Why Are Men Chasing Women?

[Schizophonia]

5 minutes ago, Eskilon said:

No, to give is to be selfless, and people are ugly selfish. They want to receive and give nothing or very little.

I talk about what feeling love is fundamentally about 

[Puer Aeternus]

3 minutes ago, Eskilon said:

Yes. But what you are talking is not true giving -- it is false altruism. I am talking about true selflessness -- which exist but is very very rare.

Okay yeah that's a fair distinction! Then yes, by that definition it's very rare.

Edited June 19 by Puer Aeternus

[Basman]

Sexual asymmetry. You only need one guy to impregnate a hundred women. Women just need to select so men have to chase or they get none. Men generally live in relative sexual scarcity compared to women. 

[AION]

57 minutes ago, eTorro said:

Hi.

I notice at work that whenever a new female co-worker gets the job, most men orbit around her. They come talk to her in the hopes that she'll give them attention and go out with them.

Why are men so driven to get a woman? I seriously don't get it.

Because I see what's happening at work. The chasing and the 'desperate' attitude that men have just to get a woman.

This may not be the perfect topic, but that is what I saw: most men are desperate to get a woman. And that's not vice versa: women aren't desperate to get a man.

What are your thoughts on this?

Bro you need to take biology 101 instead of opening a thread 

[Keryo Koffa]

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The two-sex division was adopted, separating and balancing these most necessary
but seemingly opposing tendencies. Only beginning consciousness needs these kind of
controls. The anima and the animus, therefore, are embedded deeply with their
necessary complementary but apparently opposed tendencies, and they are highly
important in maintaining the very nature of your human consciousness.

There is also a natural tension, then, between sexes that is based on far deeper
causes than physical ones. The tension results from the nature of your consciousness
that arises from the anima, but depends its continuation upon the "aggressiveness" of
the animus. I have to me extent explained the fascination that one has for the other, as
suiting from the inner knowledge of the whole self, that strives to attain true identity as
it struggles to combine and fulfill the seemingly opposite tendencies that are a part of it.

Humans bodies tend to come gender polarized,
externally projecting complementary dynamics.

[eTorro]

1 hour ago, Nemra said:

Maybe you don't have the feeling to chase them?

I never chase women because it makes me less masculine. They always come to me. And it's not an ego game.

The question is: "Why are men running after women?"

"To get pussy. To have sex." Let's cut the bullshit.

But the question is deeper, because I see desperation. 

Why?

[Schizophonia]

5 hours ago, eTorro said:

I never chase women because it makes me less masculine. They always come to me. And it's not an ego game.

Chasing is masculine, but climbing is feminine.

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The question is: "Why are men running after women?"

"To get pussy. To have sex." Let's cut the bullshit.

But the question is deeper, because I see desperation. 

Why?

To avoid becoming suicidal or sociopathic when you realize that no one wants you; Because you’re ugly or too this or too that…

Especially if the rest of your life is generally hard.

Edited June 19 by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

The more I stop getting attached, the more typically masculine I become, but also more morbid.

[Keryo Koffa]

Basic gist: validation, self-worth, ego complexes, expectation, programming.
Projecting repressed parts outwards to find within others for reconciliation.
Requiring others to contrast one's polarized persona, to keep up identities.

Edited June 19 by Keryo Koffa

[Princess Arabia]

Because feminine energy energizes male energy. Gives it a sense of purpose and meaning. Without it, they feel lonely and weak. Plus pussy is good, let's be real here. Hehe. Meow!

Edited Friday at 01:31 AM by Princess Arabia

[meta_male]

Men never stop chasing pussy. They just evolve the camouflage...now it's depth and philosophy. Also, the denial of the chase makes it look cooler.

[Nemra]

17 hours ago, eTorro said:

But the question is deeper, because I see desperation. 

Why?

I guess, various psychological factors. However, I don't have the feeling to chase.