negative feelings

[Shermaningeorgia]

29 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

So we are responsible for how we react? You evade an answer because this hits on the bias. 

Slippery.

I was shaped by myself, my actions and my responses. And I chose to react this way. Conditioning is definitely present. But it is not the whole story. And to paint it as such is a limited view.

My force of will meant that despite being attractive, I never treated this as a value. I never judged another person for how they looked. I treated all equally. 

Not all attractive women are as you say. The world is not so black and white. Perfectionist and polarised thinking can be a flaw as everything is nuanced somewhat. 

I do not take offence you may choose to fight, dislike or hate me for being born a certain way. This has nothing to do with me. But I am saddened by you viewing everything as an enemy 😕

Can you see how you would reject open connection from a women if you maintain this judgement? 

I stand by my points and views. If they're imperfect, so be it. And yes, we do have agency as humans. Just because we're in x manner, doesnt' mean we cannot consciously choose not to be in x manner. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 hour ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

I stand by my points and views. If they're imperfect, so be it. And yes, we do have agency as humans. Just because we're in x manner, doesnt' mean we cannot consciously choose not to be in x manner. 

Then why are you posting? 

This is a reach for feedback, no?

It's not about being perfect. Shit my head is spinning - there's a lot of cognitive dissonance here and I guarantee you that is causing a lot of bad feeling emotions. Even if you aren't aware of them.

Been there.

Edited 19 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[Hojo]

You aren't even standing by them, you are abandoning them by ignoring the deeper questions.

Like if your wife gets harassed at the bar and you say I stand by you, then leave the bar and when she comes out beaten up you stand by her there.

Edited 19 hours ago by Hojo

[Ulax]

5 hours ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

in life there are enemies. only spiritualists who seek to mislead say otherwise. go back in time to LA, GA, or MS in the year 1867, and tell black people that the early KKK wasn't an enemy to them. see how far you get. tell people today in Ukraine that Russian soliders aren't enemies to them. reality is one thing. Idealistic BS from some guru is another.

I get you bro. What you say here makes sense.

But i still think seeing all pretty ladies as the enemy is a mistake. Too much generalisation, and does their behaviour warrant such a dangerous title of enemy?

[Shermaningeorgia]

13 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Then why are you posting? 

This is a reach for feedback, no?

It's not about being perfect. Shit my head is spinning - there's a lot of cognitive dissonance here and I guarantee you that is causing a lot of bad feeling emotions. Even if you aren't aware of them.

Been there.

Since you like to regulate and apportion rights. I’d argue why others must heed your almighty inklings. Apparently it’s ok for others to post but not me. But it’s all on you isn’t it? 

Edited 5 hours ago by Shermaningeorgia

[Shermaningeorgia]

11 hours ago, Ulax said:

I get you bro. What you say here makes sense.

But i still think seeing all pretty ladies as the enemy is a mistake. Too much generalisation, and does their behaviour warrant such a dangerous title of enemy?

I hold no obligation to tolerate those who are negative influences. 

[Ulax]

1 hour ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

I hold no obligation to tolerate those who are negative influences. 

Well if you don't tolerate, then developed countries will sentence you to prison

But maybe you mean tolerate differently than i am thinking

Edited 4 hours ago by Ulax

[Entrepreneur]

20 hours ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

I dislike pretty ladies. i think they're bad people and scummy. People will respond "but theyr'e nice to their families!" Yes, most humans are by design. that's a low bar. Hitler was nice to his family, even though he called his sisters dumb geese. He literally died with his wife. People need a harder definition of "nice", at least to convince me. Most gangsters, dictators, etc. are. nice to their families. 

I view them as negative since I dislike their BS. 

Here's my theory:

- in their tweens, they get spoiled. This affects them psychologically. Then they develop in puberty, and due to male attention, this gets fixed. For the rest of their lives, they are then haughty and arrogant. And bullies. 

- they thus become toxic asf. 

I've personally had enough of them. I cannot live normally due to them. They are offended at me living normally. I'm just one person, so I'm amused I'm that important for them to give a fuck about. They are socially shot. They cannot control themselves properly.

 

For instance, lately I was in a supermarket, and some hot bitch lady worker was there and came into my aisle and nudged me aside to restock. I said to her loudly, "Do not nudge me, pretty BITCH!!" Sorry, but nobody else gets nudged, so not me. Why not? If that reality offends people, so be it. That's a silly thing to get offended by, even if offence is relative (and people say that as a meta point, not as a real-life actionable reality, but then if people are dumb and cannot comprehend stuff, so be it). 

I do this most of the time, since they deserve it. I even anticipate it. Like I was in London before Christmas, and some Spanish-speaking tourists wheeled their luggage into me so fast from the opposite direction that I couldn't avoid them, so I said "follares tus madres!!" loudly. Tourists should be more humble. 

I've only started to think this a few years ago, since I realised they are my enemies and i must respond to their bs. They cannot deny me normalcy any longer.

And I don't date. It's not about them not wantingto date me. i just hate them since their natures are dark, and they lack the smarts or integrity to realise they can realise and overcome privilege. Rich people do it. Royalty do it. They can too. but no....them getting spoilt in their tweens is it.

 

 

I wish I knew you in person so I could follow you around in life with a video camera.

Your intensity must be absolutely hilarious to your closest friends.    I was drinking coffee when I read your "Don't nudge me, pretty BITCH!!" - almost spit it out.   That is some funny shit!

It is like coming across one of those little lap dogs that is going to try to bite your ankle no matter how nice you are too it.  You reach out to pet it.  It tries to take your finger.  You give it a little kick.  It comes at you like baby Cujo!   Or it's like that Monte Python Spamalot skit where the knight has his arms and leggs chopped off and says "I'll bite your ankles!"

When I was younger there were a few times when I went off the rails like this around my closest buddies.   They would always laugh their assess off, mock me for being crazy, and then get me to snap back to reality.  Thank god for those buddies.

[aurum]

@Shermaningeorgia 

Heal your wounds with women.

Your anger is obvious.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

5 hours ago, Shermaningeorgia said:

Since you like to regulate and apportion rights. I’d argue why others must heed your almighty inklings. Apparently it’s ok for others to post but not me. But it’s all on you isn’t it? 

Never said anything about what you are allowed or not allowed to do.

Have a read of the post again.

There is always a reason we post - what did you want to discuss if not to have your ideas challenged? And when they were challenged, it appeared you threw away rationality and doubled down.

So I ask again - what is really at stake here?