Done Going To NA Meetings

[UnbornTao]

@SQAAD I wasn't attacking your situation, but the victim mindset you seem to have fallen into. Ask yourself whether you want to continue whining, or whether you're willing to do something about it. Otherwise, what are you doing - complaining and blaming "the world" for your experience of life? How is that higher consciousness?

[Joseph Maynor]

Much of our language appears to be an attempt at self-soothing.

[SQAAD]

Every 22 year old, living in his mother's basement forms an opinion about me without having met me in real life.

People know they know something based on their very limited and distorted ability to understand stuff.

I have survived on the streets , living in harsh conditions while at the same time maintaining peak physical condition. Meditating everyday without fail. Attending NA meetings & etc.

Some of you, the biggest struggle you have faced was that one time you ran out of toilet paper because your mom didn't buy you enough resources.

>=50% of you would not survive 2 weeks in my living situation.

Your Egoic reactions are just training for me.

Have a nice life. See you when Life begins hitting you really hard.

Edited 10 hours ago by SQAAD

[theleelajoker]

19 hours ago, UnbornTao said:

@SQAAD I wasn't attacking your situation, but the victim mindset you seem to have fallen into. Ask yourself whether you want to continue whining, or whether you're willing to do something about it. Otherwise, what are you doing - complaining and blaming "the world" for your experience of life? How is that higher consciousness?

That won't help. You need experiences to change attitude, not words. They will (likely) only trigger defense mechanisms (guilt, shame) and push a person deeper into victim mode.

"What? It's my fault? Can't be! I am going to my fortress and man my walls to shoot anyone claiming that. This will show everyone how great I am"

[UnbornTao]

15 minutes ago, theleelajoker said:

That won't help. You need experiences to change attitude, not words. They will (likely) only trigger defense mechanisms (guilt, shame) and push a person deeper into victim mode.

"What? It's my fault? Can't be! I am going to my fortress and man my walls to shoot anyone claiming that. This will show everyone how great I am"

Yeah, seems like matching their energy (for lack of a better term) through words didn't help much.

Edited 9 hours ago by UnbornTao

[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 hour ago, SQAAD said:

Every 22 year old, living in his mother's basement forms an opinion about me without having met me in real life.

People know they know something based on their very limited and distorted ability to understand stuff.

Upset others make assumptions toward your situation. Dislikes judgement/discernment from others.

1 hour ago, SQAAD said:

Some of you, the biggest struggle you have faced was that one time you ran out of toilet paper because your mom didn't buy you enough resources.

>=50% of you would not survive 2 weeks in my living situation.

Makes assumptions about others. Judgements about others.

Do you see how you do the exact same thing you dislike in others? Precisely what I raised earlier.

[theleelajoker]

6 hours ago, UnbornTao said:

Yeah, seems like matching their energy (for lack of a better term) through words didn't help much.

Of course, you're working with limited tools. Words only without any body language, eye contact etc