How do you deal with your superficiality?

[Eskilon]

Yes, you are superficial and your love is probably skin-deep, but how do you deal with it?

I am contemplating the transactional, ugly and conditional side of love and relationships, so here goes some things:

Don't you find it ugly that a girl/guy needs to look a certain way for you to be interested? Hell, for you to even look at them and not to dismiss them entirely?

It needs to have a certain kind of appearance, a certain kind of personality, a certain kind of goals. Isnt this a bunch of BS and ugliness? Why so conditional? 

And even when the person do meet your extensive criteria, do you even meet them really? Do you have meet her/his self? Or do you only ever really touch its personality -- the constructed self.

How do you manage the long list of if statements that a person needs to pass for you to want to relate with intimacy or even to interact with? 

Also, for people that are into spirituality and have found deeper levels of love, why do you keep searching for conditional and not so true love?

Edited 2 hours ago by Eskilon

[CARDOZZO]

Actually, I like woman in general between the ages of 18-60. I do not look for appearances. I just want to fuck. Ugly, fat, strange, tall, short, beauty or not, I will do it.

For a relationship I would be more specific on details of personality/beauty.

Edited 2 hours ago by CARDOZZO