negative feelings

[Shermaningeorgia]

I dislike pretty ladies. i think they're bad people and scummy. People will respond "but theyr'e nice to their families!" Yes, most humans are by design. that's a low bar. Hitler was nice to his family, even though he called his sisters dumb geese. He literally died with his wife. People need a harder definition of "nice", at least to convince me. Most gangsters, dictators, etc. are. nice to their families. 

I view them as negative since I dislike their BS. 

Here's my theory:

- in their tweens, they get spoiled. This affects them psychologically. Then they develop in puberty, and due to male attention, this gets fixed. For the rest of their lives, they are then haughty and arrogant. And bullies. 

- they thus become toxic asf. 

I've personally had enough of them. I cannot live normally due to them. They are offended at me living normally. I'm just one person, so I'm amused I'm that important for them to give a fuck about. They are socially shot. They cannot control themselves properly.

 

For instance, lately I was in a supermarket, and some hot bitch lady worker was there and came into my aisle and nudged me aside to restock. I said to her loudly, "Do not nudge me, pretty BITCH!!" Sorry, but nobody else gets nudged, so not me. Why not? If that reality offends people, so be it. That's a silly thing to get offended by, even if offence is relative (and people say that as a meta point, not as a real-life actionable reality, but then if people are dumb and cannot comprehend stuff, so be it). 

I do this most of the time, since they deserve it. I even anticipate it. Like I was in London before Christmas, and some Spanish-speaking tourists wheeled their luggage into me so fast from the opposite direction that I couldn't avoid them, so I said "follares tus madres!!" loudly. Tourists should be more humble. 

I've only started to think this a few years ago, since I realised they are my enemies and i must respond to their bs. They cannot deny me normalcy any longer.

And I don't date. It's not about them not wantingto date me. i just hate them since their natures are dark, and they lack the smarts or integrity to realise they can realise and overcome privilege. Rich people do it. Royalty do it. They can too. but no....them getting spoilt in their tweens is it.

 

 

[Hojo]

Lol. Why you so mad ? Imagine focusing on a certain group thats not even real ( woman you find attractive) so much for no reason. 

Did you ever want to date beautiful woman?

Being beautiful isn't a choice and dosent define personality. You cant even see your own face.

How do you know nobody else gets nudged? You can see the conclusions you jump to to make it offensive as possible. This is schizophrenia.

Edited 15 hours ago by Hojo

[Ulax]

I think your generalisation is too extreme, and its abusive to call someone a bitch in that situation. And this enemies talk is something i'd work on. But i can understand why you think the way you do about the enemies thing, and i can understand the desire to call someone an insult in that situation.

I do think there is something about the way women are currently socialised which lends itself to a sizable demographic of women being rude, and not getting held accountable for it. 

I'd be careful of that hatred though mate. It probably is also not just caused by women you have negative interactions with. 

Edited 15 hours ago by Ulax

[Shermaningeorgia]

20 minutes ago, Hojo said:

Lol. Why you so mad ? Imagine focusing on a certain group thats not even real ( woman you find attractive) so much for no reason. 

Did you ever want to date beautiful woman?

Being beautiful isn't a choice and dosent define personality. You cant even see your own face.

How do you know nobody else gets nudged? You can see the conclusions you jump to to make it offensive as possible. This is schizophrenia.

hotness and looks exist. don't gaslight me or mislead me. 

[Shermaningeorgia]

19 minutes ago, Ulax said:

I think your generalisation is too extreme, and its abusive to call someone a bitch in that situation. And this enemies talk is something i'd work on. But i can understand why you think the way you do about the enemies thing, and i can understand the desire to call someone an insult in that situation.

I do think there is something about the way women are currently socialised which lends itself to a sizable demographic of women being rude, and not getting held accountable for it. 

I'd be careful of that hatred though mate. It probably is also not just caused by women you have negative interactions with. 

in life there are enemies. only spiritualists who seek to mislead say otherwise. go back in time to LA, GA, or MS in the year 1867, and tell black people that the early KKK wasn't an enemy to them. see how far you get. tell people today in Ukraine that Russian soliders aren't enemies to them. reality is one thing. Idealistic BS from some guru is another.

[Hojo]

@Shermaningeorgia Why do you think the hot woman only nudged you and no one else?

[Hojo]

Here's an anecdote one time I was riding the bus with my girlfriend and we were just chilling and a crazy man got off but he got off very aggressively and before he got off he went up to my girlfriends face and gave her the finger very aggressively. Nothing was happening but the crazy man was making up a random story about her cause she was hot. This is where this mindset will take you.

There is a point of no return.

Edited 14 hours ago by Hojo

[Shermaningeorgia]

5 minutes ago, Hojo said:

Here's an anecdote one time I was riding the bus with my girlfriend and we were just chilling and a crazy man got off but he got off very aggressively and before he got off he went up to my girlfriends face and gave her the finger very aggressively. Nothing was happening but the crazy man was making up a random story about her cause she was hot. This is where this mindset will take you.

There is a point of no return.

No, i'm not crazy at all. but then i'll go elsewhere for one's mindgames. though judging by your photo, it fits with your kind. 

[Shermaningeorgia]

@Hojo

6 minutes ago, Hojo said:

Here's an anecdote one time I was riding the bus with my girlfriend and we were just chilling and a crazy man got off but he got off very aggressively and before he got off he went up to my girlfriends face and gave her the finger very aggressively. Nothing was happening but the crazy man was making up a random story about her cause she was hot. This is where this mindset will take you.

There is a point of no return.

No, i'm not crazy at all. but then i'll go elsewhere for one's mindgames. though judging by your photo, it fits with your kind. 

[Hojo]

@Shermaningeorgia I'm a man. Judging photos is your problem. This is the perfect mirror of what you are doing.

You are judging photos irl when you have no idea who you are talking too. You thought I was a snot nosed teenie self absorbed woman when I'm a man trying to help you.

Edited 14 hours ago by Hojo

[UnbornTao]

Welcome to the forum.

It's "Me follaré a tus madres." 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

36 minutes ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

hotness and looks exist. don't gaslight me or mislead me. 

Are these women responsible for how they look? 

Or responsible for their actions? 

This is a distinction you need to be clear on, to break free of the burden of these judgements. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

20 minutes ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

@Hojo

No, i'm not crazy at all. but then i'll go elsewhere for one's mindgames. though judging by your photo, it fits with your kind. 

@Hojo is a man. 

He has revealed the bias you have.

[Shermaningeorgia]

Just now, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Are these women responsible for how they look? 

Or responsible for their actions? 

This is a distinction you need to be clear on, to break free of the burden of these judgements. 

One presumes early in your life, you got rewarded for your opinions, and thus this is why. it's why you apparently get to determine who is wrong for prejudice. your opinion, your whim. loooool. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

4 minutes ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

One presumes early in your life, you got rewarded for your opinions, and thus this is why. it's why you apparently get to determine who is wrong for prejudice. your opinion, your whim. loooool. 

So you are saying we have no choice in the matter - regarding how we react? 

[Shermaningeorgia]

11 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

So you are saying we have no choice in the matter - regarding how we react? 

We're invariably shaped by our environment. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

2 minutes ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

We're invariably shaped by our environment. 

Do you think you have any choice or agency in how you act to influence change? 

I want you to see how this can feed into victim mindset.

Edited 13 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[Shermaningeorgia]

Just now, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Do you think you have any choice or agency in how you act to influence change? 

I want you to see how this can feed into victim mindset.

In honesty, I don't remember my youth that much. My character is shaped by conscious effort as an adult, largely. But I'm just one person. And we are shaped by our environment.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Just now, Shermaningeorgia said:

In honesty, I don't remember my youth that much. My character is shaped by conscious effort as an adult, largely. But I'm just one person. And we are shaped by our environment.

So we are responsible for how we react? You evade an answer because this hits on the bias. 

Slippery.

I was shaped by myself, my actions and my responses. And I chose to react this way. Conditioning is definitely present. But it is not the whole story. And to paint it as such is a limited view.

My force of will meant that despite being attractive, I never treated this as a value. I never judged another person for how they looked. I treated all equally. 

Not all attractive women are as you say. The world is not so black and white. Perfectionist and polarised thinking can be a flaw as everything is nuanced somewhat. 

I do not take offence you may choose to fight, dislike or hate me for being born a certain way. This has nothing to do with me. But I am saddened by you viewing everything as an enemy 😕

Can you see how you would reject open connection from a women if you maintain this judgement? 

[Hojo]

@Shermaningeorgia You are consciously getting angry at hot woman because you want to be angry at them? Getting mad hurts your body more than anyone else's.

Edited 13 hours ago by Hojo