negative feelings

[Shermaningeorgia]

29 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

So we are responsible for how we react? You evade an answer because this hits on the bias. 

Slippery.

I was shaped by myself, my actions and my responses. And I chose to react this way. Conditioning is definitely present. But it is not the whole story. And to paint it as such is a limited view.

My force of will meant that despite being attractive, I never treated this as a value. I never judged another person for how they looked. I treated all equally. 

Not all attractive women are as you say. The world is not so black and white. Perfectionist and polarised thinking can be a flaw as everything is nuanced somewhat. 

I do not take offence you may choose to fight, dislike or hate me for being born a certain way. This has nothing to do with me. But I am saddened by you viewing everything as an enemy 😕

Can you see how you would reject open connection from a women if you maintain this judgement? 

I stand by my points and views. If they're imperfect, so be it. And yes, we do have agency as humans. Just because we're in x manner, doesnt' mean we cannot consciously choose not to be in x manner. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 hour ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

I stand by my points and views. If they're imperfect, so be it. And yes, we do have agency as humans. Just because we're in x manner, doesnt' mean we cannot consciously choose not to be in x manner. 

Then why are you posting? 

This is a reach for feedback, no?

It's not about being perfect. Shit my head is spinning - there's a lot of cognitive dissonance here and I guarantee you that is causing a lot of bad feeling emotions. Even if you aren't aware of them.

Been there.

Edited 15 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[Hojo]

You aren't even standing by them, you are abandoning them by ignoring the deeper questions.

Like if your wife gets harassed at the bar and you say I stand by you, then leave the bar and when she comes out beaten up you stand by her there.

Edited 15 hours ago by Hojo

[Ulax]

5 hours ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

in life there are enemies. only spiritualists who seek to mislead say otherwise. go back in time to LA, GA, or MS in the year 1867, and tell black people that the early KKK wasn't an enemy to them. see how far you get. tell people today in Ukraine that Russian soliders aren't enemies to them. reality is one thing. Idealistic BS from some guru is another.

I get you bro. What you say here makes sense.

But i still think seeing all pretty ladies as the enemy is a mistake. Too much generalisation, and does their behaviour warrant such a dangerous title of enemy?

[Shermaningeorgia]

13 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Then why are you posting? 

This is a reach for feedback, no?

It's not about being perfect. Shit my head is spinning - there's a lot of cognitive dissonance here and I guarantee you that is causing a lot of bad feeling emotions. Even if you aren't aware of them.

Been there.

Since you like to regulate and apportion rights. I’d argue why others must heed your almighty inklings. Apparently it’s ok for others to post but not me. But it’s all on you isn’t it? 

Edited 2 hours ago by Shermaningeorgia

[Shermaningeorgia]

11 hours ago, Ulax said:

I get you bro. What you say here makes sense.

But i still think seeing all pretty ladies as the enemy is a mistake. Too much generalisation, and does their behaviour warrant such a dangerous title of enemy?

I hold no obligation to tolerate those who are negative influences. 

[Ulax]

1 hour ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

I hold no obligation to tolerate those who are negative influences. 

Well if you don't tolerate, then developed countries will sentence you to prison

But maybe you mean tolerate differently than i am thinking

Edited 49 minutes ago by Ulax