And they will most likely be holding back my growth — as we will be discussing our days and lives, and I will have to be too covert with what to tell them, which in itself already is too sneaky and hinders growth of practicing more honesty and truth.

I am also not looking for a mother of my kids. I am looking for a feminine intimate partner, yes.

 

Edited 7 hours ago by Miguel1

[Miguel1]

@Oppositionless

Meditation and healing centers are not the places to intentionally go and do dating in. We gotta respect the environment.

[aurum]

 

1 hour ago, Miguel1 said:

I agree that the girl doesnt have to be Tier 2 sage, but a stage blue or orange is too low in self-developmental level for me. I will not be able to have any meaningful conversations whatsoever at all, which is important for me to be able to be had with my partner. And they will most likely be holding back my growth — as we will be discussing our days and lives, and I will have to be too covert with what to tell them, which in itself already is too sneaky and hinders growth of practicing more honesty and truth.

I am also not looking for a mother of my kids. I am looking for a feminine intimate partner, yes.

But what is a meaningful conversation exactly? Talking about spirituality and philosophy?

If so, I do not find that is where intimacy comes from in a polarity relationship.

I like when she pulls me out of my head, not into it.

[Miguel1]

@aurum Like I said, she doesn’t have to be a Tier 2 sage.

My mind is very active and I need to engage it relatively often. Spending time being present with your intimate partner? Sure, of course. But it also gets boring after a while. And a life partner is one that you spend a decent amount of time with.

I am not wired to sit still and be present all the time. I need to be proactively working on a bigger vision. And to daydream and think big.

People are wired differently, and that’s okay.

Finally, I don’t think you answered the part of our question where we asked: what values are you looking for in a partner?

Edited 1 hour ago by Miguel1