Realizing memorizing lines is not the way to learn how to talk to girls

[Zen LaCroix]

So I guess I'm just gonna have to throw myself into the approaches without anything prepped except maybe an opener

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, Miguel1 said:

Perhaps, similarly to how some people are spiritually very gifted / natural.

Ironically they are not necessarily even conscious of how conscious they are, compared to someone who had to put more effort to become as conscious 

Of course.

That's exactly what Peter Ralson is.

[Zen LaCroix]

54 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Of course.

That's exactly what Peter Ralson is.

It's the same with you Leo. I'm not sure if you are aware how intelligent and intellectual you come across in your videos

Edited July 17 by Zen LaCroix

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, Zen LaCroix said:

It's the same with you Leo. I'm not sure if you are aware how intelligent and intellectual you come across in your videos

I am aware but I am not allowed to say it or else you guys call me a narcissist.

[samijiben]

27 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

I am aware but I am not allowed to say it or else you guys call me a narcissist.

Everyone, don't freak out, he's just practicing his humor muscle (tho I think it's fully flexed)

[Andrey]

Every youtuber is more or less a narcissist

[Princess Arabia]

4 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I am aware but I am not allowed to say it or else you guys call me a narcissist.

You just said it indirectly, you narcissist you, hehe. 

[Princess Arabia]

2 hours ago, Andrey said:

Every youtuber is more or less a narcissist

Lol. This statement doesn't even register. Trying to make it make sense but I just can't.

[Someone here]

6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I am aware but I am not allowed to say it or else you guys call me a narcissist.

[meta_male]

4 hours ago, Andrey said:

Every youtuber is more or less a narcissist

Translation: I hate when people show up louder than me.

Not everyone who does youtube is a narcissist, some just aren’t cowards.

[Zen LaCroix]

On 7/16/2025 at 4:46 AM, Leo Gura said:

You stop asking questions when you are truly in a play frame.

You're not a in play frame because you are stuck in your logical mind, afraid of rejection and caring out outcome.

So if we just take massive action and approach back to back will this put us in this play frame where we no longer have the issue of not knowing what to say

I keep hearing coaches say approach a lot to get in state reach the "indifference threshold" but never actually experienced it myself

[Leo Gura]

8 minutes ago, Zen LaCroix said:

So if we just take massive action and approach back to back will this put us in this play frame where we no longer have the issue of not knowing what to say

That's generally how it works. Each approach builds up state until eventually you stop giving a fuck entirely and you enter a flow state.

But you have to rebuild it every night.

Still, you can enter state much faster if you consciously enter into play rather than just hoping that many approaches will brute force you into it.

And sometimes you may just not be in a playful mood, in which case go home and do something else.

The whole point of going out to engage in nightlife is because you want to have fun. Don't overlook something so basic. If you aren't having fun you are missing the whole point. The problem then is that you have a stick up your ass that needs removing.

See, you gotta ask the deeper question: Why are you so anti fun? Who hurt you?

Edited July 29 by Leo Gura