Thoughts on Bonnie Blue and Sex positivity/Negativity?

[Basman]

The kind of stunts that Bonnie Blue and her ilk pull off are just marketing so they never have to work again past their 30s. It's boundary pushing for the sake of notoriety. Not because there is any philosophical thought to it. They have to keep upping themselves to keep people's attention.

The downside of notoriety like that is that people will only know you for "that thing", like how Rebecca Black will forever be known as the Friday girl. She's a DJ and every set people shout "It's Friday Friday". Whenever people learn that your Bonnie Blue they'll only wanna talk about the same thing and think of you as a degenerate. At least be known for something cool I'd say.

[WillCameron]

21 hours ago, LordFall said:

I would disagree. She is single handedly challenging the taboos on sexuality worldwide. Her exploration of sexuality is beyond what most people on earth and even on this forum are willing to explore. She's perhaps the closest person on earth to something like infinite sexuality.

I'm not sure exactly what you mean by "challenging the taboos" and how that has a positive effect. Could you say a bit more about what she's doing and how that is expanding the conversation on sexuality in a positive way? I feel like you're making an interesting point but I'd like to see it fully fleshed out.

[Shermaningeorgia]

Swinging and orgies are still minority activities. That doesn't mean they're bad, but then what modern sex positivity has done has illuminated really what has always been there. It's not as if the masses are swinging.

Bonnie Blue is only really being blown up by the conservatives, many of whom are actually porn users. So they are feeding thir own monster. 

 

[Salvijus]

Maybe you could make an argument that it requires immense unconditional love to be willing to mingle with any random person indiscriminately. Maybe there is an element of unconditional surrender in that and you could link it to enlightenment of some sort. But you'd have to do it without numbing yourself with drugs and alcohol for it to count imo. From what I heard most sex workers are always on some meds or drugs, often on the verge of suicide aswell, unable to bear the anguish. Maybe this one is different, don't know. 

Edited 8 hours ago by Salvijus

[Salvijus]

On 2025-12-17 at 10:52 PM, LordFall said:

Shows that it's a massive deal because they're pushing the boundaries of what's acceptable in society

An argument could be made that they are normalizing unhealthy behavior aswell maybe. Hard to tell. 

[Basman]

Sex negativity is more damaging than sex positivity.

Historically, people are going to have sex regardless of how repressive a culture is, they'll just won't be open about it. They make up weird loop holes, like it is only sex if its vaginal. You can facefuck a girl till she vomits but she's still a kosher and halal unsullied and pure virgin.

[Schizophonia]

It's obvious she doesn't take any pleasure