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Pickup artists would be great nazis

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12 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Leo Gura i mean it works in club culture mostly if you're talking to dozens of girls per week. Then yeah obviously some of them will get attracted to you. It's just mathematics. 

You can also get better at it, in the sense of developing your social personality. 

The principles of attraction work regardless of where or when.

Any girl I talk to, anywhere on Earth, will like me more thanks to the skills pickup has taught me. Your mom will like me more.

Pickup is not just going to clubs or approaching lots of girls. It is an internalized model of how women work and the skills to handle them. It's also a lot of inner game stuff.

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2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

It just works.

Todd?

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I'd say this is more true of pick up influencer culture, rather than all who partake in pick up.

 


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On 18/02/2026 at 0:25 AM, Lila9 said:

Especially the predator mindset, sleeping with as many women as possible while providing them no value in return and scaling women.

They have no idea how traumatizing and humiliating this is for women, and they don’t care because they don’t view us as human.

I am traumatized from men’s objectification for my entire life and from men who coldly approached me in public in my most vulnerable years and states, when I was eating, when I was waiting at a bus station and couldn’t leave, when I worked as a cashier, when I was in a new city and needed guidance (some creep actually followed me).

I get your point about scaling, and stalkers.

But I don't get how sleeping with as many women with possible is something wrong to do. Look if someone is decieving a girl into thinking they are looking for something more than they are, then yeah that isn't right. But as long as there is consent and no abuse/ manipulation, then i don't see the issue.

Also, a woman can just not sleep around with dudes, if they find casual sex demeaning. Consensual casual sex takes two to tango.

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1 hour ago, UnbornTao said:

Todd?

16 times the detail.


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The posts on this forum are getting more detached from reality with every month lmao. That is like saying that everybody who hunts game for meat is a nazi. Nothing wrong with hunting for some wild game or for a piece of ass, as long as it is fair game.


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On 2/25/2026 at 11:06 PM, AION said:

The posts on this forum are getting more detached from reality with every month lmao. That is like saying that everybody who hunts game for meat is a nazi. Nothing wrong with hunting for some wild game or for a piece of ass, as long as it is fair game.

It was not the best comparison to be honest. By the way top nazi leaders loved hunting in nature. 

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On 25/02/2026 at 10:36 PM, Ulax said:

I get your point about scaling, and stalkers.

But I don't get how sleeping with as many women with possible is something wrong to do. Look if someone is decieving a girl into thinking they are looking for something more than they are, then yeah that isn't right. But as long as there is consent and no abuse/ manipulation, then i don't see the issue.

Also, a woman can just not sleep around with dudes, if they find casual sex demeaning. Consensual casual sex takes two to tango.

A man who has the goal of sleeping with as many women as possible has a low-conscious and ignorant approach, in my opinion, and I will soon explain why.

First of all, men with this view are very irresponsible and don’t consider the risks they put women into. Most of the time, they spread sexually transmitted diseases because they don’t do checkups. Additionally, they don’t consider contraceptives, and all the burden falls on women.

Secondly, it ignores the power dynamics and the differences between men and women. It is not a secret that most men (and women) learn about sex from porn, in which women are objectified, and this view makes hookups very mechanical and lifeless (non-erotic).

Women participate in this, mostly young and inexperienced women usually as a way to discover their sexuality. Some women, mainly in the West, feel pressure to participate in hookup culture in order to feel empowered because this is what women were told empowerment is to be like a man, to work like a man, to sleep like a man which is just liberal nonsense that is still rooted in misogyny. What is wrong with doing things like a woman? Secondly, it is an anti-feminist view, even if it is disguised as feminism, because it doesn’t question patriarchy, which is a system that favors men and masculinity; it only tries to cope with it, which is not beneficial to women.

Regardless of the reason, in an ideal society they could be doing that in a safe way if men were safer and didn’t view sex as a tool to dominate, humiliate, and control women. But in reality, unfortunately, sex involves more risk for women. Women are more vulnerable in hookups, and they gain nothing from it. Men at least gain some orgasm, higher self-esteem (because manhood in our society is tied to how many women you sleep with), and acceptance from other men. Women in most cases gain nothing only risks and they are less likely to orgasm from a one-night stand with a man who likely doesn’t care about her or her pleasure, but only his.

Why is sleeping with as many women as possible a low-conscious goal? Because it doesn’t benefit women, puts them at unnecessary risk, and given the power dynamics in our society, is exploitative and predatory.

Additionally, many men use sex as a tool for validation and approval and as a form of distraction from inner unresolved trauma and insecurity. Usually, men who sleep with as many women as possible don’t feel fulfilled either.

A more conscious approach would be to work on trauma and approach sex more seriously and consciously, as a way to heal both participants, to transform, to reach mutual pleasure, and to connect to another human being. In such a case, there is no compulsion toward quantity, but rather toward quality and intention.

I think that while we live in a very sexualized society, it is still very ignorant about sex and approaches it in a very low-conscious and harmful way. Since we live in a capitalistic society, which is basically a death cult that values material things more than humans, this materialistic approach is poisoning sex as well, causing humans to ignore their humanity and see both themselves and others as objects and masturbation tools rather than living human beings. Our society lacks eroticism (life) in a very fundamental way. Patriarchy, porn and capitalism killed it.


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